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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by timmykaydude: 1:12am On Aug 07, 2017
Novelistguy:
To join group, whatsapp me on 08135833359
am not on whatsapp currently,got problem with phone,can you still add me.
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by akanbimustaphao(m): 4:52pm On Aug 07, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by horleryeday92(m): 7:09am On Aug 08, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by osic(m): 6:02pm On Aug 13, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by youngfocus(m): 2:31pm On Aug 15, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by lilfizzie: 5:15pm On Aug 18, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Novelistguy(m): 3:31pm On Aug 21, 2017
The Group thing has just ended and I've been raring to post on this forum.

As you all know Game is divided into two parts
INNER GAME
& OUTER GAME

You can only make it so far when you only have one, so without further ado, let's get onto it.

INNER GAME

The key to rebuilding yourself


Inner Game is what goes on in your mind. It's the attitudes, values and emotions you carry with you in every moment of your life. A man with solid Inner Game will have few problems attracting women. He will have strong confidence and self-esteem. He is the man every one of you reading this should strive to be.


1. DARK SECRETS OF WOMEN

This post might get me in some DEEP trouble...

I'm going to expose some deep dark secrets of women here that I want you to know about. This isn't theory or idle speculation.

It's the real deal. No hype.

Well, you wanted to learn some juicy stuff about women, didn't you?

Let's get into it.

SECRET #1: Women are NOT angels. And they are suffocating under the weight of this social expectation.

The common view in society is that girls are "sugar and spice" and everything nice, while boys are "snips and snails and puppy dog tails."

Get the feeling we got the short end of the stick on this one?

The social reality has always been that women protect their image as a means to keep their power over men.

What's going on behind the scenes is something quite different.

Women can be just as ruthless, mean, and vindictive as men.

SECRET #2: Women cheat. A LOT.

This is one that most women are going to be writing in (I know I've got some spies on my mailing list) and screaming at me about.

But the reality is that even though you hear about men being the "dogs," and that we will just jump in bed with a hot woman at the first opportunity...

The reality is that women have all that opportunity available to them all the time. They don't have to work at it.

If a woman wants to get a little love for herself, it's not hard.

Now, I'm not coming down on women here. In the grand scheme of things, I don't believe that men are any more or less good than women are.

It's important that you don't get a bunch of smoke blown around about what the TRUTH is on this, too.

SECRET #3: Women want you to approach them.

This one is the one that kicks my butt every time. You see, most guys don't believe this, and a lot of guys don't WANT to believe it.

First of all, I have conducted surveys of women, as well as spoken to women in just about every situation imaginable, and there is a big misunderstanding here about what women want.

This is what guys assume:

"If I see an attractive woman when I'm out during the day, I want to meet her. But I'm pretty sure she's busy, and I'll just be a bother to her. She's obviously doing stuff and in a hurry. I don't want to annoy her."

The problem here comes when we make the assumption without VALIDATING it. We never check in to see if it's real.

Most guys will not approach because of this belief.

And the one guy in a thousand that DOES approach her goes in with this belief in his head, and his approach is weak and half-hearted. He doesn't carry himself with any confidence.

Ask yourself: Do you believe that women are bothered when men approach and talk to them?

Before you do anything else, I want you to read this.

I asked a very attractive girl what her experience with guys approaching her was:

I asked: How frequently do guys approach you?

She said: "This week I'd say 0 guys approached. They showed interest but ... weren't able to turn it into a conversation..."

I asked: How many wanted to approach but didnt?

She said: "Percentage-wise, I'd say 95%."

WOW...!

Interesting, huh?

Now, I know that a lot of guys will hear that and say, "Well that's just ONE woman. Most women don't feel that way."

Nope.

Sorry.

This is true for every woman I've ever talked to.

Here are the facts from a recent survey:

41% of the women I asked said that they are only annoyed at guys when they're boorish and crude...

36% said they are almost always flattered by the approach...

22% said they were excited and happy to meet someone new.

And - get this - 0% (ZERO!) said that they are annoyed all the time when guys approach them.

Women want men to approach them - during the day -

In fact, here are some of the things women have told me when I asked them, "What would you say to guys who are out there and see a woman they want to talk to?"

- "Just do it - be a man - take the risk..."

- "Suck it up and go for it!"

- "Just be yourself; don't worry about the perfect pick-up line."

- "Do it the worst thing that can happen is she said no But, what if she is interested..."

- "PLEASE approach me because most of the time I am assuming that if you do not initiate a conversation, you are not available..."

- "Go for it, there's nothing to lose..."

That's a pretty big kick in the butt to get going and do it, isn't it?

But I have to admit, there's not a lot of helpful advice in their words.

"Just do it" is a great slogan for sneakers, but if you could just "do it," you would be doing it, right?

Well, a while back I sat down with some friends of mine that are alpha males and "gurus," and I recorded all my strategies for approaching women in any situation.

AND I completely broke down and explained my method for getting past Approach Anxiety.

That sick-to-your-stomach sensation of fear and nerves that hits you when you see a woman you want to go talk to... but you can't...

... but you REALLY want to...

... and you still can't...

... but you really want to get to meet her, and you know you HAVE to...

... and you STILL can't do it.

It's like a bouncer is holding your arms and legs and every time you start to move towards her, you freeze up and become paralyzed.

And the worst part about it?

You know that YOU are doing this to yourself.

It's time to get rid of this sensation once and for all.

