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Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Amarabae(f): 8:10am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Collyno82:ofcourse it was an advice and an encouragement that I gave in this my writeup. Read my writeup from the beginning again. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Buharison: 8:12am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:Go and learn how to be a real wife, what u just did is the work of a side chick 6 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Oyindidi(f): 8:16am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Buharison:She did a good job by advising broke guys |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 8:18am On Jul 26, 2017 |
lilmax:Savage ! |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Collyno82(m): 8:19am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:sounds more like a mockery. l love the broke guys n ladies in the house but hate their conditions. try as much as it lies on u to lift a fainted soul today. 4 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Buharison: 8:19am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Oyindidi:Who's she to advice broke guys, Anyway I blame all this Internet fraudsters, they are the ones making ladies look down on hardworking guys, nobody is broke maa, They are just well to do as far as they are eating every day and have a roof over their heads 4 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 8:22am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:chaii!!!!! Your thinking level is very shallow, been reading comments on here and you clearly think that hardwork or hustle equates to finacial stability? Not in naija i have friends who do not put in half the effort i put in and they drive all sort of exotic cars, and you have a bricklayer, truckpusher, drivers and teachers who work so hard and have nothing to show for it. My dear i hate, to break it to you a lazy man can be rich and comfortable while the hard working one will be a broke ass nigga. And this sort of stuff your throwing around will make that honest hardworker have a rethink, and decide to exchange an innocent girls life for a range rover or in your opinion to have the ability to get married. The times are very sensitive armed robbery, cyber crime, ritual killings(which slay queens are the victims), kidnapping are on the rise because of such epistles, please do well as a mother to encourage both male and female to strive for excellence through Hardwork. Pardon my writing. 5 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 8:30am On Jul 26, 2017 |
And na Person marry this one put am for house oh #Liability 8 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 8:39am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:No this is more like SHAMING. Guess what? Am very lazy but far from being Broke. 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Konami94: 8:53am On Jul 26, 2017 |
ogorwyne:Best comment of the year hands down, especially considering the fact that's it's coming from a female. 3 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by obataokenwa(m): 8:58am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:Do more of encouragement online. Except maybe you don't know what's challenges in life. It would have been better if you advice both people to have focus of their tomorrow no matter the condition they're in. That aspect you said atleast one bedroom apartment is totally wrong as most of my friends built their own houses while in a self contain. Rented apartment is not achievement as far as marriage is concerned but rather what two people has set their mind to achieve. please learn to advice cos you're married and not comment like one that don't have history. Your comments portray you as one that depend solely on the husband alone to survive....Brace up or else he will get tired of you one day and look around him for enjoyment. I hope you won't be offended with my comment sha 4 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Seanjay(m): 9:09am On Jul 26, 2017 |
jaksmillioniar: Bros i de feel you jare..... it a pity that thread like this i always see them late... cc: AMARABAE cc: BENITA27 WHY DOES IT ALWAYS HAVE TO BE GUYS THAT NEED TO BE RICH BEFORE THEY CAN DATE OR BE IN A RELATIONSHIP? ARE YOU SAYING THE MALE FOLKS ARE THE ONLY ONE THAT ARE BROKE OR CAN BE BROKE? SO FEMALE FOLKS CANT BE BROKE OR ARE NOT BROKE? WHY ARENT YOU OPENING THREAD FOR YOUR FEMALE FOLKS ALSO TO BE RICH AND FINANCIAL INDEPENDENT BEFORE DATING OR GOING INTO ANY SORT OF RELATIONSHIP IF TRULY LADIES ARE NOT GOLD DIGGERS OR ALWAYS AFTER THE MONEY THEN WHY DO I HAVE TO GET MONEY FIRST BEFORE I CAN DATE THEM THEN? THIS IS THE REASON WHY RICH GUYS DONT HAVE RESPECT FOR THEIR SPOUSES OR GF CAUSE THEY BELIEVE IF THEY DONT HAVE THE MONEY THEY WONT DATE THEM NOT TO TALK OF STAYING... I THINK IT TIME YOU THINK YOUVE ADVICE THE MALE FOLKS ENOUGH AND FOCUS ON YOUR FEMALE FOLKS ALSO TO MAKE MONEY AND BE FINANCIALLY INDEPENDENT BEFORE GOING INTO RELATIONSHIPS OR DATING SO THAT THE GUY CAN HAVE SOME RESPECT FOR THEM ALSO.... I AWAIT YOUR RESPONSE ALL THANKS..... JOHNSON |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 9:30am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:You've made my day with your write-up. This got me laughing. Yes I know what it feels like cause I'm a living witness too. I got dumped by a girl I spent my last kobo for during NYSC era and after that, she parted ways with me and settled with another man. According to her, she loves me and still does till now but for the fact that I wasn't financially stable with an uncertain future prompted her bid me goodbye. I wept and cried for several weeks as I remained indoors cause I loved her so much. Then spontaneously, I embraced reality and made several photocopies of my CV and went job hunting. Today I work and do some other hustling to make ends meet. I am not saying I am there yet ooo... but I have learnt that every woman needs an OK guy for a husband if you know what I mean. Now, I don't approach a lady again. That has been postponed till things stabilises. Thanks for your write-up. It was just a reminder of my resolution. 3 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 9:34am On Jul 26, 2017 |
ogorwyne:I was very serious though, Have a great day. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Prymestrr(m): 9:43am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:Npower 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 9:53am On Jul 26, 2017 |
