matrix600:
My friend park well, you cannot do something does not mean that those who can are not being honest. Right now somebody somewhere is already doing it. Wetin you dey cap. 'Mr. Not Politically correct '. Who dey talk about cheating on spouse here, na pikin matter we dey talk, no be faithfulness matter. Abi people wey get pikin no dey cheat?

austyn0:
Laughs, broh, something struck my mind, the thought of not having kids is fearsome, worrisome and tiresome.... You Dan win, carry cup.

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

matrix600:
wey d cup?

sirfee:
Ok noted I don park well.


Wetin I dey cap be say most of you can't do it,una just dey jonze to gather cheap likes from nairalanders(the politically correct faction).Don't get it twisted,there are few Africans who can do it but most of you saying yes on this forum can't and will never do such a thing.


Have a great day#Ciaoooooo

tosyne2much:
There's a wide difference between love and stupidity. I can't even listen to any pastor even if he uses all the Bible verses to aggravate my faith, so that I will marry such a person (AS-AS). I can't let my foolishness put my child(ren) into long suffering.

Although, some people do it and get away with it but it's a stupid thing to do if you ask me

matrix600:
who come be the few Africans if you don disqualify us already, how you take know sey we no dey among the few Africans wey u mention.

Most of una wey dey form James Bond here na una dey quick dey carry love for head, then sirfee go dey say 'this woman is special to me, she is a gift from God, so I will wait for the Lord's time's <in nairaland accent> , e go forget all this him nairaland post.

tosyne2much:
If it's not easier said than done, why do MOST men take a U-turn the moment they realize a lady is a prostitute or sleeps around? Why? This is probably out of the fear of inability to conceive due to the fact that she must have aborted her life out, which may be detrimental to her womb

Now, ask yourself how many men can take such a huge risk, if child bearing is not a major prerequisite for marriage

Like I said earlier, let's leave sentiment apart and be realistic

matrix600:
realistically speaking, you're right, not many men can take such risk as u put it, that does not mean that there are not a few who can.
The summary of this argument is- many will choose to be realistic and so leave the relationship for a better partner(your position).

Few would choose the fantasy of love and stick with their partner no matter(my position).

While you're representing the many who agree with your view, I am representing the few who agree with my view.

And that my friend is the 'crux of the matter'.






Meanwhile, sirfee after our argument..

lalabrother:
Would you still marry your lover if you discovered a week to your wedding that they can not have children?

A week to a wedding, both families of the couple would be upbeat with preparations to make sure that all arrangements are made for a successful ceremony. But Saturday Punch is asking Nigerians whether during such preparation, they would still go ahead to wed if they found out their intended life partner can’t have children? Keep ur genuine answers coming...

Source: punching.com

PS: am sorry if this is in the wrong segment, mod pls modify and help move the post to the right segment. Thanks

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

Me77:
Yes of course. Marriage is perfect without children, children ruined marriages. If only I can find a barren woman to marry all all my life, they're simply the perfect wife's.
Big love to all the barren women.

sirfee:
Haha haha haha haha....just can't stop laughing.


This is Sirfee after the treatment..

matrix600:

Yes we can see you inside the pot..
Your friends are watching too..

StOla:
I will if I truly love the woman, but on the condition that I will marry a second wife who will have my own children.

I don't have sperm cells for fun. I must reproduce since I am biologically capable.

Adoption has never been an option with me, when I am biologically fit to have my own. If both husband and wife are infertile, then adoption becomes the only choice.

Ratello:
It depends on the level of love between us. Live is too deep to be explained away. Yes many will still go ahead with the marriage if true LOVE is involved.

jurisdiction:
And your answer is?? We ain't taking about MANY but YOU..**winks*

optional1:
NO i can't if he is a Nigeria man but YES if he is not an African..


I love kids so much that i can't wait to have mine and bring them up in the way of the Lord just like i brought other kids up..

No joy on this earth if you a lady that haven't experience giving birth..

I must also experience the Joy of motherhood..

I will rather be a single mother than marry a man who can't release better sperm.

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

profsomebody:
But oyinbo with viju milk as sperm z acceptable? wehdonma

teamsynergy:
if am based in Naija, I won't marry such woman ooo.. the pressure will be unbearable. if na abroad , hell yea. ..

Destined2win:


I think people who say this deceive themselves, there is a joy you have realizing you have your own flesh and blood, a child you can truly call your own.

The one you want to adopt, no be person born am? If everybody is Okay with inability to give birth, where will you see the one you will adopt. Abegiii leave matter

Mynd44:
I am not marrying because I want children if that is the reason, I can just knock up my landlord's daughter; it is that easy.

I believe marriage should be because you share a deep connection with the person you are marrying and you want to go to bed each day beside them, you want to wake up to their smiles daily, you know that your life will be easier, better and lot more comfortable with that spcial person.

If children come, good. If not, fine, we will still have ourselves.

Besides, there is always an option of adoption

tosyne2much:
Someone just said marriage is for matured minds, meaning, getting married to a barren person connotes MATURITY. I laff

Sugarcious:
Woman that cannot give birth , is that one woman at all? God's original purpose for mankind was to fill the earth with our offspring so if a lady cannot give birth which is not really a big deal, I may consider her based on some logistics.