meiyol:
I just lost my relationship due to genotype issues..he is AS and I'm AS. We knew abt our genotype incompatibility frm the very first day..we were cool with it or so i thought. We were together for a year nd some months before we switched to long distance relationship cos of his job. I'm a med student, he is a doctor, so we both knew wat it meant. I was cool with it cos the signs were there that God put us together..everybody knows it, his parents, my parents..we ourselves knew it that our paths were ordained by God.. Then suddenly, from nowhere, he comes up with dangers of having sickler kids, the diseases they face, their pain and all..he suddenly stopped talking abt d fact that we may be lucky not to have any of our kids as sicklers, or medical methods we could use like IVF and all..our parents are both aware of the genotype ish, mine are very okay with it. He said he's not sure his parents are okay with it and yet they call me EVERYDAY to assure me nothing will go wrong and to cheer me up and all.. i questioned him cos it made me feel he was looking for an opportunity to leave..and he didnt give me any reply, just stopped talking to me.
Our introduction was slated for next year, he is my first love, I've been so loyal nd i pray for him.. I feel so used and heartbroken..my instincts tell me something is wrong..I'm back to square 1, where would i start from? He was my best friend, my everything..now, it's just me

Life iis just unfair. Imagine I ve what ur man doesn't ve. I am AA. The dream of every AS but yet I am not financially independent I would ve come for u if u don't mind

ednut1:
Truth is he knew how it wud end. He just dey chop ponmo till e tire

I dey tell you. He just wanted to chop well wll. But she as a doctor, doesn't she know the risks ?

NwaObinkita:
Can I take his place

I am AA

You get moni? This babe is used to cash now ooooo!!! the ex na medical doctor, pack well poor fella

I was coming from church today I put my son in the front sit while others were behind he felt caged and lonely I feft bad and relocated him to join the party behind. My question, how will you feel if 5yrs down the line u are not so lucky and you have a sickler child going through a crisis crying asking you mummy why am l always sick. My sister love alone is never enough.

Okay so I did a bit of searching, not anything deep, but just a rough search online because I've been a victim of heartbreak due to genotype issues, I've tried to move on but still hurts me terribly I feel like I'm just wasting my time.

Findings
more than 70% of the articles I found on google talking about the downsides of 2 AS people getting married are Nigerian based, quite surprising but run a search on google and you'd be awed by the results on the first few pages.
Somehow, I believe there's a way for 2 AS people to be together with reduced risk and have normal kids (I did see an article that explained in detail how this is possible and being done in advanced countries)
My ex is a biochemist and she did confirm that there are procedures but they'll be expensive, although we weren't thinking marriage yet cus we quite young, I implore the OP to do a deeper research, there's got to be ways around it, who knows this just might bring about the next great geneticist from Nigeria, sadly I'm not a medically inclined person but would be interested in this topic if it ever becomes something serious.
@OP take heart

Fhowe:
Most sound as if we are still in the stonage most of our parents did not know their genotype and it is not as if we have ss children everywhere my dear let him go this is 2017 you guys had options .Why do we sometimes think it is easy to walk away in western countries genotype is not an issue anymore there are reliable and cheap options and we should all stop acting as if abortion is a new thing one thing I know for sure 75% out of girls that are above 18 yrs have done abortion more than once

wish ur parents aborted u, u would have been somewhere peeping at the living. Get sense abortion is not good. its evil

ggood:
nawa for genetpye

Na serious wa

meiyol:
I just lost my relationship due to genotype issues..he is AS and I'm AS. We knew abt our genotype incompatibility frm the very first day..we were cool with it or so i thought. We were together for a year nd some months before we switched to long distance relationship cos of his job. I'm a med student, he is a doctor, so we both knew wat it meant. I was cool with it cos the signs were there that God put us together..everybody knows it, his parents, my parents..we ourselves knew it that our paths were ordained by God.. Then suddenly,

SUDDENLY
SUDDENLY
DID YOU JUST SAY SUDDENLY? !!!
YOU MUMU NO BE SMALL

from nowhere, he comes up with dangers of having sickler kids, the diseases they face, their pain and all..he suddenly stopped talking abt d fact that we may be lucky not to have any of our kids as sicklers, or medical methods we could use like IVF and all..our parents are both aware of the genotype ish, mine are very okay with it. He said he's not sure his parents are okay with it and yet they call me EVERYDAY to assure me nothing will go wrong and to cheer me up and all.. i questioned him cos it made me feel he was looking for an opportunity to leave..and he didnt give me any reply, just stopped talking to me.
Our introduction was slated for next year, he is my first love, I've been so loyal nd i pray for him.. I feel so used and heartbroken..my instincts tell me something is wrong..I'm back to square 1, where would i start from? He was my best friend, my everything..now, it's just me

This is serious.. Well this shlt just happened to me this January, we both AS.. we are still in touch but we know it ain't leading nowhere. Infact it was the first thing she first asked me and I said AA but when I used the lab it was AS.. So please move on, Love does not think of itself, kindly think of the misery you are going to put those unborn children into when they are born if you should both continue, avert such by moving on.

Tosinex:
This is serious.. Well this shlt just happened to me this January, we both AS.. we are still in touch but we know it ain't leading nowhere. Infact it was the first thing she first asked me and I said AA but when I used the lab it was AS.. So please move on, Love does not think of itself, kindly think of the misery you are going to put those unborn children into when they are born if you should both continue, avert such by moving on.

Sorry

ibietela2:

Sorry

thanks broda.. Such is life, we've just got to move on.

His decision to end the relationship was the best...

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Hello ma'am,

If you don't mind I'd love to talk to you...going through something similar and I would appreciate if you could share your experience.

I really hate how Nigerians treat this genotype issue like a curse. There are options for crying out loud. IVF is one... I'm just tired

Thank you �

He made the right choice, he knew this right from day 1, Just wanna enjoy ur kitten and discharge. And u called ur self a medical practitioner see I lost a nephew due to sickle cell disease infact he was in excruciating pain before he finally give up at age 12, just carry urself and keep going,

Any ways am AA I got wat ur fiance lacks such is life,
Blood group AB+
Height. 6'1 186cm
Weight. 75kg. And am still single

egbaguy2:
U shud be ashamed of urself being a med student and still thinking like a fool....that he is a doctor make him stupid too. I lost my ex to this shit and av moved on.

it’s quite surprising. A doctor and a med student fooling themselves