Greenbullet:
total buulshit

ah swear!!!

She shudnt have snapped at all... Nutty girl

All ds na theory babe...if u have a srz relationshp and probably ur fiancee/ bf decides not to act like dat guy...jst thank God for it..diff ladies wif diff approach, diff guys wif diff approach..

Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.

carammel:

Hogwash.
This isn't about being old-school, it isn't about your present status but about your sense of reasoning.
Keep being a player,just don't hurt the innocent woman at home.

"Hurt" I don't understand.
You wont see the positives and comment.
And what is it about my reasoning.

Proudlyngwa:


"Hurt" I don't understand.
You wont see the positives and comment.
And what is it about my reasoning.

Of course you understand the hurt,if a married man can still call himself a "proud player ",That explains a lot. You sure know the threat you pose to your innocent wife at home.

What is my own with positive or negative,I comment on what you wrote "proud player",SMH.

Raine80:
Orders? She needs to evaluate her situation as a matter of urgency. If she is finding herself having to "ask" for permission from someone other than her parents then that relationship is unbalanced. If he is having to "deny" or " restrict" her movements then he is not addressing the issue either. His lack of trust and the source of that lack of trust. A healthy relationship is based on trust and that applies to both parities. When you say "Do you mind if I ...?" to your loved one you are taking his/her thoughts into consideration. When you start "ordering" someone and that someone starts to sneak behind your back it's time you both became parallel lines as you are clearly never going to meet halfway.

I don't think it has everything to do with trust alone, yes, to you it sound as if she was seeking his permission to be herself which is not really healthy, normally she was just supposed to inform him, not seek his consent, if he objects, then she can decide if she wants to obey him or not.

But in this situation, she was just pretending to respect him because she still went to the party anyway, despite his disapproval.

So yes, the issue of trust has to come in and it would be justified if he doesn't trust her again.
The relationship seem unbalanced.

carammel:

Of course you understand the hurt,if a married man can still call himself a "proud player ",That explains a lot. You sure know the threat you pose to your innocent wife at home.

What is my own with positive or negative,I comment on what you wrote "proud player",SMH.

You are really naive.

Raine80:

This is a forum where posts are displayed and opinions are given. Now then if you( and the many closed minded individuals who have contextualised an opinion as a reflection of my whole persona) choose to then weave my life and my future based on an opinion then who really has the issue here? Certainly not me. I lack nothing,I do not need your pity it's not warranted. I return your pity as it's clearly you that requires it. The world is not flat opinion is not either.

You are 100% correct. That is why madness is free.

viroblaze:

Are you OK for real? I think you should go look in the mirror and ask yourself a thousand times If you're OK..
That false sense of belonging you have, will bring your downfall if you don't make a turn around.. You don't know me and I don't bloody care.. But mark this day and my words..

Or what? Eternal damnation? Please.

cao:
Raine80, you gotta love all these butthurt folks, some of their comments no get any reason at all. Oh well, na their way.

Exactly at least you have the mindset to see that. Most cannot argue or be objective instead they attack on a personal level .

D girl funny oo