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How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:28pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
before going into a relationship a guy and a lady must have come to an agreement and understanding..................... sometimes they set boundaries, objectives and responsibilities and most times how much effort the guy is to put in taking care of the girlfriend financially is not often discussed........ So nairailanders from a scale of 1-100% how involved do you think the guy being the boyfriend should be in taking care of the lady's financial and material needs ? For me i believe the guy should be able to take care of 50% of her needs while she and her dad takes care of the other 50%........... Share your views lets see |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:33pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I will say 50% is fair Ladies need a lot just to keep up with everyday appearance and most guys will not date an unkept girl So 50% is OK 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:39pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG: cool!! Watch and see dem ladies come to say 100% |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Homeboiy: 9:42pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
let me wait for the advisers to arrive first |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:43pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:nope I aint their daddy Man way won chop must work 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Young03(m): 9:44pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
If u tell a naija babe u love her, na that day u buy all her problems 8 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by akaahs(m): 9:47pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
50%? I never marry her ooo, abeg i carry 25% her parents go carry 50% nd she go carry d remaining 25% after all naija gurls are not to be trusted. 8 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:57pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Young03: so for you na 100% abi |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 9:59pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
akaahs: ah!! Just 25? |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:06pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG:Exactly, they like flashy, well dressed girls, is it not money? 3 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Flashh: 10:07pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
I would only take care of a girlfriend, when I feels like. She can't force me. 19 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:13pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Rorachy:you are right every one wants good things for themselves and most good things in life are not free Everything has a price and not every price is money If you want a decent guy that will take care of you and love you what price are you willing to pay to get that A question most young boys of nowadays are asking A question many girls of nowadays are unwilling to answer 1 Like |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by annayawchee: 10:15pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
10% only..... Are my the only one drilling her soakaway?? Mtssheww |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:18pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Its only in 9ja a gal will tell her friends she's broke and her friends are like ."Don't u have a bf?" Me:Heck!! SMH Before the money-sucking ladies come for my head I think 15% is okay. 3 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by annayawchee: 10:22pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:before nko? Am i the only driller? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Forget about all this. It depends on the guy's financial stability. You don't expect a student to send 50 or 25% of the allowance he collects from his parents and siblings to a girl. If you love someone and you also have the financial strength you won't mind giving her your ATM password; I know what I'm saying. 2 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:24pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Benita27:no to ATM sharing It is fraud to use someone else's ATM to collect money 3 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:26pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Mine isn't on percentage. She's still a girlfriend, not wife. I'll help when i can. 7 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG:It's not fraud if he gave you himself. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:28pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
humeeh: sunshineG are you seeing this oya comman add her to wifey material list |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:That's not it!! I just suppose its the way it should be. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:33pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
thepussyhunter:31 right The list is growing I wanted to add Benita27, cause i am thinking the 27 stands for her age but ..... |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:38pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Benita27:even if it is not entirely fraud If you are caught with someone else's ATM and the person unfortunately can not be there to clear you It could get you in trouble It is the main reason why banks always makes sure ATM can only be collected by the owner of the account |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:40pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG:So my account was created last year, and if we should go by this notion then I should be 28 and not 27. The 27th signifies my date of birth, not age. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by FILEBE(m): 10:42pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Op. I doubt your topic might make front page because of this your moniker. NA u know the work wey dem give u to hunt... About the topic. I don't think spending should be a problem between two love birds. It should come naturally. If he has, he will give you. If she has also, she will give you. And when she/he doesn't have... Then understand. We know guys are to spend on a ladies. It is like the norm but ladies don't depend sorely on a him, you should also cater to your needs (not oloshoism o). Some ladies make it mandatory for the guy to spend always and that's why he will always want your body always in return because it seems u are just feeding off them. My condolences go to the guys who spends so much with hard labour on a girl and catches the girl cheating. This happens mostly with female corpers. That being said. I think 50/50 won't be bad if you see a future with her and you are capable. If u are still struggling, 25 or 10 percent is okay. did i speak the mind of someone too? 2 Likes |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:43pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Benita27:anyway I still think you are in your mid 20s Investigation is ongoing to ascertain that |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:44pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG:Banks make sure only owners should collect their cards for security reasons but that doesn't mean the password can't be shared. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:45pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Benita27: i'm actually mean like on an average scale or something on "mature relationships".................. And i know that too.............my ex had the password of one of my atms but then i set a boundary her............. Maybe for a student he can cater for lets say 5% but for da working class i believe 50% should be enough as shes not yet my wife hope you get |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:47pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG:mid 20s is 25. You could be right but I won't say. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:48pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
Benita27:that is whole point for the security reasons, for confidential purpose but you can disobey and share your password at your own risk However, anyone caught with another person's ATM can be prosecuted. |
Re: How Involved Should A Guy Be In Taking Care Of His Girlfriend's Financial Needs? by Nobody: 10:49pm On Aug 17, 2017 |
sunshineG: no o dont add her o shes in my personal list already......dont want anyone adding her to the public list and ermm shes 26 same age as we are............ Trust me.............i'm 85% sure 1 Like |
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