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Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 11:47am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mirandah:Yes, its mental slavery, I agree. Society has oppressed women for a long time. But now that we are more 'enlightened' people only want to solve the 'female oppression' without addressing the 'male oppression'. Women fought for women's rights- for the good parts. They want to go to school, vote, take leadership positions, and I agree with that I love that! Empower women! But here's where I have a problem. They don't want the responsibility that comes with it. Having access to all of those no longer gives you the RIGHT to depend on a man. You can't eat your cake and have it back. Men are forced into the military in some countries during tines of war, for example. If you asked the women if they would like to be forced in the military as well (because, you know, equal rights) they'd disagree. But the thing is we are not even asking for that. All we say is that if men and women have access to the same rights now then men and women should have equal responsibility for managing their own lives. Thus is why I think feminism is bullshit and I am a strong supporter of egalitarianism. Men and women are equal but different. They should have complimentary rights but complimentary responsibilities as well. 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 11:53am On Jul 26, 2017 |
moonraker: She was working hard extensively to achieve her goals, so what exactly is your point? Please don't reply to this if you can't explicitly state your argument |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by loswhite(m): 11:56am On Jul 26, 2017 |
Prevho:most of them will be cheating on u and threatening u at the slightest issue and yet claim to be with u when u r broke....useless generation of girls |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 12:03pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
AnonyNymous: I get profusely irritated when people respond to my posts without sticking to the main idea. I never stated that I was a feminist. Apparently I believe traditional roles make for better relationships. Women and men have been engineered differently and this is not to say that women are weaker than men. WE ARE NOT EQUAL. If you're christian, you'd understand that the bible established that the man is the provider, also that the woman is a helper (assistant). Back to the high-maintenance issue. A woman may not select a financially buoyant man to 'take care of her', but she certainly doens't need a man who will leech off her finances!. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Mirandah(f): 12:07pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
AnonyNymous:Good, then! that is what Real feminism preaches. anything other than that, isn't FEMINISM. But here's where I have a problem. They don't want the responsibility that comes with it. Having access to all of those no longer gives you the RIGHT to depend on a man. You can't eat your car and have it back. Men are forced into the military in some countries during tines of war, for example. If you asked the women if they would like to be forced in the military as well (because, you know, equal rights) they'd disagree. But the thing is we are not even asking for that. All we say is that if men and women have access to the same rights now then men and women should have equal responsibility for managing their own lives.I get all your point. I'm not disputing the fact that the things You Highlighted don't Happen. sadly, it does. but you see, Not all women are feminist. Not all women are ready to be liberated from the shackles of Mental Slavery. I have met and talked with the average Woman, even literate ones. and trust me They still have the Clichè mental Conditioning that they are Not Fulfilled enough, They are Second fiddle to men, They are Sub humans, Hence Have to be aided(Financially, Economically, Emotionally) to reach Human status. it's a man's job, They say...women are not meant to take leadership roles. they say. And trust me, Nigeria precisely, has a lot of job to do when it comes to Feminism. Our women don't want to learn. Thus is why I think feminism is bullshit and I am a string supporter of egalitarianism. Men and women are equal but different. They should have complimentary rights but complimentary responsibility we as well.Nah. It ain't Bullshiit. a true feminist would sniff the Bias of this Post a mile away. I doubt the Op is a Feminist. people fail to realise that not all women are feminist and men Can be feminist too. Again, Feminism is a part of Egalitarianism. It's just mostly about women because the status quo is skewed against women. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by jaksmillioniar: 12:08pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Seanjay: |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Tajbol4splend(m): 12:25pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae: Just shut up and stop spoiling sweet friendships |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Amarabae(f): 12:27pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
partnerus:Thank you so much. May God bless ur hustle. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Amarabae(f): 12:31pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Chai. These guys have cooked me in this thread.
Pele o.
Hahahahaha.
