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Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 4:35am On Jul 14, 2017 |
I saw this post on Facebook on how Nigerian ladies ask guys for transport fare when traveling to visit the men, and I decided to share. Australian girls will travel from Australia to Canada and spend $2,000 for flying ticket which is nearly N1 million and travel a distance of 17 hours by air to visit a man. 3 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Papiikush: 4:54am On Jul 14, 2017 |
What do you expect from a jobless, broke, boyfriend depending liability who thinks guys can throw money at her whenever she asks because she's got a hole between her legs . 3 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 4:58am On Jul 14, 2017 |
Papiikush:Lol. But a counter argument will be that the Nigerian economy is harsh, and they find it difficult to live day to day One guy said posted that while he was still a corper, he used to pay N10,000 as transport fare for his ex-girlfriend to visit him in Cross River, while the lady lived in Lagos. On top of all that, he would give her additional money to buy recharge cards. Bear in mid that his only source of income was his N19,800 NYSC allowance. One day, the ex made the usual request, but this time he told her he couldn't afford it because he had to clear some debts. You know what happened next? The ex-girlfriend never called him; he later discovered that she was sleeping with another man in Lagos But now that he is a relatively successful business man, she keeps asking for financial assistance. He, however, has refused to even lend her i kobo. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Mcowubaba: 5:37am On Jul 14, 2017 |
Most Nigerian girls present themselves as only Sex Objects. I saw a post on Facebook about whether a Girl can date a guy without asking for Money. Most of the Nigerian females responded "can a guy date a girl without asking for Sex" So the equated Sex to Money. Interesting This has proved the popular school of thought, that most Nigerian girls only offer Sex in a relationship. Nigerian girls are still the same people that will say "he used and dumped me" What's the used in this context, SEX, SEX... As if the didn't enjoy the Sex, probably the guy only benefitted from the Sex. Many years ago, I invited a lady to visit me, the first thing she told me was "I don't have transport, I should send", I told her, when she comes I will give her Transport money, she was reluctant, but she later agreed, can you believe that immediately she came, she requested for the money before we even started talking anything. What Made me crazy about the whole thing was that the transport in question was just #200 Hardly before most Nigerian girl can pay the bills when you guys go on date, the hardly pay for anything, nothing, the say to themselves, after all he is fvcking me. So Sex is equated to money. Isn't this prostitution Relationship to most of them is like Job opportunity and Npower youth empowerment I have had the time to mingle with many Nigerian girls, different classes, Tribes and status quo, believe me, it's the same thing. Even the so called miss independent, miss Feminist, miss Gender Equality aren't left out, the just deceive themselves ONLINE, when it matters in REALITY, they are no where to be found. Some Nigerian girls are good though, but I'm yet to be in a relationship with one.. I don't know where I can find them, I just hear about the goodness of Nigerian girls online. 31 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 3:50pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
It should depend on the status of the relationship. If a married man who lives in Abuja, invites his side chick, then he should pay for her ticket But if it's a boyfriend, she should be able to pay her air fare. |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Ichietome: 5:23pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Mcowubaba:Preach it bro 7 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by bakynes(m): 6:04pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
U said it all bro, I only hear about the good girls online. That means good girls are almost extinct in Nigeria. If you think your wife loves you wait till you lose your source of income. Some Norms in this country is just crazy, you coming to see the guy you claim to love and you still want to collect transport what are you sacrificing in the rship? Sex I guess, as if they are not the ones that moan and raise their legs in the air during sex. 7 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by tosyne2much(m): 6:23pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
bakynes:My brother, this is the phobia of every unmarried dude and it was the same thing my friend was complaining about yesterday Just imagine when everything is going well but when things no longer flow like it used to be, then your wife unleashes frustration on you and makes your life unbearable. 3 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 7:25pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Lol.# chews corn. That is how one random guy online asked me to visit him. with my own hard earned money. I wonder if sugar dey him D. tfu seriously Nigerian girls don't think Nigerian boys are worth wasting any money on. In Europe after the girl has bought the tickets and travelled down, they go on romantic dates, sight see and it's so fun for both. But if a naija girl waste money to come and see y'all, she gains nothing. she go cook tire like say u don marry her, then steady knacking till day break. so tell me, are you worth a girl spending 2k to come and see you!!? 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by samdavjustin(m): 7:26pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Nigerian girls and money are like 5&6. As for me all I know is that I don't expect unconditional love from anyone but my mom |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 7:36pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
HannahHitler: Lmao I wouldn't expect a lady if just getting to know to "cook tire" for me. Of course, we can go on great romantic dates in order to have deeper knowledge of each other's personality, dreams and aspirations. If she wants to cook on our very first meeting, nothing will prevent her from doing so |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
