So i caught my gf (23yr/o) cheating on me with some guys, I'm 21, and i love her very much and I'm starting to doubt her love for me only to find out she was talking to some rich guy i told her not to talk to.. so i was conversing with her yesterday about the situation and she told me to shut up that I'm getting her annoyed, i was so pissed off and i used a plastic cup to hit her on her head and she bled so much.... she cried and left but I'm scared.. she hasn't blocked me from social media and she's not picking up any of my calls.. I called her friends and asked them about her but they told she said she's sick, so I'm guessing she didn't tell them or anyone i hit her... believe me i could never hit a girl, i don't know what happened.. it happened so fast.. I'm very scared of losing her because we've been dating for as long as I can remember.. advice me guys...

Sorry for bad grammar, punctuation and formatting... you can be rude to me while advising, i deserve some roasting for hitting her.. thanks in advance

Plastic cup and she bled?? Interesting...
My advice to you is for you to end the relationship by yourself because once a guy starts beating or hitting a girl,he can't stop...

You are not even married to her and you are hitting her, what would you have done if you were married to her

Anyway, if she was my friend/sister, I would have advised her never to cheat on her man no matter what instead she should leave the relationship instead of cheating...
I would have also advised her never to accept you back no matter what... At least you will learn your lessons...

I remember talking to the brother of my ex that normally beats his woman... I told him he will not be happy if someone beats his sister and for the over two years I stayed with her, I never hit for once despite her

Honestly, if I were to have a daughter someday and I am to give her out for marriage... And I hear and have evidence of domestic violence ... Infact

..

Nothing in your story says she cheated, she was talking to some dude (not saying she did not cheat)
you hit her cos she said you should shut up not really cos you suspect she was cheating. Not cool Bro.
Htiing a woman should be a No No. if you dont trust her then walk away. Dont expect her back.

Musta been a hard hit for her to bleed

I have nothing to say


Sarkki or yarimo or kyase or madridguy come help a brother

You see why it's not good to date a small boy...instead of her to go for matured mind she's dating a 21yrs old.

CROWNWEALTH019:
I have nothing to say


Sarkki or yarimo or kyase or madridguy come help a brother

bro i dont do love, but wait o, he is 21? Ok bye

Your 21 and she's 23


bros I blame that girl, others are going higher and she descended so low to date someone ur age


maybe ur a snowball




Go and drink otapiapia , claim ur sick ,see her come back to u

Abeg remove me from this to avoid unwanted mentioning like yesterday. I don't have business here, call me for buhari matters only.

Uwese

CROWNWEALTH019:
I have nothing to say


Sarkki or yarimo or kyase or madridguy come help a brother

You're dating a girl (even if you're married sef) and you flare up when she begins to talk to other guys because you've somehow deceived yourself into believing that you'll never find someone like her again.[b][/b]

That is all shades of incorrect. Agreed you love 'em. But you don't own 'em. They can cheat. You can cheat. How does that affect either of your account balances?

You're not happy, walk away!

I wonder what you want to achieve with this your story...

Benita27:
You see why it's not good to date a small boy...instead of her to go for matured mind she's dating a 21yrs old.

Don't mind those who date younger men jo! They don't know older men NEVER hit their women. ALL the cases of domestic violence are from the younger men.

madridguy:
Abeg remove me from this to avoid unwanted mentioning like yesterday. I don't have business here, call me for buhari matters only.

Uwese

I swear u no well
owfa av u heard from our half dead oooo sorry vegetable president

Your age speaks volumes to your actions.

famosh:

Hi bro, I just heard your mum will soon die! Can you confirm this?

cc mynd 44

famosh:

Guy, so you dey quote mynd44 but you no quote am when you say Buhari, someone's father, will soon die & is a vegetable! Naso e dey pain?

but I neva insulted any of ur parents
so y insult mine
btw dd i say buhari will die
we just need him 2 resign

Victornezzar:

but I neva insulted any of ur parents
so y insult mine
btw dd i say buhari will die
we just need him 2 resign

Buhari is someone's dad & granddad. Instead of wishing him death by calling him half dead & a vegetable which his children & grandchildren won't like, simply call for his resignation. That's the proper thing to do bro!

famosh:

Buhari is someone's dad & granddad. Instead of calling him half dead & a vegetable which his children & grandchildren won't like, simply call for his resignation. That's the proper thing to do bro!

I know but u couldn't av wished my mom dead

Victornezzar:

I know but u couldn't av wished my mom dead

That's just a joke bro, I was being sarcastic like u. It's nonnegotiable that your mum will live long to declare the glory of God in her life na!

famosh:

That's just a joke bro, I was being sarcastic like u. It's nonnegotiable that your mum will live long to declare the glory of God in her life na!

no p Bro

madridguy:
Abeg remove me from this to avoid unwanted mentioning like yesterday. I don't have business here, call me for buhari matters only.

Uwese

Hope you dey fast

Insha Allah I am.

Oyindidi:
Hope you dey fast

madridguy:
Insha Allah I am.

Good, hope you dey pray? Nairaland na distraction

Yes I am my sister. Had Laylatul Qadr here last night till this Fajr.

Oyindidi:
Good, hope you dey pray? Nairaland na distraction

madridguy:
Yes I am my sister. Had Laylatul Qadr here last night till this Fajr.

what is laylatu Qadr and fajr

I thought you're a Muslimah?

Oyindidi:
what is laylatu Qadr and fajr