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Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 8:26am On May 19, 2017 |
greatgod2012: Do you think it only ladies that beg for love ? Am in this situation presently and although have stopped calling or seeing her but still it very hard for me to move on, she is always on my mind and sometimes I would have picked my phone to dial her number but I just manage to shrug it off, may be it because am always alone and introverted. But I must say it very hard for me to move on but am very sure with time I can pull this over.. 3 Likes |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Atlantia(f): 8:28am On May 19, 2017 |
AyamConfidence:Lol. I want to be like you when I grow up. |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 8:31am On May 19, 2017 |
One sided expectations hurts a lot ..just as am going through right now..I'm really depressed. I can't go a day without crying. I'm trying my best to pull out but it still keep coming. For one week now I've just been in my room ,I haven't gone out ( crying) 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 8:33am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008: Toks my guy as usual you just nailed it again, it just like you are seeing my present situation. I don't even understand anymore and moving on is very hard I must confess. This is someone I love truly and she's not reciprocate the same love back to me but one thing about me is even if I love her to the moon I will still never beg for love cause Am once a victim of that and I know how they are treated. Have stopped calling her and even when she called I don't pick cause I see there is no point furthering the relationship when love is not coming from her, although she always claim she love me and she is just not the showing love type but still I believe it a lie nobody loves and hide it... 3 Likes |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 8:40am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Just as me, move on is even more difficult than staying cause of the stupid hope of someday change that pose but still not the best cause I know how people that are begging for love is treated, if you call they will say you are calling too much or you are stalking them, they give you rosters of DOs and DONTs cause you are the one begging for their love and if they did something bad and you call their attention to it they will say you are nagging, It actually bad begging for love. But me ooo am trying my possible best to move on no matter what, may be it because am always alone and introverted that is making the moving on hard but I will get thru with it 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 8:42am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Heyah sorry Dearie I know how you must have been feeling try to go out and mix with people at least for that moment you will forget about it and gradually you will move on Dearie |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Toks2008(m): 8:46am On May 19, 2017 |
Seanjay: If you truly desire someone,you can't help but show it...cos it comes effortlessly. 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 8:49am On May 19, 2017 |
Seanjay: That's what he always say . I'm a fault finder because I called his attention to what I don't like ,he said I shouldn't talk to him .today is making it a week he haven't called ..I'm just broken inside ..I'm trying to move I can't |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Toks2008(m): 8:49am On May 19, 2017 |
exco90: Here is the secret...look for one negative aspect in her and magnify it as a good reason to let go...it works 5 Likes |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 8:50am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008: Yes that's what am saying and it the same reason am believing she doesn't love me, she just don't want me to leave may be because of what she's getting from me but definitely not love |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Toks2008(m): 8:52am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: The problem with expecially most ladies is that they always desire a man who does not want them while neglecting the one who wants them...this is the reason many ladies will forever be heartbroken or be at the receiving end. I'm sure there is a guy somewhere that you are so so very sure that really desire you and would treat you like a queen but you just don't have feelings for him as many ladies say...what a sorry world. 4 Likes |
Re: When You Beg For Love by ceejayluv(m): 8:54am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: I saw the news about people jumping off bridges and seriously, i considered it for a few seconds two months ago when i got trapped into such devastating situation. oh, the rejection.... so humiliating. |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 8:54am On May 19, 2017 |
Seanjay: I pray today should be a start of a new day ..I'm tired of everything |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Omotayor123(f): 9:00am On May 19, 2017 |
boiz2men:Oh! so when will YOU ever make sense |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 9:02am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Heyah sorry Dearie I know how you must have been feeling, try to go out and mix with people at least for that moment you will forget about it and gradually you will move on Dearie.. Although mine called twice in the morning yesterday after a week or two but I didn't pick cause I see no reason talking to her if I actually wants to do this I think it needs to start from communication but I know she might appear in my house one of this days without invitation and am waiting for that, I don't know what she wants she doesn't love me and she doesn't want me to go kind of frustrating, Dearie just stop crying and try go to your friends and even if they are going to make jest of your situation it better than staying indoor all day crying, it might even help you heal cause that has helped me, I was heartbroken and when I couldn't stand it anymore I went to my friends and by the time they started making jest of me that the girl puncture my heart with those sharp rod on the gates( you know those things that they always do on every entrance gate for security reason) and another saying the girl hit my heart on the rock and all sorts at the end of the day that's how I got heal seeing them everything jesting about my situation and laughing about it, I think you can also try that, all the best 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 9:02am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008: Today I'm going to get out of my room and make myself happy Hang out with some friends I will |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 9:04am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Sorry the Lord is your strength |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 9:05am On May 19, 2017 |
