boman2014:




then stop having sex with them. focus on the relationship

zolapower:
How old are u for a start ?

Yomislip:
OK maybe your calling is not girls

RETIREDMUMU:


bro have dated alot of girl, and still if i don't have this s3x now, qnd surely in future don't u think this same thing will happen??

and don't u think twice about sex before marriage

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!! you are still a kid and thats the problem

Machiavelli1:
Yea, I think it got something to do with age/phrase, if he's still a teenager or in his early 20ies I believe he'll outgrow it. When I was a teenager I always got mad whenever I see guys with my sisters, but now who cares?

RETIREDMUMU:
Please help me nlander, this thing has been baffling me for a year now.

fast forward in 2016, i started having break ups due to the reason: once i have sex with girls i started having hatred towards them especially when the sex is constantly.

i thought at first maybe it a normal thing due to fact that i love taste random........

until this same occurrence happened yesterday on our first love making, toward me and my long term girl, this girl i love her like mad, am even planing future reference with her, i don't want to lose this same girl because of this hatred.


i tried to discuss this with my friend, and fortunately this happen to some of them(having hatred after having sex)


i tried to Google for solutions but nothing useful found



i tried to do dating without sex but the thought still runs in my head,and i always want stable relationships for now.

just help me!!

OrdercityWeb:

[b]What do you call the "hate" he has for them and this same "hate" that a lot of young men can relate to if not guilt?
You don't necessarily have to know you've done something wrong to feel "guilt"?
It's innate, it's called the conscience. It's like the cops of humanity. It's just like when we don't help someone in need our conscience ( the inner police) gets to us.
..
Now you say sexual compatibility is important. Okay fine. I want to guess sexual compatibility is not the only important thing in a marriage. Right?
Now you say "MAYBE" this means your figures are under probability and it could be more than that.
The result of this, is an increase in your chances of contacting STD's or she having an unwanted pregnancy. Right?
Also in the event of a disability after marriage that damages the sexual prowess of the couple wouldn't they cope?
Are the no options for that? Do you have to sleep with everyone to prove "sexual compatibility"?
I await your answers.
Ps: If you're going to answer PLEASE ANSWER THE QUESTIONS DIRECTLY. DON'T BE EVASIVE. THANKS![/b]

Tonythriller:
Whr do u want us to start in helping you? Obviously you don't know what yo want in a girl. Must it just be the sex? Looks more like it. Am sure if you can find something else in a girl,let's say companionship, confidant, crime partner or even good adviser I bet dix ur attitude will change. I will just conclude that you have not yet met the right girl for you. Look beyond sex nd physical beauty nd focus more on character. You will find that girl whose personality fits into your own life and you will always love and bleep her non-stop till rapture comes.

Tonythriller:
Whr do u want us to start in helping you? Obviously you don't know what yo want in a girl. Must it just be the sex? Looks more like it. Am sure if you can find something else in a girl,let's say companionship, confidant, crime partner or even good adviser I bet dix ur attitude will change. I will just conclude that you have not yet met the right girl for you. Look beyond sex nd physical beauty nd focus more on character. You will find that girl whose personality fits into your own life and you will always love and bleep her non-stop till rapture comes.

RETIREDMUMU:



this thing will surely happen when i got married

motun2017:
can you imagine? i pity d gals dt kip falling into your trap sha. just imagine. mtccw

Sfateema:
It's the Op's name that I'm interested in