There are many loopholes in this argument but a daft guy will rush it without going over the details in his brain. |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 7:39pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Let me get this straight. You invite a girl over, and she would pay her transport fare to and fro?, what are you as her boyfriend doing?. She should as well take you out and pay for your orders. She should shower you with gifts. You want to be on the receiving end without offering anything beside your dick, and because she's a Nigerian girl she should do all these in a relationship you won't think twice cheating or terming her desperate. Personally, I can't spend my money on a Nigerian guy, perhaps my husband. 4 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 7:44pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy:Don't b dumb pls. These white ladies have d means, you can't b dating an undergraduate and expect her to pay for flight. I don't even know how some people reason 5 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 8:09pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Nma27:Of course, if the girl genuinely doesn't have the means to pay for her fare, nothing stops the guy from assisting her in that regard. For instance, if I live in Lagos and the girl I'm wooing lives in Enugu, and she is a 300L student at UNEC, I have no qualms paying her bus or air fare. I guess the writer's ire is directed to working class ladies who have the means to pay their own transport fare. 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 8:12pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy:Are u not the op? |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by pocohantas(f): 8:18pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
The truth is,some Nigerian girls don't see the average Nigerian guy as worth any stress. So, while dating...they will try to milk them as much as possible, which itself is bad. Relationship here isn't what I am very proud of. Instead of complaining of Nigerian girls, why don't you guys reflect on why you are wanted only for the dikc and money. Nigerian girls are not the only ones that feel that way about you guys. Date and marry foreigners, una refuse...still come back to these bad Nigerian women, the only women that can tolerate your inadequacies. You get angry when girls ask if you can date without sex, but keep ranting how they can't date you without money. If relationship isn't about giving money, is it now about sex? Till these nagging Nigerian guys can tell me how they have influenced all the girls they dated positively, I will suggest you all stop acting like you are any better. You are what you attract. Dazzall... 12 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 8:31pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Nma27:I copied the post from fb |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 8:38pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
u see a random babe on facebook or badoo and u invite her over to come spend the night or two nights with u.why wont she ask for money.u have to compensate her na for the intended bulala of her snail .internet prostitution shanigans. 3 Likes
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Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Blackhawk03(f): 9:12pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
We're very sorry, dear unkus. We wee ask our parents for transport fare next time. Ori yin gbale danu 4 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by ennon92(m): 9:21pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Infact eh, everything relating to Nigeria is phucked up. From relationship to economy, education, health just name it... 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 9:26pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
pocohantas: Instead of milking a man that you don't have feelings for, just tell him point blank that you aren't interested in him. Even if he asks you a second or third time, repeat your answer. There is no need stringing a guy along. If a lady truly loves a guy and vice versa, there should be no milking of anyone. 6 Likes |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by pocohantas(f): 9:31pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy: That's why I said our relationship here is flawed. The guys talking like they are innocent, lots of them also go into relationships to have a steady lay. If we date more for love, things will be better. 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Ishilove: 9:37pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy:CFCfan? |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Ishilove: 9:41pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Mcowubaba:!! 1 Like
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Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Bossontop(m): 9:43pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
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Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Nobody: 9:47pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Benita27: Take my own case for instance: Two years with a girlfriend. I initiate dates and pay the bills. I get gifts on both our birthdays. Would it be so evil for me to expect a date where she handles all financing ( no matter how little)? |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 9:49pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Ishilove:who is that? |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Ishilove: 9:51pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy:Someone I know here. You write like him. 1 Like |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by PDPGuy: 9:57pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
Ishilove:Hmmm Was he a notorious guy on this forum? |
Re: Girlfriends And Transport Fare by Ishilove: 10:00pm On Jul 14, 2017 |
PDPGuy:Nope. He was actually a nice, young gentle man. |
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