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Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 1:33pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
mctowel01:yes o brother. same reasons I broke off my engagement I had earlier this year |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 1:39pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix: Story for another day bro. It's totally a different person. I am really fed up with Nigerian girls. They can really go a long way in pretending just to get to their ultimate goal but God or Nature will continue to expose them because I don't deserve them. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 1:45pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
tifany89:No bro. When the times was going good, I still asked her for it. Only that I asked for a fraction of it saying she should use the rest to get something else she needed. Well that money isn't really so important anymore; I just only have been saving myself from the others I would have done |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by moorevic(m): 1:56pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
This relationship is complicated. The girl is simply playing around. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by tifany89(m): 2:51pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Okay den, no qualms. It's her loss afterall 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Pemmy15: 3:51pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Sorry eh...you seem like a decent and serious minded guy...truly her loss, but good you got a clearer picture of her before walking down the aisle. I always wonder why good guys always end up with the wrong kind of women and good girls end up with heartbreakers, and then their experience will end up changing them. It takes the grace of God for two good and well suited people to find each other...I swear. Maybe considering you just came out of a broken engagement and now this you should take time before starting another relationship...like reevaluate your type cos maybe you're attracting the same type that doesn't really suit you and what you're seeking. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by LogoDWhiz(m): 4:09pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Is this the first time such is happening? If yes, then you are overreacting. Let it slide, but let her know it is wrong and make her know the dangers therein. Make up and get back together, you can be indirectly pushing her out with the unnecessary nagging. Move on and be a man. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by robotix: 4:35pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer:oh my brother, I completely understand... do not spill the beans. I am in same shoes as yourself. I am also tired, I am fed up. I have had series of thought not to even marry. The strangest thing is that they don't like a guy who treats them right... THEY DON'T forget anyone who would come here and tell you otherwise. From your past post and recent ones, I can deduce you Mr. Nice guy, the kind they don't appreciate. Shall we now turn monsters and start deceiving them? Certainly not! To be honest, I have given up on them. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by robotix: 4:48pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer:I wouldn't mind if you tell us why you broke it of as in how it ended. I know a lot of guys will learn from it but it is okay if you don't feel like sharing any details. You are someone with a good heart, focused and love to treat women right... the sad thing is that most Nigerian girls don't appreciate this kind of personality. The ones who would appreciate your type have had enough experience forking around and so they are tired and want to settle down. It is sad. I have a female friend from here whom I do tell my experience. I told her that if you were not close to me, you would think that guys are deliberately hating on girls but you see my tales are not made up but from REAL LIFE experiences... Our case are like the coming of christ wherein the people refuse to accept him because he is diguised in a figure they do not have in mind. we are like opportunity wrapped and dumped in a piece of garbage and so,they often end up not knowing what our hearts hold. These same girls will go on to meet players, womanizers, domestic violators, philanderers and they will stick to them, call them heros and all what nots. It is a sad situation bro... 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 4:56pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix:I swear you brought this out from me. Experience remain the best teacher. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 5:00pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix:Certainly not because we don't have such a conscience that will carry it. Instead, regrets after doing them. So we just be ourselves until we find the right one who really love us in the right way and purpose 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 5:05pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Pemmy15: This is my problem . I have tried my best but maybe it is not good enough. Or maybe the surrounding I find myself. But I'm really tired 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 5:10pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
