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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Tajbol4splend(m): 9:55pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
Lol..Nah,I'm sorry.

But if we were meant to get along, you wouldn't have had to ask.
I don't like guys who ask for what they want ,I like guys who Go for what they want without asking? smiley

Goodbye,darling. wink

If we were meant to get along, those theories would not count
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Drixxx(m): 9:56pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:


*No, not yet. But I have a feeling I'd get off on that because I have a rule breaker side to me *

Lick my wrinkle, baby! LOL!
Iswear bbe I love that fvck it,Social Rules is crap anyways, age is so overrated these days so no fvcks given whatsoever.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 9:59pm On May 08, 2017
Drixxx:

Iswear bbe I love that fvck it,Social Rules is crap anyways, age is so overrated these days so no fvcks given whatsoever.


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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Drixxx(m): 10:08pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:


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I go like make Trump be my President o.. as in personal President Lol...how u see am na

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Rukkydelta(f): 10:09pm On May 08, 2017
photoshoot:





Bosssssssssssss!!!!! cheesy to be like you dey envy me o grin
You believe that lie? grin
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Drixxx(m): 10:22pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:


No thanks lol. To search would qualify me as a cougar & that's gross. If it happens I want it to happen by chance.

*In Barry White's voice *
There is a lesson I wanna teach

LMAO
*Playing *Playing By chance by Rae Sremmurd *

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Drixxx(m): 10:23pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:


No thanks lol. To search would qualify me as a cougar & that's gross. If it happens I want it to happen by chance.

*In Barry White's voice *
There is a lesson I wanna teach

LMAO
*Playing By chance by Rae Sremmurd *

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by kaboninc(m): 10:24pm On May 08, 2017
Jazmiynne:
Emmanuel Macron is 39 years old.
His wife is 64 years old.
Emmanuel Macron is the current President of France.

Well, Op I guess that answers this question.

cool cool

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 10:40pm On May 08, 2017
I see nothing bad, wink ma ex was 9years above me kiss
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 10:41pm On May 08, 2017
I will love to get a sugar mummy ,even if she don't give me financial assistant,I just want to fvck her,all this small girls don't have stamina and they don't appreciate a good fvck.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by edimolu(m): 10:50pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
I just like older guys.. They are kinna cute and I can be childish and immature as much as I want around them. grin
They won't mind... they just gonn think "oh well..she's still a teen" grin
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Are u a teen? grin
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Marinee(f): 10:58pm On May 08, 2017
edimolu:
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Are u a teen? grin
I am in my late teens.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by bellyjean(m): 10:59pm On May 08, 2017
Hmmmm. I love this discussion.

The first thing we should address is our society's approval of this. The society (especially at family level) sees this as unacceptable and forbidden. But the hypocrisy of our traditional sanctity (especially of the Yoruba's) can be spotted in the practice of some newly crowned traditional rulers taking older beautiful wives of the deceased king to be theirs. The same also happens in homes when a man dies and his younger brother inherits his possessions including his widow.

But the good news is that you can let your own values and not some myopic societal values define you.

However, with the proliferation of cougars and sugar mommies and younger guys' awareness of these ladies/ women are willingness to shower them with physical, material and emotional goodies, the innocent older ladies might not stand a chance. (trust me when I say many cougars/sugar mommies can offer emotional succour to their sugar boys. They are good listeners grin

The lady in question must lookout for maturity in the younger guy she is in a relationship with. She must ascertain that the guy will not be intimidated by the societal norm. Also, she must be brave when the society taunts her.

Emmanuel Macron defied his father's instructions and married his 24 year older woman. I can boldly tell us that she played a part in the development of macron. Today macron is the world's youngest president.

I have no issue with dating older ladies but I can't do a Macron Oooo grin. 3 years is the max for me.

Dare art Alade's wife is like 2 or 3years older than him and they fine.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 11:01pm On May 08, 2017
asodeboyede:


kindly follow back I have some pertinent questions for you....


Ok
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by thexzy(m): 11:02pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
Nahhhh
make I hear say Davido, wizkid or tekno chyke u and u no gree na.
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by edimolu(m): 11:04pm On May 08, 2017
Marinee:
I am in my late teens.

