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How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 5:07am On Jun 06, 2017
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Nobody: 5:16am On Jun 06, 2017
Invisibleojay:
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks
stop wasting your time, go make money

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Kondomatic(m): 5:34am On Jun 06, 2017
Invisibleojay:
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks
You're rude even to us here.


How can you be asking this type of question by 5:07am?

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by LMandela(m): 5:38am On Jun 06, 2017
05:07am? Nigga Wtf? Thats Rude!

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by seniorgozman(m): 5:42am On Jun 06, 2017
Nairalanders have no chill.

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by shikshark: 5:48am On Jun 06, 2017
the first comment was right but while you make ur money u will need a good woman behind ur success, ill advice you say no to street wooing, getting your dream girl to love you is like writing a final year dissertation if she refuse to give you her contact details research about her friends get her contact then get in touch with her and let her know ur intentions, no woman is a killer and always have it at the back of your mind that she may reject you at first and thats normal. never give up and pamper her if need be.

sorry what class are you sef?

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by whitebeard(m): 5:52am On Jun 06, 2017
xstry:
stop wasting your time, go make money
did anyone tell u...

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by LMandela(m): 5:54am On Jun 06, 2017
shikshark:
sorry what class are you sef?
What u should av asked... Who wakes up at 5am to ask how to woo a girl? Nigga be having sleepless nights, hahaha

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Thisboysef(m): 6:07am On Jun 06, 2017
Invisibleojay:
Hi good morning nairalanders please I need your help I don't really know how to make friend with a girl for the first time. When I approach them all they do is to turn me down telling me that am rude even if I walk to a girl to talk to her in the end she will give me fake number help a friend I really need the first sweet talk statement that will make them laugh and get along with the conversation thanks
go and read ur book. Diz early morning, Na woman go kill u,

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by abdeiz(m): 6:41am On Jun 06, 2017
Op it is because you no fine

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Xsem(m): 6:46am On Jun 06, 2017
Op you are very rudeooo. Lemme come and give you fake advice grin

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by nepapole(m): 6:54am On Jun 06, 2017
Eeya....i come dey pity d op sha. cry cry

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 7:19am On Jun 06, 2017
Kondomatic:
You're rude even to us here.


How can you be asking this type of question by 5:07am?
Sorry if it's too early it just occur to me and I think this is the best time to get reply

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 7:22am On Jun 06, 2017
shikshark:
the first comment was right but while you make ur money u will need a good woman behind ur success, ill advice you say no to street wooing, getting your dream girl to love you is like writing a final year dissertation if she refuse to give you her contact details research about her friends get her contact then get in touch with her and let her know ur intentions, no woman is a killer and always have it at the back of your mind that she may reject you at first and thats normal. never give up and pamper her if need be.

sorry what class are you sef?
am in university 300level

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 7:23am On Jun 06, 2017
nepapole:
Eeya....i come dey pity d op sha. cry cry
thanks embarassed embarassed embarassed

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 7:26am On Jun 06, 2017
Thisboysef:
go and read ur book. Diz early morning, Na woman go kill u,
am still reading because am having test this morning

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by ikeepitreal(m): 7:30am On Jun 06, 2017
dude, I'll advise to go ask this question on reddit and quora. There are more sensible people up there to answer you in a mature way. The guys here aren't helpful at all

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Invisibleojay(m): 7:32am On Jun 06, 2017
ikeepitreal:
dude, I'll advise to go ask this question on reddit and quora. There are more sensible people up there to answer you in a mature way. The guys here aren't helpful at all
thanks where will I get that please

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by mhiztaNexy(m): 8:42am On Jun 06, 2017
Bro, just be urself. else at the end of the Convo and she finally gives in,u'll definitely suck after all coz all u did at first was programmed and she'll hate u more. any girl wey go like u go like u. If you find love,don't try to keep it. if it's yours,it will surely stay. just be urself or better still,FIND MONEY.

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by LMandela(m): 8:44am On Jun 06, 2017
Invisibleojay:
thanks where will I get that please
werr will u get 'reddit' or 'quora'? Choi! Aba International Market... #BananaFallOnYou

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Nobody: 9:00am On Jun 06, 2017
maybe this might works, walk up to her ,tell her babe can i f**ck u?but pls make sure u arrange ur Chick well,maybe u will receive a response from there ,don't 4get to arrange ur chicks.try it and thank me leta

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Nobody: 9:39am On Jun 06, 2017
nobody says no to cristiano! he s handsome, tall, rich and successful... Go make some money dude and u ll attract public acceptance! shekina

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by gunners160(m): 9:42am On Jun 06, 2017
Dnt mind all these people with obnoxious comments,they can make one feel inferior and they dnt knw the psychological impact of it after all,they think everything is fun. This is a young man having issues with inferiority complex and the so called adults are just writing incorrigible messages as if they had never been a victim of this before. Anyways that being said let me just try to help a broda with the little way I can.
Note1:
The fact that you are being rejected today does not mean you would be rejected tomorrow. in life,there are times whereby getting to get a gf/bf seems to become difficult becos they are not forth coming but with time,they become so much that one starts to get confused on which one to pick out of the numerous baes. Just know that you are in that phase now and with time you they would be chased after.
Note 2:
Don't be discouraged just work on your dressing and swaggs. Furthermore, try online dating. Register for chats applications like Facebook,2go etc. This would boast your chances of having a gf becos online dating is actually more easier and this would give u self confidence. in fact, meeting baes online is nor tedious and there ate decent baes one can get dhr.
Note 3
Make friends with ladies before asking them out this would enable you break the ice or barrier between you both. Even if she wants to reject you,she would reject you politely but a lot of them would give u a yes than a no.
Note 4
Get popular. I dnt mean by getting involve in bad gangs or anything frivolous but try getting involved in either church activities,school politics,football or get a gud grade.
Note 5
Attend public gathering or marriage a lot. I met my fiancee through a weeding party so you can as well try attending weddings or school parties

