TrapQueen77:



Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days...

Dotwillis1:
it's not hard in this part of the world where I live

SirMichael1:
No man likes an insecure woman around him. What you guys lacked in the relationship was trust.

If he is gone, let him leave but try to work on that nagging insecure character. Its a big turn off to men and no matter how deeply in love he is, over time he's gonna come back to his senses and look for a way to leave.


Guess he just did


Don't focus your energy on bringing him back, instead use it to work on yourself. Let him go as he is done

lalanice:
where is that

DM me if yhu wanna know

RaggedyAnn:
You never had him, to begin with. You cannot lose something you never had. He loves his girlfriend and you were just a temporary distraction. Let him go,you'll find your love in time. You've got time. Just don't act all desperate over a man, you'll send him running the opposite direction. Move on, darling. Sorry about the tough love.

Destinyy22:
I met this awesome guy a month ago, we fell in love with each other and started dating. Later discovered he had a girlfriend somewhere and still loves her so much, I started nagging cos I let go of every other man in my life just to be with him and he wasn't willing to do same. Guess I nagged too much about it and now he wanna leave. I don't wanna lose him, haven't met anyone like him before. I've sent numerous messages and calls to apologise and promised to forget about the other lady but it seems he has made up his mind. Please what do I do ? Took me a long while to find him , don't want to lose him . I 'm 23 years old.

TrapQueen77:



SmellingAnus, what can u say abt it?

Some men ooo...why they must have booboo in every hood ? Its very hard to find a loyal & loving bf these days...

Destinyy22:
I'm not interested in his money. Haven't asked him for a dime since we started dating. I'm young n ambitious, want to make my own money too.

heykims:
If it took u a long time to meet him, then it's a lie u let go a lot of men for him.
He has a girlfriend and still fell in love with u, then u are a side chick because he loves his first girl more and has therefore refused to part with her.
The truth is u want to snatch another woman's man.
U shouldn't be the one opening the thread for advice but that first girl!!

However life isn't fair, therefore try as much to win his heart setting a short time frame. If he still insists being with the girl after d time lapses, pls quit to limit d emotional torture.. .

TrapQueen77:




Ooohh?
Show me....

SmellingAnus:
The Op probably left more serious guys to be with someone that already has a girlfriend and now she wants to still be with the guy wether he has another person or not... The op should be happy that the guy is leaving her so that she can focus on a more serious person... But just like many girls... They love what they probably can't have and ignore what they have .... Boo, her boyfriend is actually cheating on his main chick.... The Op knows that she is the side chick and she is willing to remain so which makes me wonder if the guy were to be a poor man, will she still be willing to be his side chick despite his attempt to leave her

Pierocash:
that is what every materialistic girl say,bt the fact stil remains that u want to reap whr u didnt sow.The guy has some cash in his pocket to splash and that is the main reason u want to stick with him.Go get ur own man and build ur life with him,stop looking for a ready made,go find ur own and make him

sarahade:


how did you find out he has another gf?
I think you have a chance with him because the guy obviously is not in love with his gf because if he loves her he won't cheat on her.
as for nagging you have every right too but it should have a limit.

Destinyy22:
I don't think I'm his side chick. He came to visit me last weekend, I saw d seriousness in him.

Destinyy22:
Thanks so much. Guess I was being childish, I should have known better. I don't even like nagging but I'm d jealous type hence, d tendency to complain.

SmellingAnus:
The Op probably left more serious guys to be with someone that already has a girlfriend and now she wants to still be with the guy wether he has another person or not... The op should be happy that the guy is leaving her so that she can focus on a more serious person... But just like many girls... They love what they probably can't have and ignore what they have .... Boo, her boyfriend is actually cheating on his main chick.... The Op knows that she is the side chick and she is willing to remain so which makes me wonder if the guy were to be a poor man, will she still be willing to be his side chick despite his attempt to leave her

SmellingAnus:
he had her before you right?

Destinyy22:
Yea, he had her before me.

Biggcake:
Just kneel down and pray...

Pray for your own to come.

If he is truly yours he wont subject you to fighting another girl out of his life.

Lastly, dont fight for love. You could be killed by his girlfriend who sees you as an intruder.

lefulefu:
op wan snatch another babe guy and she come here de luk for endtime advice.i am very sure the guy must hold sides wella.who no like better tin

Pierocash:
that is what every materialistic girl say,bt the fact stil remains that u want to reap whr u didnt sow.The guy has some cash in his pocket to splash and that is the main reason u want to stick with him.Go get ur own man and build ur life with him,stop looking for a ready made,go find ur own and make him

SmellingAnus:
thats why I said you are the side chick.. the earlier you pick up yourself and move on the better for you.... What are your fears? You are just 23

Destinyy22:
I'm not interested in his money. Haven't asked him for a dime since we started dating. I'm young n ambitious, want to make my own money too.

Nickizoe:
Better let that guy go before you become a punching bag

Dotwillis1:
honey don't tie your destiny with someone who doesn't worth it. You are still very young at 23, thank your stars he didn't keep you till 28 before you discover he has another gf.. Their is still more life to live, more people to meet, More heartbreak awaiting buh then more better men to meet (like me ) ... Be wise! Stop begging! ... Its bad to nag, buh you love him and had to react that way....move on, you don't know what other things he still gon do that will hurt you.

.might not be easy to let go..buh you have to.

Destinyy22:
I love him , that's why I' m jealous I really wish he understands that.