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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Kayleb26(m): 1:41pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by imustsaymymindo: 1:41pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:

I'm a cool guy and not desperate, i've never acted that way in my life! i just couldn't control it, was so much carried away with her beauty and calmness coupled with my friend's advise. i simply made a wrong move to a right girl but at the wrong time.

Beauty and calmness made you want to kiss? How did she dress to your house?
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Marshalxv(m): 1:43pm On Jul 29, 2017
Lol,for the guy mind,this one wey this babe fyn me come as rain fall,na Im be say she wan collect,and the bad friends will be like"guy try knack her o ,if u no give her wella today she no go com again, girls no dey like dull guys,no just dull o".Hahahaha, I pity u bro.

On a serious note,u spoiled it all by trying to get intimate with her on her first visit knowing fully well the kind of girl she is.You may still have a second chance,don't let her words discourage u,most times girls don't mean what they say,make her to understand that you're not that kind of guy,prove yourself to her and still maintain the closeness with her.If after this and she's still not yielding,

then just be calm and enjoy ur high table at the friendzone social club. or let her go for real.
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by TrollTrap: 1:43pm On Jul 29, 2017
Lol just a month and this yute is in love
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by imustsaymymindo: 1:44pm On Jul 29, 2017
legitimatefrank1:
Bro forget oo....The dudes mouth may be smelly(Halitosis)..So lets weigh in every options

Yea. You are a great thinker. smiley
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by HARDDON: 1:46pm On Jul 29, 2017
Rita2361:
Women have individual difference. Some will pretend to be angry with you but they are not. She may tell you that so you will not see her as a cheap girl or because of her encounter in her previous relationship. If you want to prove what i just said now go and date her girl friend since she asked you to look for another girl. On the other hand, some ladies that asked for ordinary friendship without any attachment. if your a cool guy definitely the girl is yours. The way care for her will make her running to you. She will be the one that will later start asking you if your not a man. so you don't feel her presence. My advice is to first study the type of person you hooked up with and know the approach to use on her. THE GIRL IS YOURS, PLAY YOUR CARD WELLA for the fact she accepted to come your house.

@ Caps locked, i beg to differ. Do u know that d only thing /worry on a gurl's mind wen she is coming to visit a guy for the first time is THE FEAR OF HIM BEEN LIKE EVERY OTHER GUY N WANTING TO FVCK/RAPE HER on d first visit?
She comes to prove if thatz true or not. If he has his emotions in chk or not.

On some rare occasion, they wish the guy wud be a gud facial expression/ body reader to know when to pick her up n kiss those lips , tasting those nips

But you wudnt fathom
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Kayleb26(m): 1:47pm On Jul 29, 2017
Before u open ur mouth to say I LOVE HER SO MUCH u must have seen her good, bad and ugly sides. One month is too short to have obsav that.
And dnt say u are afraid of losing her cos u dnt even av her yet.
Just grow up.

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 29, 2017
u-turn that u can only be friends? when did she take the turn that u can be more than friends? undecidedu
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 1:47pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.


Yeye boy who gat pricks for brains... That girl is a real Lady..You'd have been shouting "Olosho by now"
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by richard870(m): 1:48pm On Jul 29, 2017
ShobayoEmma:
Life is more than sex relationship and marriage. Without these three, you can still enjoy life to the fullest. These three things mentioned are bound to bring you headache.
Huh? ...wish u would say same to yourself wen alone
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by imustsaymymindo: 1:50pm On Jul 29, 2017
olaboy1:


Correct the guy no goof, if this babe fall for my bros hand working with Chevron, all this story of forbidden first time kiss no go come up.

Women would only kiss and f$$ck a guy on the first date if their perceived looks/money/status of the guy is not in doubt at the moment of the date.

Op just dey vex me as hin dey worry hinself. It is when he does not attempt to kiss her that he goofed. The op needs proper orientation.

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Marshalxv(m): 1:51pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:

Bros i just don't understand, girls are just complicated! I had similar experience with two girls during my NYSC, though i didn't make any move and they came to my place more than three times, but to my surprise, one of them later chat me up after my NYSC and told me I'm a dull guy and couldn't make any move when she was coming to my place: mehn it landed on me like a bomb!


Lol,she no lie bro u dull no be small.
according to the rule,ur only allowed to go without a move on ur first visit, after that ........banana fall on u.Lol

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by harriet412(f): 1:55pm On Jul 29, 2017
delishpot:
How can you just kiss a woman like that? Too many movies have spoilt you. She clearly resisted the first time. why keep pushing? That is quite disgusting in my opinion.What next? It is not a gentlemanly attitude it shows desperation and lack of self control on your part. Her next visit now she would think you would try to squeeze her ní.pples and remove her pants? And if she resists you will keep trying every 5 mins interval? Young men lack sexual discipline these days sha. Change that attitude. If you want a good girl don't "bẹ"

I love this reply..

