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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 12:04pm On Apr 18
vicben27:
aleast i knw my dad becos he was alwayz arud! jst bcareful in ur Oloshoorism because i knw ur parents brought u up well u jst choz to be a stupid n wayward child(u hav join bad gang)
You don't know your father! Keep deceiving yourself!! Lol grin cheesy
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by permit(m): 12:09pm On Apr 18
stane007:
To every Nigerian that believes if a man loves you, he won't ask to get into your pants, Nigerian Facebook user, Victor Daniel has this to say:

If I love you, I will ask for sex. Forget that "if he loves you he won't ask to get into your pants" talk. I'm being honest as I can.

I'm sexually active and one of the ways I express my deepest emotions is through sex. Love and sex is connected and if you love someone, you will be sexually attracted to the person.

Before I start any relationship with a girl, I make sure to let her realise that I am sexually active and sometimes I may seek sexual relief from her.

Stop downplaying sex. The importance of sex to me cannot be overemphasised. I will not enter a relationship with a woman simply for the sex. No. But if I fall in love with you, I'm also going to establish a sexual intimacy with you.


http://www.lailasblog.com/2017/04/stop-downplaying-sex-if-i-love-you-i.html

. Men and sex are like 5and6, it takes a constant and careful study the word of God 4 ds era of life to 4sake sex be4 marriage both d 2 gander, i believe sexin is nt a 4s, whether in relation ok,dnt kil me plz.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by vicben27(m): 12:14pm On Apr 18
Trina0936:

You don't know your father! Keep deceiving yourself!! Lol grin cheesy
ok sweetie if u say soo! i wud i've loved to change ur life for gud but i dnt do OLosho's! dnt want to get infected wit bad blood or some tereable STD. my advice rememba to play safe each time

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 12:26pm On Apr 18
vicben27:
ok sweetie if u say soo! i wud i've loved to change ur life for gud but i dnt do OLosho's! dnt want to get infected wit bad blood or some tereable STD. my advice rememba to play safe each time
Even your sisters are oloshos and you are also an olosho. Keep sleeping with different women and don't forget to use condoms. Olosho no dey show for face tongue
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by vicben27(m): 12:30pm On Apr 18
Trina0936:

Even your sisters are oloshos and you are also an olosho. Keep sleeping with different women and don't forget to use condoms. Olosho no dey show for face tongue
ok sweetie i wil. do hav a wndaful day selling ur market!

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 12:32pm On Apr 18
vicben27:
ok sweetie i wil. do hav a wndaful day selling ur market!
You too. Hope you pay them well as they also use you! tongue
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by steppin: 12:51pm On Apr 18
chiomababy22:
at least he can write in his dialect. Can you?
If I can't, I won't quote him. Kee kwanu? Amam na udo na-achi?
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by vicben27(m): 12:51pm On Apr 18
Trina0936:

You too. Hope you pay them well as they also use you! tongue
lol funy u! if u want me to use u, jst let me knw(but i think i'll pass) as i said i dnt do Olosho's

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by freshinko: 12:53pm On Apr 18
My support to opp is highly seconded.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by NarnieSnyper(m): 1:17pm On Apr 18
Eaglesence:


Well brother such as you need urgent help from God. Pardon me to say, you.headed for hell if d belief system is as twisted as this. If you believe God is real, then you had better take His commandments seriously. One of which is " sex outside marriage being wrong" Peace.

Excuse me, Mr. 'your holiness', let me ask you these;
1.) Can you make love to your wife if you are not attracted to her?
2.) If you are dating the girl that you love, can you swear for once you've never thought about having sex with her?
Look, I am not saying having sex is compulsory but most times, you just have to overcome that temptation no-sex relationship comes with.
My point is, there's no love without list. You can't deny that

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by kirikwu: 1:17pm On Apr 18
MrMystrO:


You can see these are the kind of mindset we need to rid ourselves of in this country. If we don't, then I'm afraid to say we are not going anywhere. Our people still be have 14th century mentality in the 21st century. What a shame!!
so you think we can only move forward as a country when people with value for themselves,fear of God,respect for His commandments,and dignity are no more?? . if that was a criteria for a better nation(which is impossible) I guess Nigeria will remain where she is till eternity. Because some of us no matter how few we are, with the way people are responding to this,will possesses the above mentioned till he comes.

