A close friend of mine is having mixed feelings about dating a guy she likes. The guy has a girl already but told her he doesn't trust this girl. She seems to like him but is confused and scared that he might just be using her as a spare.

The guy in question told her that is not the case as he is not sure his relationship with the other guy will last for much longer.But he has bluntly REFUSED to leave this other girl, even though he claims the relationship is rocky.

Her point is that since the guy was truthful in telling her about the other girl's existence, he might be telling the truth about the r/tionship being shaky.Now she is confused as to what she should do. She doesnt want to end up hurt in case this guy relationshp with the other girl blosoms

Godmother:

A close friend of mine is having mixed feelings about dating a guy she likes. The guy has a girl already but told her he doesn't trust this girl. She seems to like him but is confused and scared that he might just be using her as a spare.

The guy in question told her that is not the case as he is not sure his relationship with the other guy will last for much longer.But he has bluntly REFUSED to leave this other girl, even though he claims the relationship is rocky.

Her point is that since the guy was truthful in telling her about the other girl's existence, he might be telling the truth about the r/tionship being shaky.Now she is confused as to what she should do. She doesnt want to end up hurt in case this guy relationshp with the other girl blosoms

I smell trouble, if the guy was really serious he would have left his current gf for ur friend. To me the guy is just plain greedy as in why have one gf when u can have 2 gfs . Advise tell ur gf to walk she dont need this kind of drama.

[size=13pt]nooooooo
tell your friend to run
he is a bloody schemer
hmmm guys can so lie [/size]

True. Talk about a two-timing bastar.d

She had better dump his sorry backside asap.

I can't even believe your friend is listening to this cheat talk.Only God knows how many girls he has used by feeding them this crap and how many more he'll use.Please like every other person here said,ur friend should kick the guys ass and tell him to his face that he's a cheat.

I tink ur friend needs 2 wake up 4rm her slumber, the hand-writing shows shes just a spare. When the desired isnt availiable then she the available becomes desired

The guy is wise. Is wat any other guy will do imagine! On a plater of gold.

@funkybaby, u're a man hater! How come u've made a conclusion to d point of callin d dude a bastar.d? Sometimes i think every chic on NL has got an issue with a guy. Thats why i dont bother to get personal with em'.

Krissykriss:

@funkybaby, u're a man hater! How come u've made a conclusion to d point of callin d dude a bastar.d? Sometimes i think every chic on NL has got an issue with a guy. Thats why i dont bother to get personal with em'.

They are hyper and sexist, yes.

Thanx guys,you are all so right.I told her exactly that and I just hope she listens

why on earth would any person degrade themselves by chhasing after someone who is in a relationship? if he has a gf and you steal him away it is only a matter of time before someone steals him from you.

I don't see a ring on the finger. Rock on

haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa,
pls, tell your friend again say make she jaaaa. i mean tell her to run as fast as her legs can carry her, it's plain DECEIT.
ruuuuuuuunnnn.
abi o fé gan paa ni?

Can all this Block head threads come to an end?

She needs to be slapped if you does not realize when a man wants to eat his cake and still keep it!

there is fire on the mountain, run, run , run

mo so te mi oooo

op please tell ur friend that Paroh! said she's just d guy's f*#k toy, so let her walk away asap.

*advice deleted*

im not even gonna waste my time.
some WOMEN sef.

SIGNS YOU ARE STILL IN LOVE WITH YOUR EX

Take a look at this list of signs that you are not over your ex, and find out if you really are about him, or not ...

1. You get caught almost texting him


For many women, erasing their phone number is the best option. But you can know it by heart. What kind of defeats the whole purpose.

I mean really, how many times have you written a long and sincere message - only to think about it later and decide to eliminate it?

Or worse ... in a moment of irrationality, send it to him?

If you are still thinking of him enough to write messages to him and send jolts of emotion through you, it means that you are not on him.

You will overcome it over time, but for now you will have to concentrate on yourself.


2. You want him to see you
If you come to places on purpose because you know he will be there, that is a huge sign that you are still not over on him.
Even if you go to a party that you know is going to be with another guy to try to make him jealous, all you're going to do is end up getting sad when you see him feeling happy.

The only way to overcome this temptation is to keep yourself occupied in your own life and not try to be where you are or be seen by him.

Otherwise, you are just taking the break and taking more and more time to overcome it.

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