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I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:12pm On May 10, 2017
Pls who else is experiencing this? My husby hits me hard and try to satisfy me with all his strength he is everywomans dream he can last in bed 4 up to 40mins tryin 2 please nd maake me cum but most tyms I dnt enjoy it somtyms I feel d pleasure esp when he suck my breast but I always imagine it's anoda man wit a big black dick on me that is how I derive my pleasure. I enjoy sex with him wheneva I imagine anoda man on me. I hav neva discusd dis wit him cos he won't b happy dat is y I kept it 2myself. Pls who else is experiencing this and how can I overcome this? Pls I love my husband nd cannot hurt him or lose my marriage. Sometimes I even watch porn just to enjoy myself while alone. Pls advice

Cc: lalasticlala, Royalroy etc pls move to necessary section. Thanks

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by SINZ: 5:13pm On May 10, 2017
Telling him will most likely bruise his ego, YES. But a problem shared is half solved. Its better he knows his defects so he can work on himself (peniis enlargement creams and pills). A friend of mine hated his wife's cooking. He endured for years until he mistakenly let it slip one day during an argument and that led to some unprintable events grin. Unknown to him, his wife actually hated the watery egusi soup she cooks but cooks it because she felt he prefers it that way. Even the way she fixes other meals were as a result of the pattern with which he told her his mother cooked for him.


Long story short: Tell him. Worse case scenario; he'll sulk for a few weeks but he'll eventually get over himself and swing into action seeking ways to make a "Lex Steele" out of himself. grin

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by HonSuQMaDIQ(m): 5:14pm On May 10, 2017
grin
Errrrm ... i guess its people who marry for ulterior reasons that experience this.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by professorfal: 5:14pm On May 10, 2017
i know exactly how you feel ma'am.

I had the same feeling with Cynthia, when i'm on her i picture agbani darego.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:16pm On May 10, 2017
It seem your hubby's dick is small even though u didn't mention it, you were'nt blind before you married him though or didn't u sample shocked

The best thing you should do is call him and discuss how you feel with him, introduce intimacy gadgets like vibrators and Love Machine.

If his dick is too small, then u can buy a strap-on, have him wear it and service you. There are alot of good dildos with special features out in the market.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:16pm On May 10, 2017
You need to visit TB Joshua ASAP

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:23pm On May 10, 2017
Dats wat apuns to gold diggers.
Its not new

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Archangels2(m): 5:26pm On May 10, 2017
Hmm sad. I guess the best thing to do is to try and tell him d things yu admire in this ur imaginary man. It could b his physique, it could b his scent, it could be anything... If he loves u, he would try his best

I don't suggest yu tell him accurately how yu feel though... Dah one go cause wahala... Use wisdom

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by decatalyst(m): 5:27pm On May 10, 2017
professorfal:
i know exactly how you feel ma'am.

I have the same feeling with Cynthia, when i'm on her i picture agbani darego.


Guy, you must be insane! grin grin

SorftWerk:

If his dick is too small, then u can buy a strap-on, have him wear it and service you.

Jesu! shocked

This sounds absurd jare. Let him try to enlarge JT. But wearing strap-on sounds weird to decent couple
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Jaynom(m): 5:30pm On May 10, 2017
SexyGirl787:
Pls who else is experiencing this? My husby hits me hard and try to satisfy me with all his strength he is everywomans dream he can last in bed 4 up to 40mins tryin 2 please nd maake me cum but most tyms I dnt enjoy it somtyms I feel d pleasure esp when he suck my breast but I always imagine it's anoda man wit a big black dick on me that is how I derive my pleasure. I enjoy sex with him wheneva I imagine anoda man on me. I hav neva discusd dis wit him cos he won't b happy dat is y I kept it 2myself. Pls who else is experiencing this and how can I overcome this? Pls I love my husband nd cannot hurt him or lose my marriage. Sometimes I even watch porn just to enjoy myself while alone. Pls advice

Cc: lalasticlala, Royalroy etc pls move to necessary section. Thanks
I pray I don't end up with someone like you Amen
You're cheating on your husband with a figment of your imagination?

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Safiaa(f): 5:33pm On May 10, 2017
folarinmiles:
Dats wat apuns to gold diggers.
Its not new
what does that have to do with anything? Ode.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Jaynom(m): 5:36pm On May 10, 2017
SINZ:
Telling him will most likely bruise his ego, YES. But a problem shared is half solved. Its better he knows his defects so he can work on himself (peniis enlargement creams and pills). A friend of mine hated his wife's cooking. He endured for years until he mistakenly let it slip one day during an argument and that led to some unprintable events grin. Unknown to him, his wife actually hated the watery egusi soup she cooks but cooks it because she felt he prefers it that way. Even the way she fixes other meals were as a result of the pattern with which he told her his mother cooked for him.