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by kirikwu: 1:43pm On Apr 18
adanny01:
A friend of mine askd for sex from a girl he loved and was thinking of settling down with. The girl denied him because the relationship was a young one and she though he was trying to hit and run.

Sexual urge must be satisfied. He was introduced to another girl on Valentine's day last year, that girl a nice girl and not as young as the other one didnt waste time in giving him sex. My friend made his mind to marry the second girl that very day they had sex. A year later they were married.

I met the other girl, I saw regret and betrayal in her face while I had pity for her cos she had no idea the guy was for real. Call it fate or whatever, sex made up his mind on who to marry. I just believe the girl was immature and didnt consider his age. She had all the time being in her early 20's while he had no time in his mid 30's. The girl he married was 30 and didn't waste time either.

hahha you just described the meaning of desperation on both your friend and his wife part

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 2:03pm On Apr 18
steppin:

If I can't, I won't quote him. Kee kwanu? Amam na udo na-achi?
hahahaha. Omo una go teach me oh, am ready to learn
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by MrMystrO(m): 2:14pm On Apr 18
kirikwu:
so you think we can only move forward as a country when people with value for themselves,fear of God,respect for His commandments,and dignity are no more?? . if that was a criteria for a better nation(which is impossible) I guess Nigeria will remain where she is till eternity. Because some of us no matter how few we are, with the way people are responding to this,will possesses the above mentioned till he comes.


Bro, religion is religion and let us let it be what it is. Everyone has their own beliefs and should be allowed to believe in what they believe in, but without letting it cloud your logical sense of reasoning and lead you into believing everyone has to follow the same path. For example I don't associate with any religion we have on earth today and I strongly believe that NO Religion on earth has come close to understanding the essense and source of all things Which we call God, and spirituality as a whole, rather they are sincere attempts at trying to understand and explain these things. But I cant because of that say everyone should think like me and believe in what I believe in even if I would like that, because we all are not here to follow the same path, its different paths and different experiences and lessons for everyone, but at the end we'll all arrive at the same destination. So in essence your religion or beliefs doesn't give you the right to condemn two people having consentual sex, with the brand of "Fornication" as no one is being forced into the act, its not a rape, and they are not constituting a public nuisance, then they can go ahead with it if they please, its still left to them to face whatever consequences that come with their actions, Not u or me or anyone else. If you also feel like your jesus will come from the sky, or space (I don't know where exactly) and they will be left behind, its totally fine but keep those beliefs to yourself. Stick to your path and practice Abstinence honestly and sincerely(Not deceiving yourself thinking you are deceiving others) For your reasons alone and not using it an avenue to judge other people and interfere in their business cuz u can't use your religion to decide what is right and wrong for everyone because people have different religions which have huge differences and different beliefs, and every one feels their own Religion and beliefs is the true one shey u get?? So you can't use yours to dictate what is right or wrong for other people. Hope i was able to pass the message clearly tho. Thanks.

Alero3Arubi and Snilpall u can also check this post for your answers.

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by DrogoG(m): 2:22pm On Apr 18
dasparrow:


This is lie from the pit of the hell. This is the rubbish many of you tell ladies just to get them to spread their legs. Once you get them pregnant, you dump them like a hot potato. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Any man who does not fear God and defiles a woman he is not married to will reap what he sows. This is why so many of you are stagnated in life. When the hedge is broken, why won't the serpent bite? The worst part of it is that many of you will still not stay faithful to your wives after you are married. That demonic spirit of lust will still make you cheat in your marriage. This is why I think most Nigerian marriages are sham and not worth getting into. You people have so many sexual partners and end up with all manners of sexually transmitted diseases which you pass on to the unfortunate woman who spreads her legs for you.

Walking disease bags!

