Just received this post now, the person in question need advice as to handle this.

Am dele, I got married to my 2yrs ago and no kid yet.... Recently I traveled for an office appointment issue which consist of 6 delegates i and 5 females, we are to spend like 3weeks, we lodge in a hotel with different room, while going through my belongings only to find out my wife packed condom along with it...... My worries is I've never cheated on her, and I've never given her the impression that I would, same as her to me.
Night before I traveled she has been questioning me y are they sending female along with me, I told her they play the key role there as am only to supervise there work, it's actually a female job, and she stopped worrying.

Now I don't know if to confront her on this or just ignore her action, but to be sincere I wasnt happy since, thinking she has lost the trust for me

Pls what should I do?

Ask her why she kept such in your bag...

Maybe her bf left extras

Trust me those condoms r marked, the first thing she will do after u come back is to count how many remained n try to know if its d original...
I think u should confront her, its actually rubbish, she tot u r sleeping with them or sooner u will...

I am sure she is just looking out for herself. So that one careless husband will not ruin her life.

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She's probably just testing you.

But she so lame. If a man wanna cheat he will still cheat wether you pack condoms or not. He can easily buy some if he wants.

Hahahaha. Listen Let Me Tell You What Your Wife Understands About you that You Dont Know... She Knows Temptation May Come Up With Sex. Since You Are Out With Group Of Women, they Might Be To Hot To Pass, She Suspects You Might Not Be Able To Resist The urgue since Sexual Temptation Is Very Strong and Hard To Resist. So She decided to Put Condoms as A Sign That She Approves Of You Havin Sex but With Protection so You Dont Come Back With Any Disease... Thats The Message... Dont confront Her... She Told You On Code And I Just Decoded it To You You Have A Very Understandin Wife My Brother...

Lalasticlala abi I Lie?

Ask yourself this question; given the circumstances....if one of those ladies should step into your room with a see-thru bikini, let alone asking for it, would you not succumb??

She knows the kind of husband she has and she no want hear say dem shoot bird mama fly!

She is a good woman?

She listens to stories wella


Play safe oga

She'd probably just got through reading a Toks2008 thread lol

ibkayee:
She'd probably just got done reading a Toks2008 thread lol

kiss me quick

She is feeling insecure... You have to politely let her know about the condom you saw, and let her know you have never cheated on her and will never cheat on her...

ibkayee:
She'd probably just got through reading a Toks2008 thread lol

Plz leave my brother from Lewisham alone

Passive aggression.

She's trying to appeal to your conscience. You know how you fight with your spouse, and push them away, "Oya, shey you want to cheat on me....just go! take, go and cheat." It's not really a license to cheat. She's probably a drama queen and also a bit insecure. But, of course, she's expecting you to come back to her with the pack unopened, to tell her, "I would never do that to you."

So, yes. Talk to her about it.

You guys above haven't thought about if the condom is hers {maybe she's cheating} and she mistakenly packed it with her husband's belongings?

ibkayee:
She'd probably just got through reading a Toks2008 thread lol

True, she is an ardent follower of toks 'realistic' write ups.

pocohantas:


True, she is an ardent follower of toks 'realistic' write ups.

LOL

Settingz321:
Just received this post now, the person in question need advice as to handle this.

Am dele, I got married to my 2yrs ago and no kid yet.... Recently I traveled for an office appointment issue which consist of 6 delegates i and 5 females, we are to spend like 3weeks, we lodge in a hotel with different room, while going through my belongings only to find out my wife packed condom along with it...... My worries is I've never cheated on her, and I've never given her the impression that I would, same as her to me.
Night before I traveled she has been questioning me y are they sending female along with me, I told her they play the key role there as am only to supervise there work, it's actually a female job, and she stopped worrying.

Now I don't know if to confront her on this or just ignore her action, but to be sincere I wasnt happy since, thinking she has lost the trust for me

Pls what should I do?

dude...just bring back same amount of condoms while returning ,give it to her and don't say a word abt dx to her ever

DeadRat:
Hahahaha. Listen Let Me Tell You What Your Wife Understands About you that You Dont Know... She Knows Temptation May Come Up With Sex. Since You Are Out With Group Of Women, they Might Be To Hot To Pass, She Suspects You Might Not Be Able To Resist The urgue since Sexual Temptation Is Very Strong and Hard To Resist. So She decided to Put Condoms as A Sign That She Approves Of You Havin Sex but With Protection so You Dont Come Back With Any Disease... Thats The Message... Dont confront Her... She Told You On Code And I Just Decoded it To You You Have A Very Understandin Wife My Brother...

Oga decoder, weh don sir

MissWrite:
Passive aggression.