Long story short: Tell him. Worse case scenario; he'll sulk for a few weeks but he'll eventually get over himself and swing into action seeking ways to make a "Lex Steele" out of himself. grin

You know Lex Steele? Porn Heads dey nairaland o grin
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by professorfal: 5:39pm On May 10, 2017
Jaynom:

I pray I don't end up with someone like you Amen
You're cheating on your husband with a figment of your imagination?

wtf they are thoughts,i believe everyone has a fantasy.besides it cant be proven.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Jaynom(m): 5:40pm On May 10, 2017
professorfal:


wtf they are thoughts,i believe everyone has a fantasy.besides it cant be proven.
Nah I don't. I believe you're in love with him but.. .. You're not sexually attracted to him.
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by SINZ: 5:41pm On May 10, 2017
Jaynom:
You know Lex Steele? Porn Heads dey nairaland o grin
Na you be our Grand Patron na? cheesy

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:41pm On May 10, 2017
decatalyst:


Guy, you must be insane! grin grin



Jesu! shocked

This sounds absurd jare. Let him try to enlarge JT. But wearing strap-on sounds weird to decent couple
as the thing small nko Wetin him wan do? I don't support these enlargement kinis angry
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:42pm On May 10, 2017
SorftWerk:
It seem your hubby's dick is small even though u didn't mention it, you were'nt blind before you married him though or didn't u sample shocked

The best thing you should do is call him and discuss how you feel with him, introduce intimacy gadgets like vibrators and Love Machine.

If his dick is too small, then u can buy a strap-on, have him wear it and service you. There are alot of good dildos with special features out in the market.
His di*ck is not small it's big though not very big it satisfy a woman I njoy it sometimes but most times I don't dats y I always pleasure myself with porn nd imaginations.
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:44pm On May 10, 2017
Safiaa:
what does that have to do with anything? Ode.
Lol. See mumu... Birds of d same feathers

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:44pm On May 10, 2017
SINZ:


Na you be our Grand Patron na? cheesy
who is lex steele? Can I see a ppix of his...kiss
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by IamAirforce1: 5:46pm On May 10, 2017
Some men go just dey Marry anything as wife


Imagine a house wife coming on here to describe what her husband's dicck look like.

If they use it to abuse her husband tomorw now, she go vex.

Walks out of thread.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by schumastic(m): 5:47pm On May 10, 2017
obviously the guy is ugly, that's the only explanation to this mystery.
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Bism(m): 5:48pm On May 10, 2017
so women watch porn shocked
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Safiaa(f): 5:48pm On May 10, 2017
Sometimes in life, no matter what you do, you just wont be sexual compatible with the person. Even if you tell him how to improve, something will never be right. So i kinda believe in knowing what you get into, before marriage.

It's either you continue to tell him what you like. Tell him how to satify you. The way you satisfy yourself, try and get him to mimic that. If you feel like it's a deal breaker, then you can leave. Sex is a big problem, and it normally escalates into bigger things. Cheating is never the way.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by SINZ: 5:49pm On May 10, 2017
SexyGirl787:
who is lex steele? Can I see a ppix of his...kiss

You're more interested in a pic of Lex Steele than helping your husband? cheesy

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by vani86: 5:51pm On May 10, 2017
You watch too much porn and masturbate often that's why.

Be honest, how often do you self-service i a week?
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 5:54pm On May 10, 2017
SexyGirl787:
His di*ck is not small it's big though not very big it satisfy a woman I njoy it sometimes but most times I don't dats y I always pleasure myself with porn nd imaginations.

then I think he doesn't know what he's doing during sex, like not touching, kissing, rubbing caressing and sqeezing the right places and skipping some important things which includes giving heads because those are what builds u up to easily achieve orgasms. .

Does he spend enough time on these or he goes straight to the point?
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by BoosBae(f): 6:00pm On May 10, 2017
Hello madam, what could be the issue? If he really tries his best to satisfy you as you claim, then telling him what works for you in the bedroom shouldn't be a problem. From what you wrote, he's clearly not getting something right, he hasn't been able to discover what really turns you on.

I think you should show him the way to giving you that pleasure, since you derive it from other means or you are not just attracted to your man sexually. If you continue this way, cheating on him isn't far away and that would spell doom in your marriage.

You shouldn't be afraid of embracing your sexuality. Speak up.

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by harizonal123(m): 6:12pm On May 10, 2017
Op if u try telling ur husband you have finished him. You will kill his confidence and automatically his sex life with you cos he is already putting in his very best. U guys need more romance in your relationship and you should try to be satisfied and contended with what u have. If u continue dreaming of a bigger one, I see u testing it outside one of these days. Entry from various elevation and depression angle may help to quench ur thirst. U Guys should try new positions and find out the one that suit's u most

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 6:15pm On May 10, 2017
SorftWerk:


then I think he doesn't know what he's doing during sex, like not touching, kissing, rubbing caressing and sqeezing the right places and skipping some important things which includes giving heads because those are what builds u up to easily achieve orgasms. .

Does he spend enough time on these or he goes straight to the point?
He is good @touchin nd sukin boobs but not suckin my pussy I don't like him sukin my pussy but I like givin him heads...
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 6:15pm On May 10, 2017
Safiaa:
Sometimes in life, no matter what you do, you just wont be sexual compatible with the person. Even if you tell him how to improve, something will never be right. So i kinda believe in knowing what you get into, before marriage.

It's either you continue to tell him what you like. Tell him how to satify you. The way you satisfy yourself, try and get him to mimic that. If you feel like it's a deal breaker, then you can leave. Sex is a big problem, and it normally escalates into bigger things. Cheating is never the way.
I cant leave my husband cos of sex I luv him so much cry
Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Nobody: 6:18pm On May 10, 2017
SINZ:


You're more interested in a pic of Lex Steele than helping your husband? cheesy
wink grin

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Re: I Pretend To Enjoy Sex With My Husband Even When I Dont. by Amarabae(f): 6:21pm On May 10, 2017
The simple truth is that you don't have affection for him.
If you do, you will be enjoying sex with him because you said that he knows how to hit it.
The problem is from you, deal with yourself personally.
Sex is very important in marriage.

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