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| She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 6:40am On Jul 29, 2017 |
The truth is i have been a little bit down and unable to get a sound sleep since yesterday night. I met this cool lady like a month ago, what really got me attracted to her was her beauty, calmness, and her carriage. We started talking and i asked her out the following week: she just kept smiling and that was all her response, so since then, she do branch at my laboratory where i do my research work whenever she's done with her lectures. We do have great time gisting and all she's fun to be with it and all my friends like her. Two weeks after, i invited her to my place and she agreed, though she couldn't meet up the first day she promised to come due to her reading schedule, but she later came the following day even though i thought she might not come that day because rain fell heavily around the time she promised to show up, though the rain later stopped but was still drizzling. I was so happy when her call came in and went to pick her up, i welcomed her to my place warmly and we started talking, she was seated on the chair and i sat on the table facing her, we had a great talking time and we laughed over many things. As a normal guy i tried to make a "harmless" move to kiss her but she ignored by turning her face sideway with a warm smile, i also played along and told her to feel free. We gisted for a while and i made another attempt but encountered same fate, she later told me she'd soon be leaving because it was late already and rain was already drizzling, i was already lying on my bed and she was still sitting, so i stood up and made the last move which she also ignore with her warm smile. So i escorted her home and when I got back home, she sent a thank you text on my watsapp and we started chatting. I later told her how i find it difficult to read her mind due to her smile and calmness: her response was unexpected, she told me she doesn't know how to say it, that she only want us to be friends with nothing attached, i was so shocked and confused, she said she would advise me to look for someone else, i felt so bad and agitated. I really love her so much, i just don't know what to do to get her back. I asked her whether i've done anything wrong and she said NO. Please i need your help house. I don't Want to lose her at all. 5 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by ShobayoEmma(m): 6:45am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Life is more than sex relationship and marriage. Without these three, you can still enjoy life to the fullest. These three things mentioned are bound to bring you headache. 180 Likes 11 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 6:46am On Jul 29, 2017 |
The seriousness of your write up sef makes me think its one terrible something. Its nothing new na. Guy will like girl but girl wont yield cheaply..that's just d case here. She enjoys ur company, but making sexual move on her first invitation would definitely piss her off. This one even gentle. Some go come after you don carry them go eatery, dem go still come ur house come drink juice, watch tv and feel at home yet if you make d normal guyish move, na slap upon insult you go collect...some are that rude. Just like the poster above me said..not to give yourself headaches. Ive resolved to make brothels my regular companion till marriage..its not a matter of irresponsibility at all. Thats one of the places you can find sex with rest of mind. This sex thing is not enthusiastic for girls like it is for guys and when they eventually have it with you, the lovely calm good girl you know becomes a monster demanding worship and you may never really enjoy her anymore. The wahala is so unworth it abeg. There are call girls everywhere willing to do all styles with you at ease so long you have a little change. You're not under obligation to follow my footsteps o but it will save you headaches such as this. 132 Likes 7 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 6:49am On Jul 29, 2017 |
How can you just kiss a woman like that? Too many movies have spoilt you. She clearly resisted the first time. why keep pushing? That is quite disgusting in my opinion.What next? It is not a gentlemanly attitude it shows desperation and lack of self control on your part. Her next visit now she would think you would try to squeeze her ní.pples and remove her pants? And if she resists you will keep trying every 5 mins interval? Young men lack sexual discipline these days sha. Change that attitude. If you want a good girl don't "bẹ" 192 Likes 12 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 6:49am On Jul 29, 2017 |
ShobayoEmma:It's not as easy as you think especially when you've seen the person you are attracted to and you are about losing her. Not being attracted to someone is a another thing else. 2 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 6:52am On Jul 29, 2017 |
delishpot:I know i goffed anyway but i never knew she would feel bad, i could not control myself. 2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by waleyp(m): 6:55am On Jul 29, 2017 |