LogoDWhiz:Even though she might still stay with me until she moves to her new place, trust me I wouldn't even allow anything because I can't say everything down here and I see more reasons I have to let it go. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by robotix: 5:14pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer:What I do now is just hide myself... You know your worth and in a world where sorrow hangs in the air, you are a gold and any girl with the right sense will surely appreciate you. Treat a girl too nicely, and you will be called a weakling, immature, pest, too nice... read the link below bro https://www.nairaland.com/396243/how-maintain-control-woman But can we change who we really are at heart? 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by LogoDWhiz(m): 5:36pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Probably you should if you can't let go.. Save yourself the stress. Trust is a must have in a relationship.. You start having it at this stage, it's gonna be bad later on. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 6:24pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix: How come I never came about such a thread ? I think on the last relationship (the one I engaged before cancellation) , I exhibited the three types at a stage before things got out of hand. This recent relationship looks more like the artificial control. God bless you for this. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by robotix: 6:36pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Hmmmmm... will send you a PM brother. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Pemmy15: 6:47pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Really sorry. You need to take a step back and honestly evaluate both your surroundings and the people in it. You're lucky that you have the chance to do it before you make major choices. Don't feel discouraged...just use it as a learning opportunity and proceed with caution. There are plenty of good men and women out there despite what you read on nairaland and social media...don't be cynical but don't rush it. You'll meet the one that's right for you. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Originalsly: 6:52pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Bro... from your thread and comments... that babe is playing you all along. You did well to drop her... but I don't think you should tag all Nigerian girls as being deceitful. .. women are the same worldwide... you just have to be careful and watch for signs. Flight to Abuja... did she ask you to buy the ticket?...I guess not...she wanted the cash. Did the loan request come up before you made sales?...I guess not... she requested the cash when she knew you had it. As soon as you said no...you can't afford it a mysterious friend suddenly made it available? ..that was a lie... said that to make you feel jealous and hopefully tell her to refund him and you will give it to her. Suddenly she had to cancel the flight?...that was a lie. Staying the night at a friend because bla bla bla?... another story. Waiting to get her own place?...a lie....waiting to move in with another guy. Bro.... she is doing runs.... you are the base... give her like a week or two... tell her she has to go. Keep playing around playing Mr Nice Guy.... she'll give you something to lead you to your grave. 2 Likes |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Pemmy15: 6:54pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix: There are many that do appreciate nice guys, but tbh I think even nice guys often run for bad girls just like good girls often run after bad guys. I see many good guys overlook substance for what's on sight. Don't be discouraged, take heart, use caution and keep being yourself if you truly are a good guy. Patience will be your best friend. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by mctowel01: 7:13pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
robotix:Lol, you definitely have a high threshold for rubbish. Majority of the heartbreakers were once nice guys. Maybe you still need a few more till you loose it, or if very lucky, you meet from the few who will actually appreciate you. 1 Like |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by robotix: 8:35pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
mctowel01:bro, I can be a bad if I want. Not that I don't have girls, I fork buddies but I don't have a main chic... so you see the irony of things? |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 9:26pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
Originalsly: This is way off. Trust me on that |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by joceey(m): 9:42pm On Jun 05, 2017 |
If she continue to keep malice with you, without realizing that she is wrong I think she has alternative.....thats someone else.....just be calm and allow things to unfold itself....i wish you best of luck |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 12:54am On Jun 06, 2017 |
joceey:I'm done with it. I have seen too much signs already |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Lewaluv(f): 12:58am On Jun 06, 2017 |
You are over reacting. If you dont trust her why are you with her? WebSurfer: |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by WebSurfer(m): 1:01am On Jun 06, 2017 |
Lewaluv: I can't be foolish to trust someone who looks very promiscuous. Of course I wouldn't know that if I didn't date her |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by toastedbread: 2:10am On Jun 06, 2017 |
you no need a prophet to tell you. take a look at her whatsapp messages and decide for yourself. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by waywardpikin: 8:19am On Jun 06, 2017 |
mctowel01: This |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by DukeNija(m): 8:22am On Jul 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Bro you have earned my respect, and i rarely tell people this. Men like you are what our society needs at the moment. If only my friend could see this post cos he is almost in the same situation. You saved yourself heartaches, fights, disrespect and bitterness by making a very simple yet tough decision. God will give you your own woman and trust me, i know what its like to have someone who truly understands your position and is ready to stay true to your 'ministry' in thick and thin. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by DukeNija(m): 8:30am On Jul 05, 2017 |
WebSurfer: Wooooooow! I thought its the same person. It is well. |
Re: Is It Right For A Guy To Pay My Partner's Flight Ticket ? by Doctorfitz: 8:35am On Jul 05, 2017 |
The truth is Nigerian guys always act dumb, una no like true.... See the average Nigerian girl for who they truly are and u won't have problems... I swear. They see guys as a means to an end, have that at the back of ur mind before you venture into anything sexual or otherwise. Even wives do that... She doesn't see anything in collecting things from guys Buh I bet if it was the other way round she won't be happy with u collecting things from a girl. She's presently more concerned about the pix she'll take on that flight to intimidate her friends on facebook. Open ur eyes Smh |
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