TINALETC3:
It depends, if my man is dat broke and I see hm make efforts to get bak 2 his feet, y nt, I wl do evrytin bt if he relaxes, den, I won't mind making hm do nt jst d cooking bt wash my undies 2, he needs 2 b useful
Tho,may God 4bid it, dnt wnt such

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

gabe:
See, don't let all these fake naija feminists decieve you. They cook fire for boyfriends and still pay their bills, not to talk of husbands. Guys, any girl comes at u with 'u have to help out with cooking n stuff', forget marriage with her, or its a forever bondage. They don't forget. There are thousands of better girls ready to pamper u in marriage. I'm talking to guys ready for marriage. If ur with a girl lazy in the kitchen n housework, for the sake of ur future, please take off. I have a doctor friend who was doing all that stuff for his babe when they were in medical school together. Love love, they married. Guy still cooks for the wife constantly after 7 yrs of marriage. D woman has become worse, n d guy doesn't want to wreck his marriage by quarrelling. It has nothing to do with their proffesion, cos my doctor cousin married a doctor and she cooks fire for him and all of us. Perfect wife. The former guy is suffering JUST BECAUSE HE AGREED TO THE TERMS FROM THE BEGINNING. His mum visited him and shed tears. Said her son was in bondage. So shine ur eyes guys. Our sisters who want equal cooking rights or who want men to cook all the time 'cos its not their thing' pls continue.

freshvine:
Madam, you're not cooking for your husband, you're cooking for the family. Drop this feminist toga abeg. Better still, hire a cook.

If you allow your husband to be visiting markets, grinding egusi, okra, pepper and bargaining with market women, your family will be butt of jokes and ridicule.

Here is Africa, we don't go to shopping malls with plastic bags to source ingredients for pasta, we go to Rural markets with majority of women population to buy our ingredients.. . Your husband will be mocked.

If you are Rich, upgrade your husband and play your traditional roles. No need for excuses or role reversal. If he's beneath you and you can't imagine cooking for him, divorce him and look for a wealthier man

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

freshvine:
Madam, you're not cooking for your husband, you're cooking for the family. Drop this feminist toga abeg. Better still, hire a cook.

If you allow your husband to be visiting markets, grinding egusi, okra, pepper and bargaining with market women, your family will be butt of jokes and ridicule.

Here is Africa, we don't go to shopping malls with plastic bags to source ingredients for pasta, we go to Rural markets with majority of women population to buy our ingredients.. . Your husband will be mocked.

If you are Rich, upgrade your husband and play your traditional roles. No need for excuses or role reversal. If he's beneath you and you can't imagine cooking for him, divorce him and look for a wealthier man

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

freshvine:
Madam, you're not cooking for your husband, you're cooking for the family. Drop this feminist toga abeg. Better still, hire a cook.

If you allow your husband to be visiting markets, grinding egusi, okra, pepper and bargaining with market women, your family will be butt of jokes and ridicule.

Here is Africa, we don't go to shopping malls with plastic bags to source ingredients for pasta, we go to Rural markets with majority of women population to buy our ingredients.. . Your husband will be mocked.

If you are Rich, upgrade your husband and play your traditional roles. No need for excuses or role reversal. If he's beneath you and you can't imagine cooking for him, divorce him and look for a wealthier man

mercytripletz:
she is right.
Do the present day women still look like the 1865 AD women?
If the husband is the breadwinner, the woman cooks, washes, do so many things in the house.
But if the wife is the breadwinner, you expect her to still do everything in the house while the husband chills abi? All in the name of 'head of the house'?
No, kolework. He go help her work naani.

soberdrunk:
No problem!! Nah still your money the Side chic go use arrange better meals for me since you cannot be humble.........

freshvine:
Madam, you're not cooking for your husband, you're cooking for the family. Drop this feminist toga abeg. Better still, hire a cook.

If you allow your husband to be visiting markets, grinding egusi, okra, pepper and bargaining with market women, your family will be butt of jokes and ridicule.

Here is Africa, we don't go to shopping malls with plastic bags to source ingredients for pasta, we go to Rural markets with majority of women population to buy our ingredients.. . Your husband will be mocked.

If you are Rich, upgrade your husband and play your traditional roles. No need for excuses or role reversal. If he's beneath you and you can't imagine cooking for him, divorce him and look for a wealthier man

lovelygurl:


This is why Africa will forever remain backward. Poorest continent in the world, also in mentality.

They never want to move forward, always bringing stuffs from 1300.

eni4real:
I will employ a fair-skinned cook who will be helping Madam out! No qualms at all.

tyson98:
Msschew oloyan rabata

Originalsly:
If you are the bread winner.... would you say the same?....that you cannot cook for your husband? If no... then you shouldn't say she is right. No doubt. ... the man should be helping out as much as he can. Should any man marry her.....he should expect to be treated like a house boy should he ever be in a situation where he is unable to earn... whether it be because of sickness... being laid off or not being paid salary on time.Sh3 is waving yellow flag and don't even know....then we wonder why some....some women remain unmarried or marriages crash.

TINALETC3:
It depends, if my man is dat broke and I see hm make efforts to get bak 2 his feet, y nt, I wl do evrytin bt if he relaxes, den, I won't mind making hm do nt jst d cooking bt wash my undies 2, he needs 2 b useful
Tho,may God 4bid it, dnt wnt such

EgunMogaji:
It just shocks me to read some comments on here and especially from ladies.

While marriage is not servitude but of what use is a wife to me if I still have to be in the kitchen to cook?

No wonder there is a deluge of unmarried single mothers littering the Nigerian landscape, or maybe that's just in Ibadan.

I trust my wife, Alifata Atoke iya Kubura Apeke, she won't play with a snake head

Nov6:


Good thing you already said God forbid...
Cooking is not a problem for me&will never be, whether am the bread winner or not.....
When i come back from my daily activities&my said my wife is not from her daily activities, i mean what is wrong in fixing a meal

That one no be work ooo&it is never time consuming,i create time for everything,
for me cooking is my hobby, i dont know how to eat out.
An idiot will quote me now saying i no get work to do be that,
well i do&it takes me one place or the other always on the move, but still when i get the little time&opportunity,i make the good use of it...
It is all about understanding..
Bread winner or not.

JuneOctober:


Smh.

jujutom:


Wat of guyz that cook and wash for their wives and still provide all the source of income that gets to the house?

pweetiedee:


Her name has given her away. you married a village woman.

TINALETC3:
It depends, if my man is dat broke and I see hm make efforts to get bak 2 his feet, y nt, I wl do evrytin bt if he relaxes, den, I won't mind making hm do nt jst d cooking bt wash my undies 2, he needs 2 b useful
Tho,may God 4bid it, dnt wnt such

you wicked small ooh