Marinee?..,.Tel me a lil bou dis moniker....i bliv u aint new on here cheesy
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by thexzy(m): 11:04pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:

I stopped counting after 21 tongue
How many years was that before now?
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by remele2(f): 11:15pm On May 08, 2017
Once i find out ur older than i am, the love will increase self
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by piagetskinner(m): 11:19pm On May 08, 2017
that's a no for me.....
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by photoshoot(m): 11:21pm On May 08, 2017
Rukkydelta:

You believe that lie? grin


Lool it sounds true grin
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 11:23pm On May 08, 2017
Unclebrutus:
i am 26 & my babe is 34 so no case for dat since w understand each other, & i dey position am anyhow i want if dey Bleep her
some men get mind ooo
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Griffon(m): 11:25pm On May 08, 2017
ZarZar:


No, not yet. But I have a feeling I'd get off on that because I have a rule breaker side to me

Lick my wrinkle, baby! LOL!

How bad is that? Imma do a great job, given how chocolatey it tastes wink

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Nobody: 11:26pm On May 08, 2017
edimolu:


Marinee?..,.Tel me a lil bou dis moniker....i bliv u aint new on here cheesy

No try am angry undecided

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by edimolu(m): 11:28pm On May 08, 2017
Aderola15:


No try am angry undecided

Leave me nd lawlahdey alone faa sad

Warris ya own...... undecided

Davovajnr com nd carry ur property oooo grin
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 11:30pm On May 08, 2017
Davindal:
Dating older ladies is fun. As for me, I'm currently dating 3 different ladies. One of them is 21; I'm older than her by 6yrs, and inwardly, she is the one am gonna marry this coming December or next year.

The other 2 are 33 and 35 respectively. In fact, one thing I noticed in them(these two) is the urge to always make me happy. They are both working class, and are damn gorgeous, but have been taking for a ride by the different guys that have been in their lives.
In a nutshell, during intimate conversations with each of them. I realized that they have been through hell when it comes to relationship matters. These ladies have suffered heartbreaks, disappointments, abuses, etc.

But trust me, I was bold enough to ask them what each want in the relationships I have with each of them respectively.

To be frank, I was shocked when the first of the two older ladies told me that “you see Dave, I know that you no gonna marry me, but what I seek for, is your manliness. Your power to make me feel like a woman. Your company. I know that husbands are scarce; I pray you that paradventure, I don't marry in the next 2 years to come, pls do get me pregnant. Am 33 and not getting any younger.
For being a working class; I can take care of my baby, our baby, your baby...okay, even though I know, you wouldn't come openly.”
She is 33, and works with an oil coy. She studied Biochemistry, and graduated with second class upper.

As I psych the other lady, she said that, though she is older than me by 8yrs(she is 35); that she is not against my dating younger ladies, that all she wants is my attention.

This lady is a naval officer, with good pay, but I don't know why men don't want to commit to her, whether they are afraid; I don't know? But she is very caring to me. Anytime she is on break, she usually flies to my location and lodges in a well-fit hotel for one week plus, all to see me. We Bleep anyhow, gist, walk around, go shopping, eat palatable meals,etc. In fact, she lavishes naval money on me.
One thing I like in her is her intelligence(she studied electronics engineering before going into the military), calmness, and composure. Despite having a rank in the navy that is equivalent to major in army(Naval Captain) - at relatively younger age. She equally said she would want me to get impregnate her with time. That she would want to have a baby if she doesn't see a husband.

Older women are fun to be with; they buy you gifts, take care of you, pamper you, etc. In fact, I don't buy anything for them; they are the ones buying and showering me with gifts. If I feel like making love to them when they are free, I either choose a hotel of my choice or I move to their location(apartments), but am not usually comfortable with passing a night in a woman's apartment. I makes me feel less a guy, that is why I prefer suits in serene locations.

These ladies act maturely. They don't nag when they see any msg on my phone, nor do they monitor my calls.
but in conclusion, you will not marry the older ones.. is that not heartbroken again to the ladies, I will better don't involve my self with the older ladies or I will rather be open to them that I came for their love and care for me... seriously I will not even think about it twice to date even a lady of the same age with me.

