Blueice4re:

Really?

Dr. Lorenz:

@OP

Point of correction. I'm not among those men that "want what they can get easily and don’t particularly care about the quality of the “merchandise.”". Now that's talking about merchandise in the real sense. Talking about the women, it depends on how the man reasons. Personally, i don't think a woman will come to me whether easily or not.

@Ebonyeyes
Hey sugarpops. Long time no talk. I see you're back here. . .that's good . U just abandoned me abi? U want summary? I think these will do justice. . .

"There are far too many women giving it up, the men know they can get it easy, and thus it becomes a drain to actually pursue a woman. If women would stop being so “easy,” perhaps things would change. (But I understand that might be asking for a miracle.)"

"At the end of the day, the good news is this — you can choose what you’d like to be. If you want to be a women of standard and quality, be that. If you don’t care, that’s fine too. But just understand that it takes a little bit longer to the Manolos to be “sold.” But take care of them, and they’ll last you the rest of your life"

Ebonyeyes:

Did anyone manage to read all that? Please summarise for me thanks

Ujujoan:

He’s trying to say that 95% of women come very easily and cheaply, so why bother with the 5% who still have a sense of modesty, when in the end, a woman is a woman! 

Well, he did say that the 5% who happen to retain their modesty are always a better offer ‘in the long run’ but then they have to be ready for the 95% to get exhausted before they can get the chance of being sought after!

@ Poster . .

Thank you for confirming what I’ve always thought about men. They’ve got no class! They do not know what they want, and they can settle for ANYTHING, just to cut costs!

Ebonyeyes:

Thanks babes . I have heard it all now, a girl is damned if she gives it in and damned if she holds back. I think I will save up for a couple or 10 cats cos these men are a trip, I tell ya.

Ujujoan:

He’s trying to say that 95% of women come very easily and cheaply, so why bother with the 5% who still have a sense of modesty, when in the end, a woman is a woman!

Well, he did say that the 5% who happen to retain their modesty are always a better offer ‘in the long run’ but then they have to be ready for the 95% to get exhausted before they can get the chance of being sought after!

@ Poster . .

Thank you for confirming what I’ve always thought about men. They’ve got no class! They do not know what they want, and they can settle for ANYTHING, just to cut costs!

filani:

Hmmm, its so easy to get on the gender bashing train isn't it girls but in all fairness the poster didn't help matters with his sweeping statements but i'll get back to him in a minute.

you talk tough girl, so av got a question for you. can you say to all of nairaland that you as an individual are among that rare 5% who are ladies in the true sense of the word , worthy of being ''searched for'' by a quality man because of your sterling qualities ? did i hear you say a loud yes?

if that were true then why did you jump into the man bashing bandwagon describing men as '' having no class '' willing to ''settle for anything to cut costs'' b4 taking the time to truly analyse the posters comments and even more time b4 you posted your self incriminating reply you were so eager to jump on that train with glee that u forgot that this biased reply has made a mess of your own father who happens to be a card carrying member of the gender you so happilly crucified here
in summary , your father having no class decided to marry your mom because since never really knows what he wants , he just had to cut costs and the product of that union is YOU do you see how ignorant & foolish your reply to the poster has xposed you to be

lordbayor, in your post you made a generalized statement

''Since I’m sure you’re wondering if all men are like that, let me answer the question for you: Yes. All men, at some point in their lives, want what they can get easily and don’t particularly care about the quality of the “merchandise.”

if you could take the time to notice that a rare group of ladies maitain thier integrity despite all odds howcome you were ignorant or just plain blind to the group of men who were raised by quality parents & taught from a tender age to seek out quality ladies rather than the chaff at any point in thier lives !!!
please , please & please the next time you make such comments indicate that you are strictly speaking your own opinion YOU DO NOT SPEAK FOR ALL MEN

Ujujoan:


@ Poster . .

Thank you for confirming what I’ve always thought about men. They’ve got no class! They do not know what they want, and they can settle for ANYTHING, just to cut costs!

whitelexi:

I believe it all started with a woman making her choice between a cheap or an expensive pair of shoes. . . Most women would go for the cheaper pair if shoes, does that not make them classless too?

whitelexi:

I believe it all started with a woman making her choice between a cheap or an expensive pair of shoes. . . Most women would go for the cheaper pair if shoes, does that not make them classless too?

Ebonyeyes:

Common son, why liken a human being to a shoe?

Ebonyeyes:

Common son, why liken a human being to a shoe?

Son

whitelexi:

Son

Take time oh!!!

mastalee:

To be candid, this is one
of the few post that makes
SENSE on NL

Ogunde
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Ebonyeyes:

Hello sweetie, I guess some topics have improved . Hope you are keeping well

Ebonyeyes:

Common son, why liken a human being to a shoe?

kokoye:

The original poster likened human beings to shoes and you had no problem with it.

H2O2:

you in frisco? that's whassup brah

chinedumo:

may I say a few words. The world is becoming unbalanced. Women are getin more opportunities. they are also makin the world there own too. It behooves on them learn to pursue just as the men before them did if this world will truly be a woman's. He who pursues is making a sacrifice and if successful he earns da headship.

Ujujoan:

He’s trying to say that 95% of women come very easily and cheaply, so why bother with the 5% who still have a sense of modesty, when in the end, a woman is a woman!

Well, he did say that the 5% who happen to retain their modesty are always a better offer ‘in the long run’ but then they have to be ready for the 95% to get exhausted before they can get the chance of being sought after!

@ Poster . .

Thank you for confirming what I’ve always thought about men. They’ve got no class! They do not know what they want, and they can settle for ANYTHING, just to cut costs!

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mastalee:

To be candid, this is one
of the few post that makes
SENSE on NL

Ogunde
=========

Sorry, can't agree with you, this post makes no sense unless you have a fixation with shoes or "cheap" values.

I throwaway salute to kokoyo and olanajim for your thoughtful replies.  You guys summed it up. May you get that woman of integrity who knows and appreciates your true value (if you haven't met her already!) 

[quote author=olanajim link=topic=384865.msg5365948#msg5365948 date=1264158021]
However, "real" men know how to strike a good bargain for quality women whether they can afford it or not. It is just like real life mechandise. You can talk to the seller to reserve it for you, you can buy on credit. If you have integrity, you can always get whatever you want on credit. After all most great ventures do take loans as long as they can repay them.

What has credit got to do with this? If you see a wonderful lady and you are not able to afford her price, you can still get her even if you have nothing. Most of the most successful marriages I know were contracted that way. A man with high self-esteem, integrity, and impeccable moral background dont need to be rich to get a quality lady. Real ladies dont need your money to love you.

kokoye:

@ poster.

You dont have to suffer to get a great girl.

A mature and confident girl that already wants you will not stress you at all.  And that does not mean she is cheap.