kimbra:
Serious lies. Men are intimidated by the amount of wealth a lady amass, and her intellect. It has nothing to do with looking inward but how such ladies are perceived in the society. I don't expect a man who doesn't know his onion, broke and busted walking up to the likes of Chimamanda Adechie to propose a relationship. He won't even have the guts if he has the intentions. I guess social strata explains that.

You don't expect all of them to agree na...
On the other thread, some guys actually agreed they don't feel comfortable with wealthy ladies and one is here speaking on behalf of men. Na real wa!

Bumbae1:

flaut it jare
When God says it time ! trust me they will beg for ur hand ..

You're just so sweet.

Always making sense

shinarlaura:


You're just so sweet.

Always making sense

Get it from u nao

Bumbae1:



Make i sure am my balance n watch his reactions
U dey mind am

Lol. He may not react. But those wealthy ladies are perceived to be controlling and disrespectful mostly when the man in question has less. In order to create a balance and not feel intimidated the man should always have more than his woman.

pocohantas:

You don't expect all of them to agree na...
On the other thread, some guys actually agreed they don't feel comfortable with wealthy ladies and one is here speaking on behalf of men. Na real wa!

What they say to console themselves.

kimbra:
Serious lies. Men are intimidated by the amount of wealth a lady amass, and her intellect. It has nothing to do with looking inward but how such ladies are perceived in the society. I don't expect a man who doesn't know his onion, broke and busted walking up to the likes of Chimamanda Adechie to propose a relationship. He won't even have the guts if he has the intentions. I guess social strata explains that.

Nnem.



Men who are drawn to the likes of Adichie can be grouped into two categories. The first group are themselves independent, self-assured, and established the other group are very dependent, unsure of themselves and basically mama's-boy looking for women to care for them.

There are fearless men with little to no purpose or direction who are looking for strong independent women.

There's even a dating site for them.


Though the later have little chance of getting her likes but sometimes they do succeed.

The rest do not want her because of one reason or the other.

kimbra:
Serious lies. Men are intimidated by the amount of wealth a lady amass, and her intellect. It has nothing to do with looking inward but how such ladies are perceived in the society. I don't expect a man who doesn't know his onion, broke and busted walking up to the likes of Chimamanda Adechie to propose a relationship. He won't even have the guts if he has the intentions. I guess social strata explains that.

It has nothing to do with social strata, but everything to do with class.

Any man who knows himself well enough will have no fear in approaching Chimamanda Adichie.

kimbra:
Lol. He may not react. But those wealthy ladies are perceived to be controlling and disrespectful mostly when the man in question has less. In order to create a balance and not feel intimidated the man should always have more than his woman.

Oh i see the point his making now ..
yes they dont like to be houseboys .. but not all ladies who have money have that attitude
So they just need to keep looking ...

If he has more good for him .. my own be say she must have hers to . So That way there is a balance "like you stated" and no one feeling funky

Its true sha ... some ladies once they have money like this lol its over you can't talk to them again in that respect e make sense ..

kimbra:
Lol. He may not react. But those wealthy ladies are perceived to be controlling and disrespectful mostly when the man in question has less. In order to create a balance and not feel intimidated the man should always have more than his woman.

Read the write up again

Kimbra twirling out dear .. food calls me
See ya later

pocohantas:

You don't expect all of them to agree na...
On the other thread, some guys actually agreed they don't feel comfortable with wealthy ladies and one is here speaking on behalf of men. Na real wa!

Does that mean that wealthy women intimidate them?

Kondomatic:
Nnem.



Men who are drawn to the likes of Adichie can be grouped into two categories. The first group are themselves independent, self-assured, and established the other group are very dependent, unsure of themselves and basically mama's-boy looking for women to care for them.

There are fearless men with little to no purpose or direction who are looking for strong independent women.

There's even a dating site for them.


Though the later have little chance of getting her likes but sometimes they do succeed.

The rest do not want her because of one reason or the other.

And what are those reasons?. My point is, if you must want a wealthy woman you should at least be wealthier than her with a certain percentage to be comfortable around them. Else, insecurities creeps in and the man would definitely feel intimidated at some point.

pocohantas:
Of course it is choice not intimidation...Shall we extend this choice to ladies in all our fairness? Many people are also of the opinion that ladies despise broke guys, short guys guys...this and that.

1. It's also choice when a lady desires a rich husband, don't call it gold digging. A rich husband is a plus you know

2. If you're a broke guy and a lady doesn't desire you, look inwards too maybe you're one of those broke guys who give ladies the impression you have no vision.

3. If a lady wants a tall, dark and handsome man, it's choice. Don't tell her to mould him, they exist.

Millions of men in the world and you think you can speak for all of them? Coming from someone who hasn't met 1% of female populace but sat somewhere and tagged them whatever.

Which study shows NIGERIAN MEN prefer intellect over curves, please post the link? the same Nigerian men all over instagram, wankeen off with pictures? The same Nigeran men that will argue on sex and boobs till midnight?
Ehen, so guys...if you're single with no partner,look inward, the problem is you.