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by marvin902(m): 9:48am On Jun 06, 2017
gunners160:
Dnt mind all these people with obnoxious comments,they can make one feel inferior and they dnt knw the psychological impact of it after all,they think everything is fun. This is a young man having issues with inferiority complex and the so called adults are just writing incorrigible messages as if they had never been a victim of this before. Anyways that being said let me just try to help a broda with the little way I can.
Note1: The fact that you are being rejected today does not mean you would be rejected tomorrow. in life,their r times whereby getting to get a gf/bf seems to become difficult becos they are not forth coming bit with time,they become so much that one dnt knw which one to pick out of the numerous baes. Just knw that you are in that phase now and with time you they would start chasing after you
Note 2: Dnt be discouraged just work on your dressing and swaggs. Furthermore, try online dating. Register for chats applications like Facebook,2go etc. This would boast your chances of having a gf becos online dating is actually more easy and this would give u self confidence.
Note 3: Make friends with ladies before asking them out this would enable you break the ice or barrier between you both. Even if she want to reject you,she would reject you politely but a lot of them would give u a yes than a no.
Note 4: Get popular. I dnt mean by getting involve in bad gangs or anything frivolous but try getting involved in either church activities,school politics,football or get a gud grade.
Note 5: attend public gathering or marriage a lot. I hot my fiancee through a weeding party so you can as week try attending weddings or school parties


you just said everything..
and he should really avoid gisting street girls and i belive the best place to catch a girl is at a wedding party is very easy

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by thestevens: 9:55am On Jun 06, 2017
You seriously need and you need Jesus as well

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by yrex01(m): 10:33am On Jun 06, 2017
op right now : se mi o ti shi se bayi ?

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by chiraqDemon(m): 10:55am On Jun 06, 2017
shikshark:
the first comment was right but while you make ur money u will need a good woman behind ur success, ill advice you say no to street wooing, getting your dream girl to love you is like writing a final year dissertation if she refuse to give you her contact details research about her friends get her contact then get in touch with her and let her know ur intentions, no woman is a killer and always have it at the back of your mind that she may reject you at first and thats normal. never give up and pamper her if need be.

sorry what class are you sef?
Street wooing is just somehow. Like those ppl that just ealk on the road and say ess excuse me babe. My guys de do that stuff and e de weak me.
Its better to try and chat up a girl in an enclised environment. The bus, the fastfood or restaurant, CHURCH,weddings and social gatherings in general. At least somewhere that u can settle down and have a nice discussion that u will be able to use and give her a good first impression while also getting to have a firdt impression of her too.

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by RoyalBlak007: 10:59am On Jun 06, 2017
LMandela:
What u should av asked... Who wakes up at 5am to ask how to woo a girl? Nigga be having sleepless nights, hahaha

Now this got me cracked up grin

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by chiraqDemon(m): 11:05am On Jun 06, 2017
LMandela:
werr will u get 'reddit' or 'quora'? Choi! Aba International Market... #BananaFallOnYou
Lmao grin grin
Na only for hong kong him go see d original of quora o. D ones for naija na cotonou imported. As for reddit na for alaba them sell am cheesy
Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by 2dice01: 11:22am On Jun 06, 2017
gunners160:
Dnt mind all these people with obnoxious comments,they can make one feel inferior and they dnt knw the psychological impact of it after all,they think everything is fun. This is a young man having issues with inferiority complex and the so called adults are just writing incorrigible messages as if they had never been a victim of this before. Anyways that being said let me just try to help a broda with the little way I can.
Note1:
The fact that you are being rejected today does not mean you would be rejected tomorrow. in life,there are times whereby getting to get a gf/bf seems to become difficult becos they are not forth coming but with time,they become so much that one starts to get confused on which one to pick out of the numerous baes. Just know that you are in that phase now and with time you they would be chased after.
Note 2:
Don't be discouraged just work on your dressing and swaggs. Furthermore, try online dating. Register for chats applications like Facebook,2go etc. This would boast your chances of having a gf becos online dating is actually more easier and this would give u self confidence. in fact, meeting baes online is nor tedious and there ate decent baes one can get dhr.
Note 3
Make friends with ladies before asking them out this would enable you break the ice or barrier between you both. Even if she wants to reject you,she would reject you politely but a lot of them would give u a yes than a no.
Note 4
Get popular. I dnt mean by getting involve in bad gangs or anything frivolous but try getting involved in either church activities,school politics,football or get a gud grade.
Note 5
Attend public gathering or marriage a lot. I met my fiancee through a weeding party so you can as well try attending weddings or school parties
interesting

cheesy

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Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by Olibboy: 11:23am On Jun 06, 2017
First of all. kitten fall on you.
Re: How To Approach A Girl For The First Time by LMandela(m): 11:56am On Jun 06, 2017
chiraqDemon:

Lmao grin grin
Na only for hong kong him go see d original of quora o. D ones for naija na cotonou imported. As for reddit na for alaba them sell am cheesy
choi! Dis is wickedness! Or make im jst buy Google but dat one go expensive and na Togo Or Somalia them d sell am!

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