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Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 11:35pm On May 08, 2017
alexialin:




Thanks for the best wishes but He already knows he's my king and I, his queen. We humour each other about it everyday. smiley
And about the tiptoe stuff? Why would I want to live on tiptoes ?
My dear we are both freeminded individuals with similar likes coming together as one. smiley
The only tiptoe I for see which av started on and am getting used to it, is dressing smartly and seductively.. cheesy I no longer, let's my body go like before. I no longer wear slacks or loose gowns like before. Cos back then , after series of breakups with older guys and guys my age. I just called it quit with dating and I focused all my energies on my biz and was planning on how to av interracial babies lol cheesy as marriage with older guys didn't work for me.
So I zeroed my mind on saving money so I can travel abroad and get preggy.

So no more makeups. No more tight fitting clothes , I will simply wear anything and am off to work , I stopped watching my weight. then one day, a strange number called. I picked nonchalantly and a lively deep voice on d background said , Happy new month dear. And am wishing u the best this month. I looked at d number again and I said pls I don't know u. Yur number is strange? Who are u? The voice chuckled at the background . And I was already fuming , cos its not funny!
So to cut long story short , we started dating after I drilled him with hot seat questions .
Then after few days of chatting and feeling comfortable around him, I said , guy! Am not that pretty ,and am fat! Cant u see! So sincerely its me u want to date of all the young slim pretty ladies out there . Are u OK?? angry
He said princess , u have a lovely skin tone, and i swear u are not that fat! grin and what if i tell u. Am an african man and i love chubbg ladies , cos thats how i can describe u. So if u slim fit your clothes , wear tight hugging jeggings , rugged jeans with fitted tops , make lovely hair styles , u will look perfect and pls I beg u start wearing makeups , u will see how u will transform into a beauty. Just try it for like a month! If u don't like your looks , then don't answer my calls anymore and don't accept me as your boyfriend . deal?
I was just laughing all thru . I said OK? Let's do it . I don't like when one challenges me . u are on!
So thats how our journey started o. He always praises any new outfit I wear , he praises my makeup, he praises my hair..he's simply full of praises and buys me gifts ! Can u imagine ?? Lol. He pays off some of my personal bills . . Before a month I was glowing , everyone in my office were like wow! Alexia what happened to u.. U look so sweet ! Damn! Lol grin
My dear to cut this long story short again ..lol

My fiance. My king. My intending hubby brought me back to life all over again . kiss
I had already given up on marriage before .
He's a very good man with a good heart . God bless my sweet boo boo.
I can't ask for morecheesy
And he's 26.
Jesus my age mate, but some dude carry better mind poo, this one my village people will disown me for life...
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 11:38pm On May 08, 2017
Jazmiynne:
Emmanuel Macron is 39 years old. His wife is 64 years old. Emmanuel Macron is the current President of France.
Well, Op I guess that answers this question.
We are great Africans... OK, will you allow guy younger than to marry you?
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Jazmiynne: 11:50pm On May 08, 2017
Anusiemgood:

We are great Africans... OK, will you allow guy younger than to marry you?

The Op asked for what I think and not what I can/will do.

My post covers for exactly what I think about the subject matter.
Will I practice it? Most definitely not. smiley
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 11:57pm On May 08, 2017
Jazmiynne:


The Op asked for what I think and not what I can/will do.

My post covers for exactly what I think about the subject matter.
Will I practice it? Most definitely not. smiley
Then can you do as person..
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Anusiemgood(m): 12:00am On May 09, 2017
I need a working class sugar mummy, am very strong and wonderful in love making.. am 26 by age and can take you to hell if you so desire for it.. my machine is always active and ready for work... pm me if interested, please if you don't have a good paid job, do not bother to add me Thanks
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Jazmiynne: 12:01am On May 09, 2017
Anusiemgood:

Then can you do as person..

Lol I already answered. Kindly re-read my last post
Re: Dating A Lady Who Is Older Than You by Cannonleo(m): 12:31am On May 09, 2017
3 years older than me max beautiful memories
meanwhile am plus 1 today HBD to me

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