A heartbroken Guy has reached out to relationship expert, Joro Olumofin about the issue he just faced with his girlfriend, who of course is now an ex-girlfriend.

He shared with Joro, screenshot of the last conversation he had with his girlfriend.. where he revealed that she broke up with him all because he refused to give her one of his cars.

The young man disclosed that he has two cars, one of which he uses for work, while the other one is his personal car.. But then, his girlfriend who says she’s tired of jumping buses around Lagos asked him for one of his car, he refused of course, noting that the car was for “business”.

Rather hurt, the lady broke up with him.. This is someone who receives allowance from her boyfriend on a monthly basis.

He wrote;

“Hi bro joro, Am a recent follower of yours. My girlfriend has been on this car issue for a while now. She just broke up with me I think, because I don’t want to give her my 2nd car which I use for my factory work. Have tried to explain things. She introduced me to your blog so she will see this. Am tired joro. I swear! What is wrong with BRT for Gods sake? I give her allowance for her Hair, DStv and wardrobe. She has traveled to Dubai twice this year on me. All expenses on me. Am a great boyfriend but am thinking she’s trying to make me a fool. Please share this let me see public opinion. Am tired. I can’t even eat this night now”

Some girls?really funny.

The sense of entitlement some girlfriends have still baffles me,i swear.

I had to re-read the article just to be sure she is not his wife. But at the end of the day i still blame the guy for everything.

I have repeatedly stated it on this forum,that guys,especially those that are on the comfortable side should not date liabilities.

Date a lady that is nearly to your level,your level or above your level.

And like i said the other time. Rule 101 on dating to a working class male.NEVER GO NEAR A STUDENT or an UNEMPLOYED FEMALE.

This guy is the cause of everything. A man that sponsored his girlfriend to Dubai,and also pays for her cable and changes her wardrobe,might as well just complete everything by giving her a car.

Lalasticlala, Mynd44

Why can't she request for car from her parents if bus is not her level or better still work hard and buy one for herself. I'm starting to blame you guys for enabling this disgusting entitlement mentality from these set of girls you're dating

Like say woman done finish for world ..water splash you, you break up. bro forget about her. you will get over it and she will get use to splashes now.

Make she go meet her fada

The girl saw magga in him the boy saw love in him.

That girl wicked n greedy biko
Ladies like that don't go well with me

takes monthly allowance from you plus company own, and still demanding a car from you. na juju?

dominique:
Why can't she request for car from her parents if bus is not her level or better still work hard and buy one for herself. I'm starting to blame you guys for enabling this disgusting entitlement mentality from these set of girls you're dating

Babe, no be lie you talk.

Most of these guys are super stupid! They even put them on allowance and salary Especially that Rob Kardashian Such a worthless idiot!

The idiot was even bragging of buying that hoe a $250,000 jewelry.

May gold diggers continue to fall on them.

so you are not happy she break up with you or what

I think it's even better she showed her true color now,you need to thank God for that,I strongly believe that your OWN lady that will appreciate your efforts will surely come your way.

dominique:
Why can't she request for car from her parents if bus is not her level or better still work hard and buy one for herself. I'm starting to blame you guys for enabling this disgusting entitlement mentality from these set of girls you're dating

Starting to like you.

Always on point.

dominique:
Why can't she request for car from her parents if bus is not her level or better still work hard and buy one for herself. I'm starting to blame you guys for enabling this disgusting entitlement mentality from these set of girls you're dating

You are definitely different. Your husband is lucky.

BF: "Raining Season will soon end"
GF: "What about the Sun"?


And the guy is sad? Oya kukuma give her both cars and trek to work. Smh

VickyRotex:
BF: "Raining Season will soon end"
GF: "What about the Sun"?

How are you today Vicky?

I think the guy should be grateful she isn't his wife yet, I mean the girl is really lucky. You ain't even his wife yet. The way some girls think their boyfriend should be their ATM machine is annoying. Mehn what am seeing here is a very selfish girl.

You deserve better mister boyfriend

HungerBAD:


How are you today Vicky?

I'm fine. Thank you. Yourself?

VickyRotex:


I'm fine. Thank you. Yourself?

Doing good thanks.

Have been wanting to give a shout out to you for a while now.

Guy dat kannot bwoy car for gwefwend is dat one bwoyfwend?...ehn thornapple

HungerBAD:


Doing good thanks.

Have been wanting to give a shout out to you for a while now.

Oh thank you! It's a pleasure!

Clearly she wasn't dating him for love but for the benefits if this this incident was the cause of the break up. Or she could be the manipulative type , she sulks and throws tantrums like a kid and he comes crawling and begging her to come back by giving her what she wanted. If the latter is the case , I blame the guy for enabling it .

She thought Relationship is a poverty alleviation program.

VickyRotex:
BF: "Raining Season will soon end"
GF: "What about the Sun"?


And the guy is sad? Oya kukuma give her both cars and trek to work. Smh

Smh

Lol. I put extra 100 in the offering box to avoid such liabilities

dominique:
Why can't she request for car from her parents if bus is not her level or better still work hard and buy one for herself. I'm starting to blame you guys for enabling this disgusting entitlement mentality from these set of girls you're dating

Who are u?..are u sure u are actually an original nairaland chic.??
So there are nairaland girls that have sense....wellcome ma...nice to meet you....
cinderella and the other ladies with fish brain will soon be here... brace urself for possible bashing that u are looking for husband that's why you are on the guy's side

dacovajnr:
Smh

For who?

VickyRotex:


For who?

not you

If the guy can sponsor two trips to Dubai within 6months this year as he explained...need i remind you that a trip to dubia cost nothing less than 400k to and fro, including flight expenses, car rentals and whatever, let's say another 200k spent just for her shopping, twice in 6 months......we are talking about one million plus....he gives her allowances, pay her dstv bills, make her hair and do all sort.... Now let's get to real the matter, how come he can't get her a tokunbo car of just 300k to 400k naira, because I bet if he can do all that 400k tokunbo is just the tip of an iceberg..... He shud be able to finish what he started, she can't be shopping in Dubai and be dragging buses on the road.....
For me the guy is a liar, n wat he posted is not what really happened, he shud say what really happened and then I can comment on who really faulted...

You guys shud keep what happens with your spouse to yourself, stop faking it, stop telling the world what you do for each other, its no ones business, no one is doing anyone a favour in a relationship, its a mutual agreement, don't start what you can't finish.

Hian.. you have passed the level of taking brt and you cannot afford to buy yourself a car, you want to now pour your frustration on someone's son.
Some girls wahala pass them self.