partnerus:you want to be finacially stable b4 you get married? Thnk God she left, if you had married that lady wen you were bouyant finacially, and something happened along the line and the money was not there anymore she would have made your life a living hell. Shit happens and life is upredictable. You might be rich today and broke tomorrow. 4 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by ogorwyne(f): 9:55am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mup4life:Lol. Thanks, I wish you a great day too. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 9:59am On Jul 26, 2017 |
moonraker: Something you guys don't understand is that there's a huge difference between a golddigger and someone who needs a financially stable guy to complement her status/upbringing. How realistic do you think it is for a high-maintenance woman who was brought up in a luxury life to settle for a guy who can't give her the life she's accustomed to? There's absolutely nothing wrong in desiring the best for your children and future. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 10:01am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mup4life:Thanks bro but like I said, I have since moved on. I've promised myself to look very well before I leap in the long-run on issues having to do with the opposite sex. Experience they say, is the best teacher. I've learnt my lessons now and it's left for me to always judiciously utilise it. Thanks once more. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 10:04am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mup4life: Thats why you should always consider marrying a good woman. A good woman is not just the woman that is ready to struggle with you. You can have a good woman who just can't stand poverty. That being said, I'd advice ladies to make sure their spouses can manage wealth/money. The worst trap is marrying someone who lives above his means. A man who understands his financial standing and plans for the future will never go broke. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 10:32am On Jul 26, 2017 |
vivienne03:You seem reasonable, let me point it out to you. Some ladies are blood sucking demons(SOME), When they meet a finacially prudent man, who would rather get that hair for you for 5k rather than 50k they term you "Broke", you rather have a lowkey wedding and save the rest for the future the say you are "Stingy". In this day and age it is very hard to get a good "Woman" with good management skills, what most of them are concerned about is their looks rather than their future. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 10:42am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mup4life: Lmao!! Yes that's a problem. I think it's imperative that woman should be independent. Also, some guys shouldn't go for high-maintenance ladies when they know they can't take care of them. My problem is girls who have no accomplishments or who were not brought up in luxury and are audaciously requesting for things their parents couldn't give them, that's irritating. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mup4life: 10:47am On Jul 26, 2017 |
vivienne03:have a great day. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by moonraker(m): 11:18am On Jul 26, 2017 |
vivienne03: The bolded. I am curious. is it in a married setting or a relationship?? But check this out for size, the woman you described in your statement, where was she when that made man was hustling under the sun and rain to become what he is?? Do you know what that made man had to go through before he became made?? The way Nigerian women think these days 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by WebSurfer(m): 11:23am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Stevengerd: Don't mind this one, I almost got married to one of her likes. They will be there depending on a man instead of going out to make thier own money and still come to say utter rubbish and senseless things against us. 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by WebSurfer(m): 11:24am On Jul 26, 2017 |
RB007:I swear... what a liability .. Amarabae 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by WebSurfer(m): 11:28am On Jul 26, 2017 |
RB007: Most of these Nigerian ladies are full of shit... I am not sure of what they have to offer apart from sex and babies Kudos to the very few ones out there who have seen past this and working independently to support thier homes 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 11:29am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:You claim to be a feminist, shouldn't you make a point of it that the GIRL as well should be financially stable before a serious relationship or marriage? Why is the title of your topic 'dear broke guys' You don't sound like a feminist. Shouldn't it be 'dear broke people'?? Why are you placing emphasis on the guy? Or are you just a wannabe feminist? Or even worse a modern 3rd/4th wave feminist? Who only cares about 'women's rights' when it doesn't favor the woman but doesn't give a sh*t about men's rights when its uncomfortable for the man? Upon all your 'feminism' claims do you still think deep down that it's a man's responsibility to take care of the woman? 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 11:30am On Jul 26, 2017 |
WebSurfer: I swear, na just sex and baby making Her husband's real wife dey Allen avenue 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 11:37am On Jul 26, 2017 |
vivienne03:I don't understand. What is wrong with the high maintenance woman working for her own money and maintaining herself, BY HERSELF? Doesn't she have a brain? Two hands? An education? Haven't women fought for equal rights everywhere? Aren't women allowed to do everything men can do? Don't you brag about 'anything men can do we can do better' So why should she still be selecting men who are financially buoyant to do things for her? What is she good for, then? Sex? Making babies? And then you ask why men objectify women. If you have no value apart form shitting kids from your vagina then you will be seen as nothing more than a tool. A machine to use and enjoy when she's young and beautiful and when she's older with sagging breasts, cheat on her with a younger, fresher 6 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by moonraker(m): 11:39am On Jul 26, 2017 |
AnonyNymous: two bottles of Ciroc for you 2 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mirandah(f): 11:40am On Jul 26, 2017 |
AnonyNymous:This melted my heart. women seem to have this entitlement mentality that it's the duty of a man to Feed, clothe, provide and takecare of them. I don't get where all these stems from? maybe years of Mental slavery from the part of patriarchs 2 Likes |
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