NwaAmaikpe:
Not at all....

It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner.



That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard.

Evablizin:
Guys wether directly or indirectly try make she cook food for you,so that you will know what you are venturing into if not nearby seller will be your second home after marriage. period

Nma27:
I still consult google and YouTube in order to prepare certain foods... Its no biggy as long as d food is delicious. Mine always is though cos its in d family.

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

cruchenuti:
So I have this question that caused controversy today while I was hanging out with some female friends from church. About 8 of us. 2 Guys, 6 ladies.


So I said jokingly that I would never marry a lady that has never cooked for me OR that I have never eating her food. If a lady says she can cook and I have never eaten her food, How do I then believe that she can actually do what she says ?

O boy, come and see how these ladies reacted angrily. Saying stuff like Oh, So you want marry a servant that would just be cooking for you, Women are not your servants oh, blah blah blah.

Their main point was: If a lady says she can cook, A man should take her for her word. She can decide to cook out of her own will, she can also decide she will never cook while courting

I had to just calm the ladies down with jokes & pet them, make dem no come break my head.

And I'm wondering, Does this even make any sense ?

NwaAmaikpe:
Not at all....

It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner.



That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard.

cruchenuti:


But what i'm curiosity about is , did you atleast cook for your husband while courting? Whether you were perfect then or not.

No matter how good a girl's attitude is, if her food is bad, how will the marriage work?

sisisioge:


If I were a guy, I won't even marry a lady I haven't emmm let alone eaten her food. I'm a Christian! Let no body quote me.

eyinjuege:


The story itself sounds untrue.

Do people put crayfish in stew? When its not soup?

angelbulksms:


Food is sure a biggie but you need to listen carefully to @dominique. Sometimes, it pays to listen to ladies when they talk about other ladies.
You wouldn't want to trade food for rotten behaviour.
Food (cooking) can always be learnt but a rotten behaviour can't be quickly gotten rid off, if it ever leaves.
A "rotten behaviour" wife can make a man's destiny take a downward slope, if not end it.

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

Khonifer:


It could be that she hasn't found reason to learn yet. She might be someone who has servants at her beck and call, or just doesn't like the whole cooking idea.

Honestly, when I was on my own I ate day and night at a buka. But when she's married and reality sets in, she would have no choice but to learn.

Besides. I don't think something so trivial as food is enough to cause problems between couples.

Ijaya123:


I'm sort of disappointed by this post. Guess we have loads of kids on nairaland these days.

gare2510:


Sometimes love alone is not enough.

patola080:
how will a lady buy u food outside and u will nt know? She will tell you that d food is only cook 4 one day abi or u will nt knw d way mama put cut her meat will be different 4 d way u will cut ur own at home

NwaAmaikpe:
Not at all....

It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner.



That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard.

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

NwaAmaikpe:
Not at all....
It is almost like getting married without shagging your partner.


That is how my neighbor's fiance used Indomie spice to make custard.

dominique:
There are a handful of meals I couldn't cook properly before I married and now I'm an expert at cooking them. Never use something like food as a yardstick for choosing a life partner. If she cooks fantastic meals and has a rotten attitude, will you still go ahead and marry such girl?

Caustics:
that is even small. my neighbours wife used grounded ogbono to cook big pot of stew for the family this easter. She had to sleep at my place for 4 days because her husband wanted to kill her. the stew and chicken and meat all wasted. stew was drawing like draw soup. she said she thought it was crayfish

cruchenuti:
So I have this question that caused controversy today while I was hanging out with some female friends from church. About 8 of us. 2 Guys, 6 ladies.


So I said jokingly that I would never marry a lady that has never cooked for me OR that I have never eating her food. If a lady says she can cook and I have never eaten her food, How do I then believe that she can actually do what she says ?

O boy, come and see how these ladies reacted angrily. Saying stuff like Oh, So you want marry a servant that would just be cooking for you, Women are not your servants oh, blah blah blah.

Their main point was: If a lady says she can cook, A man should take her for her word. She can decide to cook out of her own will, she can also decide she will never cook while courting

I had to just calm the ladies down with jokes & pet them, make dem no come break my head.

And I'm wondering, Does this even make any sense ?