She's trying to appeal to your conscience. You know how you fight with your spouse, and push them away, "Oya, shey you want to cheat on me....just go! take, go and cheat." It's not really a license to cheat. She's probably a drama queen and also a bit insecure. But, of course, she's expecting you to come back to her with the pack unopened, to tell her, "I would never do that to you."

So, yes. Talk to her about it.

All men aren't the same though,

but i know a guy who knows a guy that would buy another pack while on his trip, do justice to the hotie of supervisors and return to her with her condom pack unopened.

If her husband is a yoruba demon... you know the rest

Rokia2:
She's probably just testing you.

But she so lame. If a man wanna cheat he will still cheat wether you pack condoms or not. He can easily buy some if he wants.

Thank God for some ladies that have common sense

ChewingStick:


All men aren't the same though,

but i know a guy who knows a guy that would buy another pack while on his trip, do justice to the hotie of supervisors and return to her with her condom pack unopened.

If her husband is a yoruba demon... you know the rest

Yes, sure. But it's not about the pack of condoms. It's about his conscience.

His wife would know that if the Op wanted to cheat, he would cheat, whether she furnishes him with condoms or not. But, there are some men who find it easier to cheat, when they're sure that their wives are ignorant of it. In their minds, they can tell themselves that: what she doesn't know won't hurt her. But when they are already faced with the woman's suspicions, they might rethink the issue. Mind you, I said 'some men'. I know that there are men who are stone-cold cheats and that others might be aggravated by her seeming distrust.

Just enjoy ur life and when u get back home,,,return her condom

Settingz321:
Just received this post now, the person in question need advice as to handle this.

Am dele, I got married to my 2yrs ago and no kid yet.... Recently I traveled for an office appointment issue which consist of 6 delegates i and 5 females, we are to spend like 3weeks, we lodge in a hotel with different room, while going through my belongings only to find out my wife packed condom along with it...... My worries is I've never cheated on her, and I've never given her the impression that I would, same as her to me.
Night before I traveled she has been questioning me y are they sending female along with me, I told her they play the key role there as am only to supervise there work, it's actually a female job, and she stopped worrying.

Now I don't know if to confront her on this or just ignore her action, but to be sincere I wasnt happy since, thinking she has lost the trust for me

Pls what should I do?

She has not lost any trust,she only acted in a proactive manner just incase..your wife is a very wise woman and she deserves a golden buzzer for that wise move..

Lalasticlala abeg help us push this thread out o..

Toks2008:


She has not lost any trust,she only acted in a proactive manner just incase..your wife is a very wise woman..

Lalasticlala abeg help us push this thread out o..

And my question still remain unanswered people have only succeeded in telling me my wife intentions for her act, but what should I do about it? Should I ignore it or address it?

Settingz321:

And my question still remain unanswered people have only succeeded in telling me my wife intentions for her act, but what should I do about it? Should I ignore it or address it?

Ofcourse tell her she needs not do that and assure her that you will always be faithful but please dont discourage her too much o cos you never can tell..those condoms might just be handy lol! just kidding.

One a serious note.you must understand that she wouldnt have done that if there was no lady going with you..you know someimes guys dont usually want to do but some of these ladies have a way of making us shey you know..so i guess she just acted incase..

Una go just dey formulate stories

makydebbie:
You guys above haven't thought about if the condom is hers {maybe she's cheating} and she mistakenly packed it with her husband's belongings?

Chai! see Devil just negodu.

Settingz321:
Just received this post now, the person in question need advice as to handle this.

Am dele, I got married to my 2yrs ago and no kid yet.... Recently I traveled for an office appointment issue which consist of 6 delegates i and 5 females, we are to spend like 3weeks, we lodge in a hotel with different room, while going through my belongings only to find out my wife packed condom along with it...... My worries is I've never cheated on her, and I've never given her the impression that I would, same as her to me.
Night before I traveled she has been questioning me y are they sending female along with me, I told her they play the key role there as am only to supervise there work, it's actually a female job, and she stopped worrying.

Now I don't know if to confront her on this or just ignore her action, but to be sincere I wasnt happy since, thinking she has lost the trust for me

Pls what should I do?

why will your wife not lost trust in you

ibkayee:
She'd probably just got through reading a Toks2008 thread lol

Which Kain wahala be this? wettin I do una?

ranmoor:
Trust me those condoms r marked, the first thing she will do after u come back is to count how many remained n try to know if its d original...
I think u should confront her, its actually rubbish, she tot u r sleeping with them or sooner u will...

wrong.. HE can avoid using the condoms and in buy his, if that is the case.... she just passed a coded message