There is this guy i met of recent at the net, on our first meeting he said i should visit him at home, i said NO, lets meet at eatries or somewhere else not house. He insits i come to his house.

As for me am standing my ground of not to his house. if he likes he meet me at eatries.

Otherwise i will show him a way out, permantely delect him from my chat.

pls. advice

You are right. Its either he meets you in a public place or drop him!
I hope he is not scared of the money he is going to spend?
Whatever you do don't go to his house, he is still a stranger. People are not always what they say they are and real live situation is different from online.
Be very careful and remember another rule for online dating, don't give out too much information about yourself to people you have not met physically! Goodluck and be careful!

hbabe you are right, don't give in easily be wise.

hbabe:

You are right. Its either he meets you in a public place or drop him!
I hope he is not scared of the money he is going to spend?
Whatever you do don't go to his house, he is still a stranger. People are not always what they say they are and real live situation is different from online.
Be very careful and remember another rule for online dating, don't give out too much information about yourself to people you have not met physically! Goodluck and be careful!

Correct!

I so much appreciate your advice. as for the guy if he don't accept my terms i will kindly bid him b, y, e!!!!!!!!!

But come to think of it, is not wise for a guy to invite someone he heardly know to his house, to me is not a wise thing to do.

sometin in me tells me this guy in question is wale.star`

URE FINISHED if u try visting him @ home~

hbabe:

I hope he is not scared of the money he is going to spend?

No comment

@Kx
Na wetin?
Its a possibility! And if that's the reason they can meet in d church, mosque, office or school as the case may be!

190:

sometin in me tells me this guy in question is wale.star`

URE FINISHED if u try visting him @ home~

LMAO!! bad boi

OP.

Just one word [size=14pt]CAUTION[/size]. BTW, why is he insisting to come over to his house?. Very disrepectful I must admit.

@Abbey_City. Uuuuhhhmm!

This is the feedback of my earlier post. the guy came up again of meeting in his house, i stood my ground and insist eatry, when i see he don't want to listen, i walked away, informing him as he refuse am walking away.

after some seconds the guy came back appologising that we should meet at a place of my choice, which am yet to decide.

he bend low

i thank all of you for ur kind contributions and advice. Am be as careful as a cat i promise.

cheers

ilugunboy:

OP.

Just one word [size=14pt]CAUTION[/size]. BTW, why is he insisting to come over to his house?. Very disrepectful I must admit.

@Abbey_City. Uuuuhhhmm!

u jst called my name??

@Divine R
Goodluck dear!
Try to have a good time !
I hope it works out for you!

Abbey_city:

LMAO!! bad boi

what have i done or said again
that i am now been refered to as a bad boi~

hbabe:

You are right. Its either he meets you in a public place or drop him!
I hope he is not scared of the money he is going to spend?
Whatever you do don't go to his house, he is still a stranger. People are not always what they say they are and real live situation is different from online.
Be very careful and remember another rule for online dating, don't give out too much information about yourself to people you have not met physically! Goodluck and be careful!

Divine R.:

This is the feedback of my earlier post. the guy came up again of meeting in his house, i stood my ground and insist eatry, when i see he don't want to listen, i walked away, informing him as he refuse am walking away.

after some seconds the guy came back appologising that we should meet at a place of my choice, which am yet to decide.

he bend low

i thank all of you for your kind contributions and advice. Am be as careful as a cat i promise.

cheers

Wow sis your excitement is affecting your grammer. Take am easy

Hmmmm!
Who wouldn't be excited to meet a hearthrob?
I am sure I will write in Urhobo and pidgin!

The guy must be handsome or rich, that's why she's excited.


why not meet at a filling station?

I know say Abbey_city go they here

hey baby really theres nothing wrong about it only if you guys are cool with each other. If you are scared, then you can meet him somewhere else public first before getting down with him.

honeric01:

The guy must be handsome or rich, that's why she's excited.


why not meet at a filling station?

hbabe:

Hmmmm!
Who wouldn't be excited to meet a hearthrob?
I am sure I will write in Urhobo and pidgin!

anyway am not excited, over what!!!!? Is he the first? anyway i dont know how his face looks, pix can deceive.

be informed am nt excited, you will hear from me later!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anywhere else apart from his/her home!

Moyola:

Anywhere else apart from his/her home!

so u'll prefer Mr Biggs to d comfy of ma leather sofa?

i see

iya kin somi obe, baba maje n jiya laye

sleek417:

so u'll prefer Mr Biggs to d comfy of ma leather sofa?

i see

iya kin somi obe, baba maje n jiya laye

Mr Biggs ke?! Yu can do beta dan dhat nauu! buh not yur ile abeg!

hehe! @ song! se iya niyen nii?

Moyola:

Mr Biggs ke?! Yu can do beta dan dhat nauu! buh not yur ile abeg!

hehe! @ song! se iya niyen nii?

oh ok
ull prefer churascos abi?

but i still insist ma crib will offer more

~ 42" hdtv
~ some aesthetics paladiana floor with some areas of d house also covered with vintage persian rugs
~ italian leather sofas
~ surround from Bang & Olufsen
~high tech kitchen for whatever u wanna eat

so tell me which would u prefer

and also ma kingsize bed

u can never go wrong with ma abode

a trial will convince u

Errthing listed above wiv a massive board dhat reads "Ikilo pataki: Danger!!!"
we'll meet up @ d cinema. ose gan!

are u scared to go to his house cos of the fear of being despoiled?
or you don't wanna to enter lala land on your first proper date.
fact is anything can happen beit it mr biggs, inside the car,  et al if you do decide to meet him somewhere other than a public/open place.

Jeezy said:
Meet me in the car it's going down
Meet me at the crib it's going down
Meet me at the mall it's going down
Meet me at the cinema it's going down ---- Moyola
Meet me anywhere it's going down

Moyola:

Errthing listed above wiv a massive board dhat reads "Ikilo pataki: Danger!!!"
we'll meet up @ d cinema. ose gan!

cinema ko, stadium ni

jay bee:

are u scared to go to his house cos of the fear of being despoiled?
or you don't wanna to enter lala land on your first proper date.
fact is anything can happen beit it mr biggs, inside the car, et al if you do decide to meet him somewhere other than a public/open place.

Jeezy said:
Meet me in the car it's going down
Meet me at the crib it's going down
Meet me at the mall it's going down
Meet me at the cinema it's going down ---- Moyola
Meet me anywhere it's going down

LoL!! Well! d dude ain 'Jeezy'!!. . .n ma pepper spray can do smth!
Ain gon b there alone tho

sleek417:

cinema ko, stadium ni

hehe!

@Poster, NO NEVER.

what if the guy is a NLder?