It's either you're a bitter little girl who got her over-sensitive heart broken, that lashes out to anyone she disagrees with, or you're clinically insane! All you did was blab away incoherently and attacked a point I never made! And by the way, take your st*upid religious sh*it somewhere else or keep it to yourself. Religious people like you are usually the ones who engage in nasty sh*it all the time behind closed doors. So take your "I'm holly" mentality somewhere else!

There was no section of my previous post, you replied to, that encourages women to "spread their legs" carelessly for men or not use their intuition in relationship matters! Nigerian primitive mentality made sex look like a taboo.

All I did was to let women know what men think! You supposed to thank me for doing that because most of you women have absolutely no clue what a man thinks of you!

I still stand by my previous post. Let me make it clear or dumb it down for you to understand;
- A man who likes you, would love to f*uck you.
- A man who doesn't want to be in a serious relationship with you but finds you attractive, would also like to f*uck you.
- A man who doesn't like you but finds you attractive, will f*uck you if the opportunity presents itself.

There's absolutely no reason for a woman to be upset when she finds out a man wants to bed her. In fact, see it as a compliment. Men mostly like to f*uck women they're attracted to. That's a fact. Every woman wants to be attractive. I'm NOT saying a woman should spread her legs irresponsibly simply because a man wants it! But it is not a bad thing that a man wants to sleep with you. How you go about it is entirely your business.

So the notion that a man who likes a woman wouldn't want to bed her, is ridiculously false! There's no evident that depicts that. That a man is willing to wait till a woman is ready to have sex with him, doesn't mean he never wanted to f*uck her! A man who's not interested to f*uck you will not toast you, in the first place.

You should compliment me for giving out info. on how men think!

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Fucktensei: 2:24pm On Apr 18
dasparrow:


This is lie from the pit of the hell. This is the rubbish many of you tell ladies just to get them to spread their legs. Once you get them pregnant, you dump them like a hot potato. The fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Any man who does not fear God and defiles a woman he is not married to will reap what he sows. This is why so many of you are stagnated in life. When the hedge is broken, why won't the serpent bite? The worst part of it is that many of you will still not stay faithful to your wives after you are married. That demonic spirit of lust will still make you cheat in your marriage. This is why I think most Nigerian marriages are sham and not worth getting into. You people have so many sexual partners and end up with all manners of sexually transmitted diseases which you pass on to the unfortunate woman who spreads her legs for you.

Walking disease bags!

Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 2:27pm On Apr 18
vicben27:
lol funy u! if u want me to use u, jst let me knw(but i think i'll pass) as i said i dnt do Olosho's
You are the one I will use to upgrade my status if only you were not a broke ass nigga. cheesy I am not like your sisters!! tongue
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by adanny01(m): 2:38pm On Apr 18
kirikwu:
hahha you just described the meaning of desperation on both your friend and his wife part

Yea, a girl should be able to differentiate who is desperate for sex or for marriage.

She mistook one for the other. The reason she did that was, she was not thinking of getting married while thinking every guy just wants sex.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by steppin: 2:45pm On Apr 18
chiomababy22:
hahahaha. Omo una go teach me oh, am ready to learn
Can you speak? That's the major thing. If you can speak, writing is easy. If you can't, then I'm afraid you're on a long thing.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by kirikwu: 2:56pm On Apr 18
MrMystrO:



