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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Nobody: 5:40pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Hide it? Definitely not. The relationship will shatter someday that the truth will come into limelight. U're just meeting the wrong people. The right man won't have any slight problem with u having had a child. Me abandon my Babe cos she had a child? Make I hear. Some of these ladies that'll even claim virgins already aborted up to 5 times. Many more get climbed 3 times a day and yet they've had no child. Who's even a saint 2 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ghostmist: 5:47pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
nasha1:I believe we are having a civil discussion here, so you can do away with the insults. You ought to be a lady...so quit the cussing. You come across as one who is extremely aggressive...believe me, you could find it difficult hitching a man with that attitude. Besides, the case in question happened (or is happening) in Nigeria. Here, our girls aren't used to initiating relationships; they may show a man the green light, but are too fearful to outrightly initiate a relationship...those occurances you mentioned are the exceptions and not the norm. And again...Learn how to stay on the topic...stop digging out stuffs from peoples posts with malicious intent, either to disparage or demean them. It is very uncool and i am too adroit to do that to you...believe me, you ain't gonna like it if someone does it to you. I am older than you young lady, with 2 degrees already. Show some respect! 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:25pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
octopusfreaky:Abi na |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TonyeBarcanista(m): 6:31pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Barzinime:And who castigated her? The truth may hurt but it has to be said... |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Sierusvirus(m): 6:48pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Kondomatic: Bro, don't mind her foolish mentality |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Ojukwubucket(m): 7:04pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:But y u go act like Yoruba girls na... Maybe a Yoruba won't mind... Try one |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Samuelvic45: 7:11pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
! Continue saying the truth your rightful man will come. Better than hiding the truth against the future disaster. Be bless |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by octopusfreaky(f): 7:14pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Ojukwubucket:Nonsense yyy u being tribalistic. Desist from ds act like she has AIDS or STDs. Relationship is built on trust. ok. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by nasha1(f): 7:27pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ghostmist: ghostmist: This was ur first post to me, u were making a strong statement here and i responded in which u called me slow and i gave it 2 u.I am not agressive but this NL is like a zoo,these boys come at u when u drop a comment,bully u and expect u to keep quiet because i am a woman.nope, i give back triple what's given to me and tust me,i dont have 2 act like this outside because i dont come across ignorant juvenile boys.I act like a lady with men who act like men. u kept changing the tone of ur message, u started by saying the bolded and u didnt specify where all u said is women dont have a choice then went on to say they do have a choice but a limited one then u came back with the post above,oga check it now. for the fact that something is an exception doesnt mean they are non existent.I can count how many of my girlfriend who slide into their boyfriend twitter and today are engaged.Visit twitter more and not this place where people only imagine things.If u want 2 talk of fact NL is not the place, i run a salon i have countless stories to tell besides i didnt tell her that she had a pool of choice, i simply told her which i told a friend of mine to stop being choosy. Nigerian women are choosy when it comes 2 find a husband, not many will go 4 broke guys and starting afresh even the so called old cargo as you people refer 2 them.times have changed, the world is evolving,maybe it's where she meet those men because i have made hair for many babymamas on their wedding day both mature and young.i dont talk what i dont know, i talk from experience and i dont kiss asses. u dont know my age and having 2 degrees doesnt mean old.My brother is 30 and has 2 degrees and a master.Men should show respect 2 women when addressing them and not dismiss them because u have a dick.shalom. 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Jammiiee(m): 7:37pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Let them know from the scratch, don't open that up at the middle, the surprise is far too overwhelming if they later find out, but a man who knows from the beginning that you have a child if willing to put up with u surely will. chiomababy22: |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by TheeDetective: 7:46pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
So you want to deny your child because the guys that want to marry you would not do so again once you mention your child? YOU WELL SO? From the look of things, you are limiting yourself to only single guys and the truth of the matter whether you like it or not is that the bulk of single guys won’t marry a single mum FACT as they will only deceive you. Don't get me wrong as there are still some who would but they are in the minute minority. Expand your search by dating men who already have a child of their own as well as it will be more understanding and acceptable to them to marry a single mum than it would be for a single guy without a child of their own to marry a single mum. I am just stating the obvious FACT and let no one deceive you otherwise at least you yourself have seen it that once you mention your child, the men leave you which is what made me ascertain that it might be single guys only that you are going after. Lastly, never ever deny your child nor hide the fact that you already have a child because you want to marry as marriage is not the only thing that makes one fulfilled in life. 2 Likes |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ghostmist: 7:51pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