LOOK AT YOU, YOU ONLY WANT TO CHUK HER CHUKU CHUKU, THATS NOT WHAT WE CALL LOVE. BUT ITS A NICE STORY ANYWAYS. YOU SABI TALK STORY WELL WELL 28 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by alex81(m): 6:56am On Jul 29, 2017 |
1st day somebody came to ur house u want to kiss  haba bros, is dat how u use to dowhat do u expect her to think? 90 Likes 1 Share
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| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 6:58am On Jul 29, 2017 |
waleyp:Bros please help my life naw, don't even know what to tell her when i see her on monday. I was wrongly advised by my friends. I'm a cool guy. 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:01am On Jul 29, 2017 |
alex81:i know i messed up and i regret it, so what can i do now to help the situation. I was wrongly advised. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by smartty68(m): 7:03am On Jul 29, 2017 |
You mistook lust for love OP. You don't try to take advantage on most people simply because they're nice. Before you make a move aIways try to understand people, moreso it was her first time in your place. 45 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by NeeKlaus: 7:05am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Baba, she's not feeling you at all.. not even ONE BIT. As it stands, you are hovering between being the Secretary at her Friend Zone Association and just being "a colleague" to her. Baba, don't make this worse than it already is. Pick up your slippers and RUN! You tried to kiss woman 3 TIMES, she declined and you couldn't read the handwriting on the wall??  38 Likes 5 Shares |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 7:06am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline: You more than goofed. You destroyed your reputation for her hand. If she were my sister I would advise her not to come back. Because any woman you like you just set out for intimacy straight that means by the time a girl is sending you a thank you SMS it man's you have chopped her pkonmo. Such men are randy and would pick little excuses to cheat. A man with self control gives his woman peace of mind. She can rest assured that he wouldn't jump in bed with the first woman that catches his fancy or tries to seduce him. No one wants to be with a potential Street dog Na. You sef reason am. Okay let me crack a joke which may be true in the end. Maybe she no gree because e be like you dey stay face me I face you or self contain. Na inside same 1 room bed and parlor dey . She no expect that Kain standard. Plus you come want start o riapko her put on top. 24 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Nobody: 7:08am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Welcome to friendzone  .13 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:11am On Jul 29, 2017 |
delishpot:Like i earlier said, i was wrongly advised by friends and i regret it. I'm not that type of guy, I'm a cool guy and that was why i got attracted to her, she's the cool type too. I'm not a potential street dog. It was a mistake, i have sisters too. 10 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by SUPERPACK: 7:14am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline:tell her you are willing to take her as just a friend without attachment, do remember sex is nt what makes a relationship to last, take her out to places, play games with her e.g ludo, table tennis, or lawn tennis etc, do nt make her believe you are in a hurry, and watch how the principle of STILL WATER RUN DEEP works...... 26 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:16am On Jul 29, 2017 |
smartty68:I know bro. My eyes don clear now, and the truth is i've never made such silly first time move to any lady in my life. I just want her back. |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 7:16am On Jul 29, 2017 |
NeeKlaus: If that is how you pick your babes then I am sure you only pick up girls who are after your pocket. They kiss you just to get Tfare out of you. So she should kiss him to prove love? And who told you people just love like that? Does she know him well enough to kiss him? Abeg what are Nigerian parents doing? Who is training their sons concerning sex education?. No wonder most if you guys end up with use and dump girls. 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:17am On Jul 29, 2017 |
SUPERPACK:Thanks brother. I'll act accordingly. 4 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by smartty68(m): 7:17am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline:Lol. Friends can ruin your life Bro. And you wanted to proof smart bah? And after bleeping her you start announcing it to your friends? Is this what you call love? Guy is lust biko and not love 11 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:19am On Jul 29, 2017 |
