n-guage:

I think the whole boy/girl war thing on this forum is mostly something of an inside joke. I'm pointing out the obvious here but only a few Nigerian girls really think Naija guys are ugly and vice-versa.

To those few who really think this way: If Nigerian women are beutiful, how are they having ugly sons? If Nigerian men are cute, how are they having ugly daughters

Why don't Naija chics value and hold their men to such high esteem like their foreign counterparts.

oyinda.:

to be honest, nigerian men tend to be the most flamboyant and woman wrapper-ish and a lot of women, esp the young ones, tend to like the "bad boy" appeal for some reason.


to answer your question, it is because naija women know them inside out. we know that they are sweet talkers and not to be believed or trusted too much. these other naive girls mostly don't know that and most of the time end up being hurt. i'm sure there are many "nigerian men" topics and stories created here on NL by these hurt and heartbroken foreign women to prove my point.

so just because a cake looks good doesn't mean it tastes good.

and naija women definitely do value naija men. but no we won't put u on the high pedestal that u seem to feel u have a right to. mba lol

If the success rate of these unions are very small, why do these women flock around them?

Sweet talking is engraved in every man's DNA. Their ability to control it is what is at stake here and it's not peculiar to Naija men. Women love sweet stories and detest bad news so, men use to pattern to wire themselves into the nucleus of their heart. No woman wants to hear " hey babe, I don't have a job right now but my future is bright, trust me".

aloy-emeka:

Hate them, love them, it doesn't change their high rate of their demand worldwide.

Naija chics, could this be the case of a prophet not being honored in his homeland?. Why don't Naija chics value and hold their men to such high esteem like their foreign counterparts.

Ehrrrm yawwn. Maybe because its the same reason they dont hold us to any esteem. Familiarity breeds remorse, change is exotic. . . .

But I loff naija men anytime anyday Still doesnt mean I have to take y'all craps

aloy-emeka:

Hate them, love them, it doesn't change their high rate of their demand worldwide.

Naija chics, could this be the case of a prophet not being honored in his homeland?. Why don't Naija chics value and hold their men to such high esteem like their foreign counterparts.

Finally, what do Naija men possess that make them a hot item in the husband market for many foreign women?.

oyinda.:

check these links out. i stumbled on them and found them to be quite enlightening esp. on the reputation of naija men abroad. make sure to read the second link.

open letter to zimbabwe men:
http://www.zimdaily.com/news/chipo27.7144.html

open response to zimbabwe women:
http://www.zimdaily.com/news/zimbo27.7184.html

Their girlfriends will never find themselves in a similar situation to those represented in Chipo’s letter. They were raised in this country and did not experience any culture shock. They have never at any time thought it was special to be with a Nigerian man or any other nationals for that matter. [/b]http://www.zimdaily.com/news/zimbo27.7184.html

When I arrived in the United Kingdom six years ago the social landscape was very different from what it is now. No sane Zimbabwean woman would seriously look twice at their own men despite the fact that they were well educated, professionally trained and well mannered men.

Most of our women were inexplicably preoccupied and others overwhelmingly so by the extravagant and conniving pomp and fanfare often showered on them by the West African men they forgot they would one day want to get married.

[b]They forgot this pampering was just a short lived means to a selfish end for these crooks of men. No offence meant to our Nigerian brothers, in fact to the contrary they were so good at what they did to our women they left a whole generation of them desolate they still do not know exactly what hit them. How sad.

http://www.zimdaily.com/news/zimbo27.7184.html

madlady:

Why couldnt you just ignore the "Naija men possess that make them a hot item in the husband market for many foreign women" Like I did?

FL Gators:


Ehrrrm yawwn. Maybe because its the same reason they dont hold us to any esteem. Familiarity breeds remorse, change is exotic. . . .

But I loff naija men anytime anyday Still doesnt mean I have to take y'all craps

FL Gators:

Why couldnt you just ignore the "Naija men possess that make them a hot item in the husband market for many foreign women" Like I did?

aloy-emeka:

They don't? Really?. Why aren't Naija women as hot as Naija men in the eyes of internationals?

