Ajewealth123:
Abeg who get that yinmu picture?
This advertisement/swaying is top notch

I bought an lg led 88inch tv in Dubai 2015, so you are telling me I shouldn't have tested it?
I should just bring it to Nigeria and test it when I get here?

Before my fiancé became my wife,the instruction was clear,no belle,no marriage. Shikena.
Doctors will test you and tell you u are ok and some of these tested people won't still get pregnant.
Or how do we explain the people with borehole under them?

Make I sha dey here dey observe comments.na from here we go sabi dose wey get sense and dose wey sense dey pain

McBrooklyn:
If "no sex before marriage" was actually God's plan, then we would all receive our various dicks and pussies on the Wedding night...

Theoigios:

[s] And you would have been using your mouth to pass out urine..[/s]

Mementoes:
Are you a deeper life member?

Lilyqueeny:



No I'm not

Lilyqueeny:
Here are 5 practical reasons to keep buttoned up and hold off having sex until marriage .


Reasons that might not seem super important NOW but will be HUGE down the road.



1. You will save yourself a lot of regretful moments.




If you talk to anyone who had a variety of sexual encounters before they got married, inevitably you’ll find they have at least one – but probably many – they wish they could take back.


Having sex is so personal and permanent. It can never be undone, so it shouldn’t be something you regret.




2. It will make the relationship simpler and easier to evaluate



It’s much harder to recognize a broken relationship when you are having sex with someone. Want to know if the relationship you have is actually worth having or continuing? Try not having sex and see if you still want to be around the person.





I’m convinced that “hot sex” before marriage is a main contributor to broken marriages. Why? Because those marriages most likely would have never happened if the sex wasn’t keeping them together in the first place.




3. It’s difficult going ‘a la carte’ when you are used to a buffet.



Let’s be honest: if you are used to having sex with whomever and have “sampled all the varieties” then monogamous sex with one partner may be a hard pill to swallow.
It doesn’t matter if the food quality is way better at the a la carte restaurant.



Buffet people are buffet people because they convince themselves that variety is always best, even if the food quality is crap.



I know this may sound counter-intuitive in a day and age where consumption rules, but if your only frame of reference for sex is with your spouse (sex that’s special and intimate), then it’s going to be pretty great and you are not going to be worrying about what else you may be missing out on.




4. Sexual history is not something JUST you have to contend with.



When you bring a sexual history into your marriage, you are affecting both people. You have to deal with your flames of old, and so does your spouse.



A relationship that is threatened by comparisons is one that lacks security, and security is super important in the bedroom.




5. Sex Affects Your Brain




One of the most interesting aspects of the brain (to me) is how its rewards system works. Simply put, the brain is designed to seek out and recreate those experiences that make it feel good.





While our brain’s rewards system can serve to our own destruction (like in the case of addiction) it can also serve to our betterment.






Yes, the Biblical reasons are important.
Yes, not having sex before marriage because “God said so” is important.



But, realize that God didn’t tell us these things because he wants to rob us of pleasure. He doesn’t want to withhold the best. In fact, it’s quite the opposite.



God’s design for sex is meant to give us the best.
His ways are not just spiritual. Sometimes they are also tremendously practical and always beneficial.




And sometimes those ways may not seem important in the HERE and NOW but they will make perfect sense down the road.

Theoigios:


chai!!!, comparing a human being to a tv? where is your brain?, well what do i expect from guys like you?. do you think about your family members that are females before you comment on posts that has to do with sex?.
its obvious you only see ladies as things.
please change how you think!.

Ajewealth123:
what was your jamb score? Did you pass? All these nuisance underage teenager too think they have an idea when it comes to relationship talks. It is not neccessary you comment and if you must do,do that with your brain intact.
I wasn't comparing tv with female,I was citing and example.next time when you want to quote someone,make sure you have a clear understanding of the subject matter,what you are quoting and how well to respond.
Imagine you are even still a young lad who doesn't know or have the full context of what a relationship is. I won't entertain your quote any longer so keep whatever you want to say to yourself

On the bolded, it is obvious you were not properly trained. I won't insult your parent but don't make the mistake a second time,you will get what you are trying to bargain for I promise you

felixomor:

Great Thread, Lilyqueeny Keep it Up.

jashar:
Lilyqueeny.

Mind not the haters, you have spoken well.

To all those comparing human beings to appliances, I don't blame you. I blame the people that chose to sleep with you.

Limescale:
Op Bravo

Mementoes:

Ok.
How do you think two people can verify their sexual compatibility before marriage given these points you have raised?