Hope u sound half as good as u are in real life undecided

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by spiSeyi: 1:56pm On Jul 29, 2017
dat is the beginning of the game...call her after a week and go on a date with her at any eatery then humbly tell her dat you her sorry..don't woo her, she actually be urs at the end..remember to give no Bleep to FEAR
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by biggie73(m): 2:04pm On Jul 29, 2017
You dodge a bullet. Appreciate her friendship.
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 2:10pm On Jul 29, 2017
imustsaymymindo:

Yea. You are a great thinker. smiley
kikiki

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Maj196(m): 2:16pm On Jul 29, 2017
These are some reason she acted such way. 1. She likes u on a platonic level and not on a romantic level 2. You are amateur in d dating game and don't d right button to press at d right time 3. You are already in d dreaded friendzone 4. She has a bf or into someone else 5. She wants to focus on her future and no distractions. Whatever d case if she likes you she'll come around. My 2kobo.
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DonaTee(f): 2:20pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:

Bros please help my life naw, don't even know what to tell her when i see her on monday. I was wrongly advised by my friends. I'm a cool guy.

Apologise n be her friend. If she's meant for you things will flow.
She even tried if na me I don run b that.....makes me feel thats all I represent.
True quality friendship is golden

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by ibietela2(m): 2:22pm On Jul 29, 2017
Same shoe.. cry
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by ibietela2(m): 2:25pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:

Bros please help my life naw, don't even know what to tell her when i see her on monday. I was wrongly advised by my friends. I'm a cool guy.

Just apologise
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by adegeye38(m): 2:25pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

why must you make a move why?, why?

the first time she con ur house ehn?

and she never even gree for u

relationship is not only about sex, there is so much more to a relationship than just sex

classy guys dont act that stupid and desperate

they act cool, mysterious and calculated
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by dview001(m): 2:26pm On Jul 29, 2017
@op tell her to stay away from u and to delete your number also

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 2:26pm On Jul 29, 2017
beeolhar:




i almost liked ur comment till i saw d brothel part
It doesn't change who I am. You're not under obligation to like me or my post. You and I are not same persons and can't reason the same way. I have my reasons for my actions and they are responsibly excusable in my view rather than expecting me to have a low sex life like you. I'm not a woman.

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by petishegzy(m): 2:28pm On Jul 29, 2017
Bro,i've read ur story,thou u bleeped up but jst 4get it..start again if u rilly love her...Wen u c her on monday,do not say anyting abt d incident,its in d past..But if she talks abt it,apologise n move on since u guys talk alot.Bring anoda topic up & do not invite her 2 ur aose again unless she cums on her own.and if she cums,pls do normal..In her eyes nw,nah chop n go u wan do..So,pls do not discuss sex or anytin romantic with her 4 now...Wait 4 sum tym b4 u ask her out again...Goodluck
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Jelal0007(m): 2:48pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:

Thanks brother. I'll act accordingly.
Dude,don't tell her nothing. Just act cool and don't seem desperate in trying 2 let her know u don't wonna lose her. Such a move only shows 'DESPERATION'. JUST ACT COOL and stay firm. And if u can,talk 2 another babe. Just don't make sexual moves 2wards her when she visits u 4a 1st time.
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Unibentested(m): 2:52pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

https://www.nairaland.com/2525657/10-tips-escape-friendzone-get
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by BIDOO(m): 3:02pm On Jul 29, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here.

She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude.

Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind.

This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change.

You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this.
Wonders of Obnoxious mindset, this is uncalled for! This should not be an excuse, There are so many girls outside there Willing to have you as their so call boyfriend or husband but you fail them already by making yourself inferiority element.

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 3:13pm On Jul 29, 2017
My guy you dull yourself, you dey kiss am she keep quiet(green light ), you no know say e mean continue....don't just stop, you come look her expressionless face come fear and pause/stopundecided
You don show am say you no get mind embarassed


When a girl tells you no it means try again later

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by repogirl(f): 3:16pm On Jul 29, 2017
OP, from your story, she was never your gf! I never saw where you said she accepted your request but somehow YOU assumed she was your GF. You two were only friends, so how can you be trying to get back someone that was never yours?

Advice, move on with your life. She obviously doesn't think you're worth being boyfriend material OR she isn't ready for a relationship.

Right now, be the friend she wants you to be, maybe there will be a chance with her later.

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Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by goingape1: 3:29pm On Jul 29, 2017
DaPuncline:
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night.

I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her.


Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things.

As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all.

you should have rape her there undecided
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 3:33pm On Jul 29, 2017
RadicallyBlunt:

It doesn't change who I am. You're not under obligation to like me or my post. You and I are not same persons and can't reason the same way. I have my reasons for my actions and they are responsibly excusable in my view rather than expecting me to have a low sex life like you. I'm not a woman.


u really need to give ur life to Christ, I will continue to pray for u
Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by BumbleBee2ice(f): 3:38pm On Jul 29, 2017
Was actually thinking in that direction too.
Guess d lady felt she's landed one big fish only to discover it's just a small fry after all, lol.

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