I broke up wit my ex girlfriend last month of got ma self a new girlfriend we so love ourselves but only about a week ago my ex moved to the flat next to mine nd as if dat was not enough she's now tryn to be friends with ma girlfriend. I'm just not sure on wat to do now.

uh oh

Monkey meet Baboon.

Uh Uh your in trouble You going to have to move out then Who are you fooling? Im sure your thinking woopedeedo, I may have some of that on the side very soon I know how you guys operate.

@poster
its a free world, isnt it? who cares where you ex lives since she is an EX.
if you have nothing to reproach yourself (and if your new girl is aware and cool with it) then let them be friends.

i really dont see where the problem is. . . . . . . . . . .

Move ur eyes away from her

don't even bother exchanging pleasantries with her.
ignore her and focus on the one you have.
frankly if i were you, i would dissuade my girlfriend from forming an acquaintanceship with the EX.

Beware of the "Can I borrow some sugar" Syndrome!!!

i hope you told your current girl that she was your ex and that you aren't comfortable with her being around. Your girl is going to do what she wants to do but at least let her know before wahala start

omega25red:

i hope you told your current girl that she was your ex and that you aren't comfortable with her being around. Your girl is going to do what she wants to do but at least let her know before wahala start

@poster, a word is enough 4 d wize; free urslf b4 surprises come up

Lord_Reed:

Beware of the "Can I borrow some sugar" Syndrome!!!

lmao

Uh Uh your in trouble Grin Grin Grin Grin You going to have to move out then Grin Who are you fooling? Im sure your thinking woopedeedo, I may have some of that on the side very soon Wink Wink I know how you guys operate.

********* like i said not all men operate or think like that.give everyone a benefit of doubt******* no:2

Lord_Reed:

Beware of the "Can I borrow some sugar" Syndrome!!!

co-sign this powerful post.

There's fire on the mountain! Watch out!

Hey, wahala dey. Blood is thicker than water, no matter what might have caused d separation, both of u can still tangle,beware! Jelousness might come up even though both r no longer 2gether! Beware! Think safety,act safely and stay safe!

we all kno wats gonna happen my advise to u is jst dnt open the door wen she cums knockn. She is a girl on a mission, she has a plan,
p.s. i am in a similar situation so i'm spkn 4rm experience

pc guru:

********* like i said not all men operate or think like that.give everyone a benefit of doubt******* no:2

Hahaha you and I know a major percent of men would do that

Lord_Reed:

Beware of the "Can I borrow some sugar" Syndrome!!!

LMAO . , True dat

Enockia:

I broke up wit my ex girlfriend last month of got ma self a new girlfriend we so love ourselves but only about a week ago my ex moved to the flat next to mine nd as if dat was not enough she's now tryn to be friends with ma girlfriend. I'm just not sure on wat to do now.

looooool, just be calm and do your own stuffs, don't be bothered @ all, with time you will get used to it but don't let her tempt u oo

cos u might blow it up di gging two of dem

eiya, poor you.

God wat am i doin? She actually came to borrow sugar last night nd i gave it to her.

@Postr,U must as a matter of urgency let ur new gal knw y she mustnt b 'cool' 2d Ex.Let her c reasons wt u.Nxt,ds is one occassion whr bein a SNOB is allowd, dnt let her c ur eyes lailai,and foil evry plan she makes 2get acrz2 u.Ddnt she knw dat u liv in dat neigborhood b4 she pickd d 'to let' advrt.She's certainly on a deadly mission!

Ebonyeyes:

Uh Uh your in trouble You going to have to move out then Who are you fooling? Im sure your thinking woopedeedo, I may have some of that on the side very soon I know how you guys operate.

you too move to another flat

Enockia:

God wat am i doin? She actually came to borrow sugar last night nd i gave it to her.

Haahaa! So it begins! I bet ur GF wasn't there rite? Man are u btw a rock n a hard place. Ok here's wat to do.

1. Neva allow her into ur flat. Even if it means being rude (unless u don't care about ur current GF)

2. As much as possible allow only ur GF to answer her at the door. (n tell ur GF she still doesn't come in!)

3. Since ur GF wants to b friends fyne but she should neva tell d ex ur plans eg going out, staying in, sleeping over. Dat way d ex neva knows wen GF is wit ya.

4. Don't ever lend ex sometin dat requires u to go to her own flat to collect back. Dat there is temptation land!

Just a few pointers. Am sure more will be pouring in.

Enockia:

God wat am i doin? She actually came to borrow sugar last night nd i gave it to her.

Was it "brown sugar"?

I hope you gave her enough grains to last her for a few weeks

u re in soup.believe me ur girl and ex will be friends soon in no time

[size=15pt]it happens

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@ topic: I wonder what the brouhaha is all about OP, keep ur peace. Tell ur girl about her so she knows how to handle things.