Seanjay: Lol...OK I will I just feel happy now Thank you |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Toks2008(m): 9:06am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Good but don't rush into a new affair cos it will probably be a get back affair or revenge affair...just be yourself and the right guy will come...but then an affair is as good as you make it to be. |
Re: When You Beg For Love by adajoe555: 9:08am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008: No no no I won't I need to get my act straight, know what I want ,before venturing into a new one .I don't want to be hurt this way again |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Toks2008(m): 9:09am On May 19, 2017 |
ceejayluv: Like seriously! Come closer..just come closer and slowly
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Re: When You Beg For Love by montezz(f): 9:18am On May 19, 2017 |
cuteme88:Lol. This one pass me o. Well..I just ended one(though its few weeks old). He was everything any woman will pray for but he was always busy. I do the calling,texting and all. To even visit sef na war. So I just decided to take a walk jare. Thank God we haven't gone far but I have fallen in love with him already. It hurts but one has to know when to leave most especially to keep ur sanity. All dz love thing tire me aswear 3 Likes |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Nobody: 9:18am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008: Not entirely true. Some people become unable to show feelings...even if they do because of past hurts in love or lack of personal fulfilment. I've been in that position for the two reasons...was very heartbroken...and totally not satisfied with what I had used the past 4 years for. Turns out that as I separated, good ladies came around, but then I just couldn't return the attention nor affection...I had just put my emotions under lock and key, it was about improving myself every blessed day...if I failed to do something useful towards my goals in a day,my countenance will change...till d ladies left...one by one. One stuck around for a full year... The girl call tire, shout tire, cry tire....but rather than treat her badly in a relationship.. I let her walk away. We r still in contact tho...the 2 and was my high school crush...it just died...after 4 months. Point is we should not always put the object of our affection on a pedestal especially guys, they might have their issues which they will never tell u about. Doesn't mean they hate u, they are not just ready to love. Love or feelings of attachment should always come after careful evaluation of the person in question to avoid story. |
Re: When You Beg For Love by ceejayluv(m): 9:22am On May 19, 2017 |
Toks2008:Yeah, i deserved more than that slap seriously... The irony of the whole thing is that everyone thought i was the one who had the upper hand in the relationship. Still dunno how she managed to pull that impression among my friends and family. |
Re: When You Beg For Love by greatcid02(m): 9:26am On May 19, 2017 |
@toks2008....i love this post. It's making a lot of sense and also a source of encouragement to someone out there!!! A big thank you bro! #lessonlearnt# |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Tydarl: 9:33am On May 19, 2017 |
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Re: When You Beg For Love by cuteme88(f): 9:50am On May 19, 2017 |
yvonnechaka: If your case is similar to mine. plssss sis move on.... don't wait for him anymore. What i mean by moving on is not to be on the hunt for another boyfriend oooh. Just focus on your life, on what u are into presently. Make he dey do shakara to call, text or reach out to u. That's his own cup of tea. Enjoy your tea; do not reach out to him anymore, we have try the best we can to communicate. Na him dey bounce the communication Cheque so be it! Cheers* |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 9:53am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: That's the spirit, am happy that I could put a smile on your face this morning even though am going thru something similar to yours at least that's a sign that today is gonna be a different, your moniker sounds Igbo I hope you are not one of those tribalism bigot on here, cause the person God just use to put a smile on your face is a Yoruba and my name is Olamilekan Johnson and yours ? |
Re: When You Beg For Love by cuteme88(f): 9:54am On May 19, 2017 |
yvonnechaka: If your case is similar to mine. plssss sis move on.... don't wait for him anymore. What i mean by moving on is not to be on the hunt for another boyfriend oooh. Just focus on your life, on what u are into presently. Make he dey do shakara to call, text or reach out to u. Another bobo go show himself to your life. Don't fall a victim twice like i do as in been the only partner trying to reach out and communicate. Let your New relationship be two sided! both of u in joint union looking out for each other. That's his own cup of tea. Enjoy your tea; do not reach out to him anymore, we have try the best that we could to communicate. Na him dey bounce the communication Cheque so be it! Cheers* 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by CANTICLES: 9:57am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: Sorry about this dear, We can learn from King Solomon when he finds himself in a one sided Love with Lady Shulamite.. He braced himself up and moved on , The last statement that ends Song of Solomon confirms that . If such a Wealthy King could experience such, how much more others . The best we can do is trust in Jehovah God, the source of True Love . Pray to him and as someone suggested move and hangout with friends , alot of suggestions are also in the book " Young People Ask Volume 1&2 " . which can help , I really don't like seeing Others in a depressed state, If you would like us to talk more ... you can send me a mail . its not easy but not impossible to move on. 1 Like |
Re: When You Beg For Love by Seanjay(m): 9:57am On May 19, 2017 |
adajoe555: That's the spirit, am happy that I could put a smile on your face this morning even though am going thru something similar to yours at least that's a sign that today is gonna be a different, your moniker sounds Igbo I hope you are not one of those tribalism bigot on here, cause the person God just use to put a smile on your face is a Yoruba and my name is Olamilekan Johnson and yours ? |
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