nasha1:Alright i get you...we were saying the same things, but in different ways. But you still attacked first. My first post was only saying that women don't do the "chyking" or wooing. The men do that. As such, a woman can only choose from the pool of men that "chyke" her. Your position of her being less choosy actually supported mine. Now that you've made mention of Twitter, maybe i should join the twitter community...maybe, just maybe, my missing rib could be there. And who knows, it might just be you. Shalom to you too... 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by nasha1(f): 8:15pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
ghostmist: okay i admit i took it a little too far,lol. i apologise for that,promise i will be good only if no one come for me o. @ your last paragraph, lol u are funny.please join twitter it's a very pleasant and funny place nevertheless i enjoy here because u can expand and discuss things.have a great night, i am closing 4 the day, going out with friends,see u. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by ghostmist: 8:33pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
nasha1:ok then...i'd like to know your twitter "ID" if that's ok by you. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tosyne2much(m): 9:21pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
makavelidon:Abeg comot for here jawe
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Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tosyne2much(m): 9:40pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Mimzyy:Barcanista no dey fear to talk the truth ehn |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by mikolo80: 9:47pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
chiomababy22:carry your cross. you show lack of home judgement as a baby mama |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by mikolo80: 9:48pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
nasha1:you de mind d mumu. she no wan marry baby daddy but she de look for maga to marry her |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Caseless: 9:59pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
modelmike7:lol! Madam go understand say oga get eye for good things. Good to see you again. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Mimzyy(f): 10:00pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
tosyne2much: Well... |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tosyne2much(m): 10:02pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Mimzyy:Same with me Just that people will have you hated when don't know how to embellish the truth |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Mimzyy(f): 10:07pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
tosyne2much: There is wisdom in applying diplomacy at times. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by tosyne2much(m): 10:11pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
Mimzyy:That's true sha |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by GreatZaza(m): 10:27pm On Mar 25, 2017 |
I will advise you just hold on to your God because it will be very hard to see a young man who is not yet married having thoughts of settling down with a single mum. I am not yet married but this are my thoughts 1. I cannot get married to a single mum. 2. I cannot get married to someone who recently broke up from a ling relationship because I feel that such relationship will hunt her My thoughts thou |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by sisisioge: 7:54am On Mar 26, 2017 |
Well, that's because you've not met your own. You and your child are a complete package. And pls stop following small small boyz...how you want make them explain to their mamas? 1 Like |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by WORLDPEACE(m): 9:13am On Mar 26, 2017 |
buffalowings:Yeah, isn't that what having options is about? You can go up or come down. Lol. Average girls don't want to hear it but rich women do it every time. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by chigoizie7(m): 2:05pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by pressplay411(m): 4:47pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
nasha1: Well said. It's rare for a single never-married guy to decide to marry a single mother. Possible but rare. I've been in such situations and just decided the heart trip is not worth it. Even if I can live with the baggage, it'll be hard convincing the family and friends. Probably I've just not been hit by cupid's arrow cos love usually should overlook such things. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by LePrezident(m): 5:29pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
pressplay411: This guy, you need to anonymously author a book of romance |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by pressplay411(m): 6:18pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
LePrezident: I'll need a ghostwriter. Too Bisi. |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by Burmababe(f): 6:20pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
I wouldn't say u are dating the wrong people I say u need to b more playful and be patient. I had the same experience you had until God intervened mine was already 11 |
Re: They Leave Me The Moment I Tell Them My Story. Should I Hide The Truth? by LePrezident(m): 6:44pm On Mar 26, 2017 |
pressplay411: Lol |
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