I have been thinking about his for while and could not figure out an accurate answer could you ladies help me out?

or better still if your boy friend takes you to an hotel how would you feel?

Take u to hotel to do what?

That is a million dollar question of course to sleep with you or at least to handle you

Well it depends on how open-minded the girl is and how well the two know eachother. I mean, it does feel a little unconfortable if he takes u to a hotel, because u may think he doesn't respect you. Yet, there are sooo many possible scenarios:
-Maybe it's your anniversary and the guy wants to give you a romantic surprise, by doing something special - totally agree.
-OR he simply doesn't have the space. In this case, it depends on the girl. If she's ok with it, then it goes, but it would be better if the guy could get another place (a friends house or something).

Usually the idea is rejected when the two have just started the relationship. She doesn't know him well, so how can she trust him??

But if u look at it objectively, the space doesn't matter that much afterall. I mean, be it his house, a friend's place or a hotel room, same thing will happen, so all this is like going around the bush. But girls like this. They have been tought it's wrong, yet they have the desire to do it. So that is why the guy has to join in this little game, otherwise he won't get anything.

If it is meant as a treat,i think it's o.k maybe if he just wants the girl to be treated to all the things she wants without having to raise a finger-spa,room service,facials all the works but if it is just about sex no way.I would not want my boyfriend to take me to a hotel,what's wrong with his place?what's he hiding?and i want to believe he is still not staying with his parents so there is really no excuse if it's about sex.

If its for a special occassion (anniversary) yeah.
But he should not a make it a habit.
Hotels are for hookers or girls you want to code.

or does he have something to hide (wife at home/ live-in babe)
or is he ashamed of you?
And not having a place of his own or enuf space isnt an excuse cos if
he saves all that hotel money he can afford a place of his own.

LOL. What if he is a student and cant afford his own place and he still stays with his parents?

and why did you say ladies only. Guys may be able to tell us the motive behind trhe idea and their views really (if they can take a girl they luv and respect to the hotel etc)

Relationships and marriage can sometimes be boring so it is nice to arrange some rendevous from time to time to spice things up.

@white Nkem
Very Well Said!

if taking you to a hotel means:
-Girl lets go have sex @ the hotel because there is no other place
My answer: NO!

It sound like hey! i need a quicky

If the Boyfriend has a wife at home then it would be in order for him to take his Girlfriend to the Hotel (for discussions)

nahhh, its cool,

Depends on his motive!lf l dont trust him l would never dare agree
to go with him!But if its genuine why not?

Flee from any guy who insists on taking you to a hotel, doesn’t he have a house or is he living under the bridge? Why would you bring yourself so low because of material benefits?

No responsible guy would take a woman he has good intentions for in mind; to any hotel.

Explanation is needed before i will accept otherwise i heading to his house.

@white Nkem
na you biko

lol why would he want totake u to an hotel ?
unless he has something dirty to do lol

lol  why would he want to take u to an hotel ?
unless he has something dirty to do lol

would u prefer dat he took another woman?

He is your boyfriend abi? Does it matter where he takes you? It is what you are doing that is the issue?

well it is right fo ur boyfriend to take u to an Hotel but trust me he isn't meant for u if he cant look for an appropriate place to screw u, some gentle boys how trully loves thier girlfriends would never Bleep u in an hotel if u arent on holiday

sweetnini:

well it is right fo your boyfriend to take u to an Hotel but trust me he isn't meant for u if he can't look for an appropriate place to screw u,  some

gentle boys how trully loves their girlfriends would never Bleep u in an hotel if u arent on holiday

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm!!!

_{Maybe inside church, then he is serious about you!}

@iice just came in yesterday

With love,u go anywhere except one serial killer IS out there and u think it might be him o: o:
With love,u go with the flow and therefore doing anything as long as is a save activity no too rough
Abi na watin i talk

galatico:

I have been thinking about his for while and could not figure out an accurate answer could you ladies help me out?

or better still if your boy friend takes you to an hotel how would you feel?

take u to the hotel to do wat? bang u? dont he gat a house?

ademiller:

take u to the hotel to do wat? bang u? dont he gat a house?

I wonder ooooooooooo, any girl that allows her bf take her to a hotel is ******!!!

It depends