Eze2000:


Lol, the babe is a lawyer, bro. or will soon be. very soon. She's a 500 level student, with brains, beauty, and ambition, one can hardly do better. You see, I spent nearly 2 hrs tunneling into her chat history to understand her. I didn't just make a decision on the spur of the moment.

I compared what I found to my situation and my needs. I thought about compatibility too and the answer was always "not a match'. Now if I was a deceiver I would want to lay her and move on, right? She's so lovely and just my type only minus the height which can be overlooked but did I do that? No.

I want a wife bro, not a girlfriend. I wanna marry before the end of this year but Titugirl will still be in school by then. After I marry, my woman will help me in my ambition but she has hers, which is to rank alongside the likes of Falana SAN. You can't reformat dreams like hers without a lot fight which you will lose.

No sir, I didn't just make the decision. In fact, I had been thinking of her all afternoon. She has everything I want in a woman, physically and mentally, and then so much more.

Being too good for her didn't even cross my mind. I was just being bluntly honest with me.

Toks2008:


Sometimes you need to give it a try you know..never can tell.

The titugirl seems to me like a very rare breed of a cultured educated yoruba girl and yoruba ladies are usually calm expecially the educated ones...i am not advertising her cos she does not look like a lady who will have problems with suitors but just stating the obvious.

Toks2008:



This is where many men get it wrong.

There is an uncommon favor that GOD bestows on you the moment you take that bold step to the married.
Proverbs 18:22 says: Whoso findeth a wife findeth a good thing, and obtaineth favour of the Lord.

This does not mean you will not be hard working as a man but you can't continue to wait forever judging from the uncertainties of life and that you have before you get married does not mean you cant go broke.....furthermore i believe that ladies of this generation should understand that parenting is a combined effort hence the need for them to also be up and doing.

Toks2008:


Sometimes you need to give it a try you know..never can tell.

The titugirl seems to me like a very rare breed of a cultured educated yoruba girl and yoruba ladies are usually calm expecially the educated ones...i am not advertising her cos she does not look like a lady who will have problems with suitors but just stating the obvious.

Titugirl:

I'm blushing right now

geedee4real:
Hi! I need a female sex mate! That don't get tired easily on bed. WhatsApp 08024775320

toks208:


Are you ok?

toks208:


LOL! you have a very calm outward beauty and nice full figure *winks* please maintain it.

AwkaetitiBabe:

Yes my inner being always tells me when something is amiss. Lol, I've thrown desperate outta d window, wouldn't wanna settle to less and live to regret. Thanks for the mention... Nice one

devlishGINGER:
I think its normal when we get to a certain level to get desperate if expectations aren't forth coming. What I mean is this;remember when others were gaining admission in tertiary level and u were at home hoping to gain admission soon, remember when you anticipated nysc, after that remember when you were through and desperately need to start making a living full time?
It's normal to be desperate because mankind see everything from the perspective of a race.

I also believe there is no such thing as "settling for less" so far you are willing to work your way up. Although self-worth is key to every decision.

Toks2008:
Do you know that once you are a guy above 30 and you are still very single without a fiancee or you are a lady above 25 and still not engaged then there is a higher probability that you may remain that way for another couple of years?

I know you may not agree to this but the truth is that the higher you get in age from that point on the more careful you want to be and that is where the real problem sets in...."TRYING TO BE CAREFUL"

The honest truth is that at this stage,you need to free your mind and think less of making any mistake and in fact you need to rid your mind of any panic and be yourself....in other words,don't search because those who search usually make mistakes but those who just live their lives usually find that special person when and where they least expect.

So if you are a guy above 30 or a lady above 25 and single,let's discuss about business,romance and life in general.

Though this is not a dating or meet up thread but you are very free to make friends with anyone...

Remember that it is very difficult to come across this set of single guys and ladies out there as they are usually very busy,focused and mostly indoor so let's make good use of this platform to interact.

I know this is a faceless forum and i know some people below this age group will try to derail the thread but i will appreciate if such group will maintain a status quo and allow only single guys of 30 yrs and above as well as single ladies of 25yrs and above.

*Mods please note that this is not a dating or meet up thread hence should not be moved to dating and meet up zone.

Thanks

Nomfanelo99:
I'm 25 and this post is scaring me

Toks2008:
Chai this thread still dey?

ikp120:

Hehehehehe . I'm barely 23. . I've still got at least more than 7 years. Hehehehehe

Safiaa:
Im 22, but toks is making me feel pressured . Why are you doing this now lol?

Safiaa:
Im 22, but toks is making me feel pressured . Why are you doing this now lol?

xqzytchyca:




I used to think 5years; but I've realised most guys that are >/=5years older than I am do not know what they want and lack common sense at the same time...so, I'm all about any guy that meets my top5 qualities...not older than 37 shaa