delishpot:Dude just cracking a light joke. Don't take it too personal. 1 Like |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Kondomatic(m): 7:19am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Here's what you will do. Accept your place in her life and pay attention to her likes and hates. Try to figure out the type of man she wants. You can ask her but don't reveal your intentions. Once you have figured out her kind of man and all she likes and hates, the next step is to sit down and plan your next move which is to pretend to be what she wants without revealing your true self. Free regular sex is guaranteed if you succeed and you even stand a chance to date her if you still want to. This works only for those who can exercise patience 9 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 7:20am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline: I did not say you are. I said in her mind you may be. Just like a girl looking for money to treat her sick parent may come to you to solicit sexbfor pay after listening to friends who tell her men don't give something for nothing. If you do not know her story you would think she is a cheap whor.e right? Even if that was her first time having s.ex but you don't know it yet and weren't feeling her. so, that is the point. You are judged by your character you display not by the character you keep hidden in your heart. No vex for the words I used. I guess your friends are otondos. If you find a nice girl you like, don't listen to them again o. You should call her and apologize to her for your behaviour. but let her know that you would want to make it up to her(I am not saying spend all your money on her) by being a gentle man. Make her know that you are still interested in dating her and you would take things slow and walk at her pace. No agree to be friends o. She go dey carry boyfriend's come dey show you for house and discuss heartbreak with you and how I she and her bf are doing Lol. Tell her you appreciate her offer but you choose to keep proving that you a good bf for her. 16 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by NeeKlaus: 7:27am On Jul 29, 2017 |
delishpot:Dude, don't misunderstand me. His attempts to kiss her in the first place were bad and asking her out just after ONE WEEK?? Where's the rapport? All I am saying is that he rushed things. You can't win a girl's affection and trust in one week. Except if she's after something else.. my opinions, tho. You have yours. 9 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:28am On Jul 29, 2017 |
Kondomatic:Thanks brother. But that patience is the issue, her exam starts soon, around September. I appreciate your candid advise. But what about stylishly apologizing to her when i see her on monday? |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by pocohantas(f): 7:31am On Jul 29, 2017 |
delishpot: Honestly I don't understand these young men of this generation. I have seen some foolishly make comments like...if a girl comes and you don't touch her or make a move, she won't come again. I begin to wonder how many girls they know and which kinda girls they roll with. Just like you said...no wonder they end up with those kind of girls who use intimacy as tools..when they hungrily seek it... Girls need to be very careful now, extra careful. Their friends are training them to be sharp guys... 10 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by Kondomatic(m): 7:32am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline:Apologize for what BRO? 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:34am On Jul 29, 2017 |
smartty68:I love her but what is paining me is that my conscience is not allowing me to rest, I'm not a bad boy but she would now be thinking I'm one of those bad boys, I'm thinking of apologizing to her on Monday. How about that ? |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 7:34am On Jul 29, 2017 |
NeeKlaus: The way you put it sounded like she did a bad thing. You said she wasn't feeling him and he should run because he tried to kiss her three times and she rejected him hence she doesn't want to date him. That is a VERY wrong assumption and would lead a man to keep F-ing up.Why not just say guy you chased her away with your attitude she may never want to date you again. Leave her and look for someone else? |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by smartty68(m): 7:35am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline:Yeah! Please do Man 7 Likes |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by DaPuncline: 7:36am On Jul 29, 2017 |
pocohantas:Nice to have you here. Lol....I think the guy didn't really meant it, he was just sharing his opinion in a light mood. He might not be as bad as you think. |
| Re: She Suddenly Made A U-turn And Said We Can Only Be Friends. by delishpot: 7:40am On Jul 29, 2017 |
DaPuncline: Don't tell me you want to listen to this advice again is it lust or love that is shacking you? If it is lust then take this advice. If it is love abeg, dont agree to be friends o. Keep asking her out and keep being the man you are. Note.... Women do not like weak men. Don't mistake gentle man for weakman. So don't act like a sissy around her but be firm and just that is what attracts women. Firm and just men who set standards. Imagine Okonkwo of things fall apart minus his anger issues 9 Likes |
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