Kill your approach anxiety, and learn the specific things to say and DO to approach women whenever and wherever you can.

If you liked my advice, you will love to sign up for next Whatsapp Group Session, where I'll be throwing down all you need to destroy approach anxiety and how you can approach women with zero chance of rejection. It's very possible

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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by youngfocus(m): 11:00am On Aug 22, 2017
Following, like a shadow, Incase of any watsap group dis is my number
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by youngfocus(m): 11:00am On Aug 22, 2017
Following, like a shadow, Incase of any watsap group dis is my number 07065645919
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Brunosamel(m): 11:08pm On Aug 22, 2017
My number please
08105488593
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Isaaclamar: 12:09am On Aug 23, 2017
My number 08110753915
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Novelistguy(m): 6:23pm On Sep 13, 2017
Hello guys, my ebook on daygame is in the works, everybody who has dropped a number will receive an excerpt, so drop your numbers.

The whatsapp group is also on the way guys.
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by brandon180(m): 7:08pm On Sep 13, 2017
those without whatsapp enabled phones na, can we drop our email??
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Novelistguy(m): 9:19pm On Sep 13, 2017
brandon180:
those without whatsapp enabled phones na, can we drop our email??

No probs.
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by unclemica: 9:23pm On Sep 13, 2017
My whattsapp nos. 08106851969
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by saragujay(m): 9:24pm On Sep 13, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by brandon180(m): 5:44pm On Sep 14, 2017
Novelistguy:


No probs.
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Isaaclamar: 6:18pm On Sep 14, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Nobody: 7:04pm On Sep 14, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by ddimmortal: 7:51pm On Sep 14, 2017
Novelistguy:
Social Proof

Believe it or not: There is one thing that attracts women’s attention even more than shoes. It’s “ social proof “. Let me explain this one using a short story:


It's about a waitress who used to work at a coffee shop. The pay wasn't very good, but her boss said that she could put out a tip jar as long as she didn't ask customers to contribute to it.

So she did. She took an empty jar from home, found a post-it note, and wrote on it with big permanent marker: "TIPS."

The first day, no one even noticed it.

She tried a bunch of things, moving the jar forward, putting it on top of the register, even changing the style of marker she used. Occasionally someone dropped in a buck. But she still couldn't just point to it or ask people to tip her.

Then, one day, when she picked up someone else's evening shift, one of her co-workers showed her the secret to getting more tips without asking for them. He took out a five-dollar bill and a few singles from his wallet and dropped them in the tip jar at the beginning of their shift.

Customers saw the jar, saw that people had been dropping money in, and figured that they were expected to do the same.

By the end of that day, the tip jar was almost full of ones and fives.

When it comes to your social life, you can approach people in one of two ways: with your tip jar empty or you tip jar already full of cash. Which do you think is better?

I have some easy hacks which I always use to social proof myself. And I really want to keep them to myself. Drop a comment and follow me if you want in and I will mail it to you.
I need hacks email it immortalkted@gmail.com
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by ddimmortal: 7:54pm On Sep 14, 2017
Novelistguy:


There are various tools to use. You can even friendzone her first with a 'lets just be friends' statement (I've broken the toughest gals with this) or a 'I would have been all over you if I was into light skinned girls (or whatever trait she has)'. Then setup a meet with her. If you keep chatting with her, you are going to fall into a type of zone worst than friend zone i.e The text buddy zone. Follow me and mail me for some tips and texts you can use.
I also need texts that I can use Immortalkted@gmail.com
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by ddimmortal: 8:20pm On Sep 14, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Rukkydelta(f): 9:39pm On Sep 14, 2017
Let me be reading
All these guys secret smiley
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Brunosamel(m): 9:49pm On Sep 14, 2017
Rukkydelta:
Let me be reading
All these guys secret smiley
see this one, it won't stop u falling in love
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Nobody: 10:19pm On Sep 14, 2017
My number please I'm interested in all 08140206908
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by bolar12(m): 11:05pm On Sep 14, 2017
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Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Rukkydelta(f): 9:12am On Sep 15, 2017
Brunosamel:
see this one, it won't stop u falling in love
Love?
I laugh in Spanish grin
People like me don't fall in love we only lust,crush or get infatuated
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Nobsaibot(m): 10:41am On Sep 15, 2017
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Rukkydelta:

Love?
I laugh in Spanish grin
People like me don't fall in love we only lust,crush or get infatuated

Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Rukkydelta(f): 10:46am On Sep 15, 2017
Nobsaibot:
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Who is playing HTG now ?
Love is not my thing
If I have a little feeling for you then we are good but if it starts getting deep I'm out
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by hill111: 5:16pm On Sep 15, 2017
Bro the social tin ineed @ simondaboki@yahoo.com
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Kalatium(m): 6:19pm On Sep 15, 2017
Novelistguy:
Hello guys, my ebook on daygame is in the works, everybody who has dropped a number will receive an excerpt, so drop your numbers.

The whatsapp group is also on the way guys.
My no : 09036482952
Re: Refine Your Dating Game (Charm 101) Ladies Don't Enter! by Novelistguy(m): 9:14pm On Sep 15, 2017

Join the whatsapp group

https://chat.whatsapp.kcom/L2kEMniwAVYB7KTytAglut

Simply remove the K in the .kcom to use it because NL doesn't support whatsapp links. Copy and it into your browser to use.

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