FL Gators:

Who said we're not?

FL Gators:

Who said we're not?

Compare that to the rate at which African American women flock around Naija men and tell me what you've noticed

dayokanu:

We have the swag simple.

dayokanu:

Madlady abi na lie?

Would you date a guy from Burkina Faso or Burundi?

aloy-emeka:

Since when?. You can't compare the rate at which international women desire for a Nigerian husband to the rate at which international men desire for a Nigerian wife. Are you not living in America?. How many African American men holla at you for better for worse apart from those who call you 'shortie' here and there to see if they will get lucky by chance?. Compare that to the rate at which African American women flock around Naija men and tell me what you've noticed.

How many Caucasian, Asian, Latino, Arabian, etc men holla at Naija women for some genuine love?. Compare that to the ratio of women from other races who feel Naija men.

If I put down a number, I'd be lying. If I said "a lot", you and NL would think I'm narcississtic. . . . . so no comment

ROTFLMAO, flock around who? lolol The Nigerian men here dont even get a second look of admiration from non-nigerian here. I'm still trying to understand where the notion that Nigerian men are highly favored by foreign women came about

Ae you guys so happy that you're getting starred at by Asians in an Asian nation where their men is 2-3 inches? Because in a nation where AA men plenty, I dont think they'd still not mind the potbelly, red eyes, stank breath, ati bee bee lo.

FL Gators:

If I put down a number, I'd be lying. If I said "a lot", you and NL would think I'm narcississtic. . . . . so no comment

ROTFLMAO, flock around who? lolol The Nigerian men here dont even get a second look of admiration from non-nigerian here. I'm still trying to understand where the notion that Nigerian men are highly favored by foreign women came about

Ae you guys so happy that you're getting starred at by Asians in an Asian nation where their men is 2-3 inches? Because in a nation where AA men plenty, I dont think they'd still not mind the potbelly, red eyes, stank breath, ati bee bee lo.

dayokanu:

Gators,

Most AA guys dont even have a job and leech on their women

If every Naija guy desires an Akata wife that would be the easiest thing to get  

dayokanu:

Gators,

Most AA guys dont even have a job and leech on their women. The working class AA women find it difficult to live with a guy who they feed, clothe who end up beating them up regularly cheating and stealing from them.

A Naija guy has too much pride and sense of responsibility for this.

If every Naija guy desires an Akata wife that would be the easiest thing to get.

That's a stereotype


Nowadays, Naija men being responsible is now to question. Too much ogbologbo lying around.
Na condition dey make crayfish bend

aloy-emeka:

Just compare the number of African American women + Naija man relationship and African American man + Naija woman relationship and draw your conclusions. No need being sarcastic here but it's like foreign men rarely find Nigerian women attractive enough to marry them and that is a fact.

Use yourself as an example and tell the truth, how many AA men dey holla you genuinely and compare to your brothers' relationships with AA women.

Yea, thanks to green card. . . . hehehe. Keep carrying desperate akata women around.And you wonder why their men left them for you for while girls.

As I told you, I dont keep numbers of AA men that holla at me. I dont see it as an accomplishment enough to record. If "a lot" is not enough to satisfy your curiosity, then too bad

FL Gators:

ea, thanks to green card. . . . hehehe. Keep carrying desperate akata women around.And you wonder why their men left them for you for while girls.[/b]

As I told you, I dont keep numbers of AA men that holla at me. I dont see it as an accomplishment enough to record. If "a lot" is not enough to satisfy your curiosity, then too bad

aloy-emeka:

Also, Ghananian women are the worworest women from West Africa yet they score more international men than Nigerian women. What does that tell you?. Could it be that Nigerian women have a peculiar attitude that scare foreigners away even though they are beautiful?

aloy-emeka:

Are you saying AA women flock around your brothers because they desire to help your brothers with green card?

FL Gators:

Sir, your statements and "i.e"s are filled up unconfirmed "evidents and stats", something we all call opinionated statements.