The men talking about sex and wanking off pictures of girls don't want to marry those girls, I hope you know this. They just want t fulfil their sexual fantasies with them.

I tell you this, as long as it has to do with marrying a woman. Most nigerian men prefer intellect to curves. Who wants to marry aa dull woman?

Bumbae1:
Ki.mbra twirling out dear .. food calls me
See ya later

All right ma', I'll join you shortly.

MDCCCXXXII:
It has nothing to do with social strata, but everything to do with class.

Any man who knows himself well enough will have no fear in approaching Chimamanda Adichie.

Funny!, a man who knows himself well enough indeed!.

kimbra:
Serious lies. Men are intimidated by the amount of wealth a lady amass, and her intellect. It has nothing to do with looking inward but how such ladies are perceived in the society. I don't expect a man who doesn't know his onion, broke and busted walking up to the likes of Chimamanda Adechie to propose a relationship. He won't even have the guts if he has the intentions. I guess social strata explains that.

Most of these guys know the truth but they are just too scared/ proud to accept it. Same guys who oppose feminism, women in power, career women, independent ladies and anything that is against showing woman as a weaker sex are still claiming they aren't intimidated. Who are they deceiving? These guys are just cry babies who can't stand their egos been bruised. Nothing blinds the mind like self denial.

kimbra:
Funny!, a man who knows himself well enough indeed!.

Yes of course. There are many out there. Class isn't exclusive only to Adichie, you know.

It all has to do with knowing yourself (confidence)

Bumbae1:

Awon brainy chics they looking for slaves
Dats 400 years ago .. .. they better go to the village and find wife

You dey mind them? My papa send me go school, fed me, taught me how to fish. My mama self put sense for my mind, lecture me, guide me to be a great person. One yeye boy from nowhere go come talk say make i put everything away, come end for kitchen? The thunder Wey go fire him still dey to IT. If you can't accept my achievements, use the door biko.

Alondrah:
Most of these guys know the truth but they are just too scared/ proud to accept it. Same guys who oppose feminism, women in power, career women, independent ladies and anything that is against showing woman as a weaker sex are still claiming they aren't intimidated. Who are they deceiving? These guys are just cry babies who can't stand their egos been bruised. Nothing blinds the mind like self denial.

I don't get them. Sweeping the truth under the rug to claim some points.

kimbra:
And what are those reasons?. My point is, if you must want a wealthy woman you should at least be wealthier than her with a certain percentage to be comfortable around them. Else, insecurities creeps in and the man would definitely feel intimidated at some point.

Same reason why many beautiful broke poor women are still single. Being rich doesn't make you more deserving of marriage

MDCCCXXXII:
Yes of course. There are many out there. Class isn't exclusive only to Adichie, you know.

It all has to do with knowing yourself (confidence)

Of course, class isn't only excluded to her as she was only used as an example here. Like-minds attract so let's face the reality on ground.

kimbra:
I don't get them. Sweeping the truth under the rug to claim so points.

I don't try to understand them anymore, sometimes I just let them to believe their lies, I know better. How are you BTW?

Kondomatic:
Same reason why many beautiful broke poor women are still single. Being rich doesn't make you more deserving of marriage.

I'm very much aware of the embolden which isn't the point here, but if men are intimated by successful women and my answer to that is a yes.

Alondrah:
I don't try to understand them anymore, sometimes I just let them to believe their lies, I know better. How are you BTW?

I'm doing very well. How about you?.

kimbra:
I'm very much aware of the embolden which isn't the point here, but if men are intimated by successful women and my answer to that is a yes.

Ok

kimbra:
Of course, class isn't only excluded to her as she was only used as an example here. Like-minds attract so let's face the reality on ground.

And the reality on ground is what exactly?

kimbra:
I'm doing very well. How about you?.

I'm doing good too. Thanks

MDCCCXXXII:
And the reality on ground is what exactly?

That men are intimidated by successful women.

Alondrah:
I'm doing good too. Thanks

Cool. Hope you know I loosed your contact and it wasn't intentional. I had to upgrade my phone at some point.

kimbra:
Cool. Hope you know I loosed your contact and it wasn't intentional. I had to upgrade my phone at some point.

You did? It's nothing. I still have yours, I hope you haven't changed it. If no, I will chat you up.

Alondrah:
You did? It's nothing. I still have yours, I hope you haven't changed it. If no, I will chat you up.

I'm still using that contact.

kimbra:
Lol. He may not react. But those wealthy ladies are perceived to be controlling and disrespectful mostly when the man in question has less. In order to create a balance and not feel intimidated the man should always have more than his woman.

Perceived? Or some are exactly So?

Also it does not matter whether a man has less or equal to, a woman who will be disrespectful because she has quite an amount of chedda will be so even if the husband has more.

Aren't there women who are stay at home mom/wives but yet are disrespectful when their husband fails to deliver financially or is struggling to?