Olalan:
Amusing how people always want to suddenly hear from God when they want to marry. You can confidently hear from God at this stage if you already have a relationship with him.

Olalan:
Amusing how people always want to suddenly hear from God when they want to marry. You can confidently hear from God at this stage if you already have a relationship with him.

deturla:


Did you read the post at all??

Na waoh!

tosyne2much:
When you're suffering from indecisiveness, your pastor is always there to take decisions for you and perhaps, help you plan your home

samsam2019:
Your pastor is mad.




Tell him I said that

kennygee:


The point he is coming from is that, she can hear from God without going to meet a pastor whose realness she can't even vouch for.

If the man is not for her, she'd know thru prayers, by herself if she has a relationship with God.

deturla:
Please this young lady needs some help! Mature responses will make a whole lot of sense. Thanks!

I am confused right now. I don’t know what to do, the pastor of my father’s church just told me I cannot and should not marry my fiance. April 2017 made it 5 years we have been dating. It was also the month he proposed to me which I gladly accepted.

5 amazing years and it has been pure bliss. Not that we don’t have issues but we get to resolve these issues amicably. I have never had any course to regret this relationship. Our families both are cool and comfy with each other, and I had already started dreaming of a life together with him.

Until the bombshell dropped by my pastor saying he is not the man for me.

The pastor also went ahead to say that the marriage will be very smooth at the beginning but will be sour at the end. This part got to me and I was scared. Even to talk to him now is much of a problem, because I don’t know what to tell him.

I confided in some of my friends and was informed of the story of a man who was told not to marry his wife by a Prophet, that he is going to lose the woman, but he went against the instructions of the Pastor and married the woman. After the 5th wedding anniversary, she started falling sick. She fell sick and was bedridden for 5 years before she gave up the ghost on their 10th year of marriage.

One of my aunts also shared her story with me, that prior to when she got married, she was told by a Pastor not to marry her fiance, and broke up with the guy before she went to another Pastor who told her she should never leave the man of her life for anything in the world. This made her quickly run back to the man and now they have been together for 10 years. Marriage is waxing stronger.

I have tried praying to God being a strong christian to give me signs on knowing whether my fiance is the man as my husband or not, but I have not seemed to see any signs from God. The only thing I noticed was his calm, faithful and trustworthy nature which have been a part of him over the years.

Please I need help, what do I do? Our marriage is slated for November 2017 and I am torn between my personal convictions and the vision of the Pastor.

http://deedeesblog.com/dees-inbox-pastor-said-cannot-marry-fiance/

segunojo866:
continue lying. When you pray it's not an assurance. It's sample study the person and mention the person is God fearing. The atheist voice. Honestly i don't think it's necessary if the person is good in character than what stop you from getting married

deturla:

deturla:

Hmmmn!!!

samsam2019:
Adetola



You people need to stop trying good Yoruba names by englishising it

tosyne2much:
Abi wetin you think?

Well? I wan marry am before, because she be good babe, from wetin she don tell me.

kennygee:


Why will I lie, I don't even know her. When you ask your father for directions to a place he knows, I'm sure he won't turn you away or keep mute so you can get lost.

Don't call me a liar, you don't know me.

segunojo866:
you are still a learner dear. I have a very strong Christian friend that pray very hard before getting married he ask God for guidance after that he had a dream of him getting married to the girl, He later discussed with his spiritual father about the dream and the pastor also supported his decision. Surprisely after two years of marriage the girl got her self infected with HIV and transmit it to the innocent man. Currently the girl is dead and the man is still living with the virus.

deturla:


OMG!!!

deturla:
Please this young lady needs some help! Mature responses will make a whole lot of sense. Thanks!

I am confused right now. I don’t know what to do, the pastor of my father’s church just told me I cannot and should not marry my fiance. April 2017 made it 5 years we have been dating. It was also the month he proposed to me which I gladly accepted.

5 amazing years and it has been pure bliss.http://www.lovepicturesdownload.com/2017/03/love-images-download.html]
[http://www.lovepicturesdownload.com] Not that we don’t have issues but we get to resolve these issues amicably. I have never had any course to regret this relationship. Our families both are cool and comfy with each other, and I had already started dreaming of a life together with him.

Until the bombshell dropped by my pastor saying he is not the man for me.

The pastor also went ahead to say that the marriage will be very smooth at the beginning but will be sour at the end. This part got to me and I was scared. Even to talk to him now is much of a problem, because I don’t know what to tell him.

I confided in some of my friends and was informed of the story of a man who was told not to marry his wife by a Prophet, that he is going to lose the woman, but he went against the instructions of the Pastor and married the woman. After the 5th wedding anniversary, she started falling sick. She fell sick and was bedridden for 5 years before she gave up the ghost on their 10th year of marriage.

One of my aunts also shared her story with me, that prior to when she got married, she was told by a Pastor not to marry her fiance, and broke up with the guy before she went to another Pastor who told her she should never leave the man of her life for anything in the world. This made her quickly run back to the man and now they have been together for 10 years. Marriage is waxing stronger.

I have tried praying to God being a strong christian to give me signs on knowing whether my fiance is the man as my husband or not, but I have not seemed to see any signs from God. The only thing I noticed was his calm, faithful and trustworthy nature which have been a part of him over the years.

Please I need help, what do I do? Our marriage is slated for November 2017 and I am torn between my personal convictions and the vision of the Pastor.

http://deedeesblog.com/dees-inbox-pastor-said-cannot-marry-fiance/

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