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Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by jaksmillioniar: 12:58pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Seanjay:guy I no send dem again giv dem money and dey dance for u and beg u to eat dem. bicches only undastand money no luv |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by jaksmillioniar: 1:03pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
BerryAnny:na so is fire for fire |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by moonraker(m): 1:09pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
vivienne03: Shaazam, Ms Shifting goal post... Goals indeed. How realistic do you think it is for a high-maintenance woman who was brought up in a luxury life to settle for a guy who can't give her the life she's accustomed to? With this question right here, you concluded that the woman is entitled is to a financially buoyant guy because of her background and not because she worked for it. Let me be clear, In this life, everyone has a right to choose whatsoever they want etc i have no problem with that. Your background is your background rich or poor. one can aspire to have same scenario in their own home but there is no guarantee you are going to get it. A home is built by two people from bottom. Thats what create the bond that lasts. I swear i wont reply you again. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Stevengerd(m): 1:48pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Exactly what appens when u dnt ave proper upbringing. no respect for herself, as a married woman. bro i knw her type. by the time am done with all of them, nairaland woult contain us. 2 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by WebSurfer(m): 1:56pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Stevengerd:Abeg just free them bro.. it's not worth our time.. let their husbands suffer it alone 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by WebSurfer(m): 1:57pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae: Go and sit your lazy ass down 3 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Stevengerd(m): 2:00pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
WebSurfer:Sure bro! i just pity their husbands, becus this ones get side man frnds wey they bleep them. 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by victorking: 2:14pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Anyway a King will always treat his lady like a Queen. If you are tired of getting dumped by broke ladies that got nothing to offer, upgrade yourself so you can treat a hardworking babe like a queen. To me a man must be a man. Its cos we expect women to support us when we are down that is what is giving them guts to ask for equality. Man up and rule. The world is more beautiful than all the women in the world. Being rich is just for your own good 2 Likes |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 2:27pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae: In the Jewish Ethics of the Fathers, there is the following claim: "Whenever love depends upon something [external to love], and then this thing passes, then the love passes away too. But if love does not depend upon something like this, then love will never pass away." |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by thesuave10(m): 2:38pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Mup4life: OK
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Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 3:02pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Augustap:ehn we do english summary dat time for secondary sch how u? gud afternoon hope ur body dey kampe |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 3:29pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Nma27:it hardly works dat way.how many of igbenedion children are married to poor families? in naija its the rich marrying the rich.class move with class.what they show in nollywood doesnt happen in d real world . |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Augustap(f): 3:30pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:Good afternoon paddy. My body dey kampe, how far your own? |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 3:43pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Augustap:oh my body dey strong no sickness no wahala hmm wey dacovajnr? anyway sha i be jus dey listen to this song by jennifer lopez called my love dont cost a thing 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Lalas247(f): 4:04pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:Sounds EXPENSIVE wetin be that |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by GoldenSpine24(m): 4:04pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Guys, Guys, Guys, let's all get easy on this... Lol. I love this forum!!!! It makes my day to read how brilliant minded we Nigerians are. Amarabae's write-up is based on her own perspective of things, and i'm sure if you quote her to backup her writings with examples, she will provide more than enough. For the antagonists, you can also provide examples to show that your points are also valid. But i can assure you all one thing...in each of these examples you give, pertaining to relationship and marriage, only the end results are the same. The circumstances leading to the end are never the same and most times you never have all the facts. A little example; we both loose N1000. However, yours could drop from your bag, while mine could fall off thru a leaking pocket. But in the end we both lost money. But the events leading to the loss are never the same. Sensitive issues like this are not bout right and wrong. Decisions do not go well just because they are right and if they don't go well, it doesn't make them wrong. Sometimes, we can only control what we can and hope for the best. Hard-work really pays, be it a male or female. Apart from the spending bla bla, it gives a high sense of fulfillment to work hard at something and earn it. Some people have companies, businesses, great plans on-going but how much control do we all have for example, over an economy that taxes the common man to death? For the working class, sometimes things could suddenly go sour. Situation changes, we all have down-times and need to get up back. Some people can manage down-times when dating, some wont be able. If you are one of the guys who can, provided you have some basic projections, head on. If you can't as a guy, then you know where your priorities lie. It isn't even in making money cos the problem is far deeper than that. It's about discipline and control which will even serve you well enough when you now make cool dough. Nairalanders, we all know the things we gain or not from here. We all know where the shoes hurt us. If affected, time to adjust our steps in the shoes so we will be able to walk some miles further. For those quoting Amarabae, even if she reframes this write-up in the sweetest way to coat our egos or bruises, some will still see it differently. Maybe a little soft-points were hurt but it's not a bad write up to me anyway. Some will always agree, some will never. Agreement is not the same as understanding. Honestly, not all can agree to a particular line of thought but we can understand and that's most important. There are nuggets of wisdom all round this forum, her thread inclusive (bar the insults and lewd jokes). We can always present our views without disrespect to another....Let's strive to find them in write ups. It will go a long way to aid our well-rounded view of matters. ..and with the differing ideas and views who says variety isn't the spice of life after all...? Great perspectives in here...I learn a lot every day from you guys. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 4:13pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Lalas247:haba na d name of one big man for edo state havent u heard of the igbenedion family ? all im children na fellow rich ppl dem dey marry one of igbenedion dauther got married to ex senate president mantu"s son.so na so e be .d rich always roll with the rich. |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Lalas247(f): 4:21pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:I knew it . Maybe thats why it sounds family Not really informed with the Edo tribe etc true though noticed rich marry rich 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 4:41pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Lalas247:they are just like d otedola family.Sir Gabriel Igbenedion son called Lucky was once the gov of edo state.during im tenure as gov na so dem loot edo state dry. 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Nobody: 4:47pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Hèy why y'll fúçking masturbáting ön this blöödyfûçkiñg thread |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by morganist99(m): 6:45pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
Amarabae:lol I saw Oriaku on your profile ain't surprised |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by Augustap(f): 9:42pm On Jul 26, 2017 |
lefulefu:I never see am o, victornezzar nko. Those guys fit don go chop snail 1 Like |
Re: DEAR BROKE GUYS! by dacovajnr: 10:46am On Jul 27, 2017 |
Augustap:For now na your snail I wan chop! Your night? |
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