Bro, religion is religion and let us let it be what it is. Everyone has their own beliefs but and should be allowed to believe in what they believe in, but without letting it cloud your logical sense of reasoning and lead you into believing everyone has to follow the same path. For example I don't associate with any religion we have on earth today and I strongly believe that NO Religion on earth has come close to understanding the essense and source of all things Which we call God, and spirituality as a whole, rather they are sincere attempts at trying to understand and explain these things. But I cant because of that say everyone should think like me and believe in what I believe in even if I would like that, because we all are not here to follow the same path, its different paths and different experiences and lessons for everyone, but at the end we'll all arrive at the same destination. So in essence your religion or beliefs doesn't give you the right to condemn two people having consentual sex, with the brand of "Fornication" as they as no one is being forced into the act, its not a rape, and they are not constituting a public nuisance, then they can go ahead with it if they please, its still left to them to face whatever consequences that come with their actions, Not u or me or anyone else. If you also feel like your jesus will come from the sky, or space (I don't know where exactly) and they will be left behind, its totally fine but keep those beliefs to yourself. Stick to your path and practice Abstinence honestly and sincerely(Not deceiving yourself thinking you are deceiving others) For your reasons alone and not using it an avenue to judge other people and interfere in their business cuz u can't use your religion to decide what is right and wrong for everyone because people have different religions which have huge differences and different beliefs, and every one feels their own Religion and beliefs is the true one shey u get?? So you can't use yours to dictate what is right or wrong for other people. Hope i was able to pass the message clearly tho. Thanks.

Alero3Arubi and Snilpall u can also check this post for your answers.
i wont lie to you but reading what you wrote was hard because of how lengthy it was and I didn't see how it connected to what the person I quoted said or what my reply was. if you feel its all about opinions (I call it sin) then why do the people here feel those with the "opinion" sex before marriage is wrong are hypocrites?. the person I quoted even went as far as saying its the reason for our countries backwardness, imagine.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by kirikwu: 3:05pm On Apr 18
toprealman:
I was taught quite early to call a spade by its proper name, not just a work tool! If you think by playing smart you remain an angel then think again. READ MY COMMENT and stop fooling about sweetheart.
Talking about national problem....please tell me more, won't mind learning from you.
The person you are quoting simply asked a question how did you deduce where she/he stands by just that question.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by kirikwu: 3:09pm On Apr 18
Alero3Arubi:


Oh no I am not doing this with you.
Bye.
Best decision o. I had to even talk to the guy on your behalf before I saw this.

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Alero3Arubi(f): 3:16pm On Apr 18
kirikwu:
Best decision o. I had to even talk to the guy on your behalf before I saw this.

Edakun
Epp me ooo
Tieanks.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by vanvino(m): 3:21pm On Apr 18
savictory2:
Sex is never a prove of LOVE.
Then why is Cheating a problem?

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Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 3:47pm On Apr 18
steppin:

Can you speak? That's the major thing. If you can speak, writing is easy. If you can't, then I'm afraid you're on a long thing.
cant speak fluently
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by steppin: 4:01pm On Apr 18
chiomababy22:
cant speak fluently
E go hard na. Before you learn to run, you must learn to walk.
You must speak very well first, before you can write freely. Most of the written words are based on pronunciations.
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:43pm On Apr 18
Bumbae1:


cool

U ernnn
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Nobody: 4:57pm On Apr 18
steppin:

E go hard na. Before you learn to run, you must learn to walk.
You must speak very well first, before you can write freely. Most of the written words are based on pronunciations.
ok
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Fucktensei: 4:59pm On Apr 18
emmamadon:
If you are sexually active, go and marry. Sex is for married people. That every body is doing it does not make it right; that your conscience does not condemn you, does not still make it right. Remember, your conscience can be dead. Love and sex are logically, theoretically, technically and practically not the same.
am sure you're a self-servicer! angry

Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by Fucktensei: 5:01pm On Apr 18
chiomababy22:
at least he can write in his dialect. Can you?
Biafranpound from Opobo wrote perfectly in Igbo language and some people called him an Afonja.. why?
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by vicben27(m): 5:08pm On Apr 18
Trina0936:

You are the one I will use to upgrade my status if only you were not a broke ass nigga. cheesy I am not like your sisters!! tongue
peace sweetie go be a gud girl derz more to life dan using men as ur ATM( datz for d dumb ass men! a guy like me cant fall 4 dat poo i mst i've drilled dat kitty of urs until smoke comes out b4 u get TP sef tongues out) claim down bae
Re: 'Stop Downplaying Sex. If I Love You, I Will Ask For Sex' - Nigerian Guy by toprealman: 5:17pm On Apr 18
kirikwu:
The person you are quoting simply asked a question how did you deduce where she/he stands by just that question.
Mind your business!

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