Daeylar:


Op immee please ignore this comment I quoted and the poster who made it, someone who had read the topic wouldn't had made such a contribution.

Please ignore, even if you want to take anyone's advice, Don't even take this one into consideration, ignore, it's part of what happens when you bring your issues online, pretend you didn't see it, it's not worth your time at all

You know nairaland is full of misogynistic men who are forever against women in issues concerning a man and a woman, this is clearly one of them.

Just ignore

supersystemsnig:


If your gf tells you she's going to visit a friend, and will be back 4pm but 6pm she's not back, 7pm she's not back, 9pm she's not back, by 10pm won't you imagine thoughts?


Bros, put yourself in her shoes please before you pull off an Ahitophel on her...

Ninethmare:
You said he is your fiance and you guys are planning for marriage
you borrowed him some money to help in revitalising his company.
Now the question is have you asked him how business is moving? he maybe having some problems...
You are all after ur money not knowing that after ur marriage with him the company is also urs
.
.
Now see what you are going to do...
Stop talking about ur money for now and try to know how the business is going.
Build the love again
Focus on your marriage
.
After marriage then you can skin him alive if you want.

SycophanticGoat:


That guy is just a useless sadist. The fact is, I really don't understand why we Nigerians exhibit this demonic attitude. You see people who need financial assistance running to others and almost kissing their feet just to borrow money. Once the money enters the person's hands, s/he will immediately change attitude towards the person that rendered them help in the first place.

I have this very close friend of mine who borrowed money from me in order to meet an urgent need. He paid back half of it and that was it. He never talked about that money again. As if it was my duty to borrow and forget. It's quite annoying. When I owe someone, I make sure that the first money that gets into my hand is used to repay my debt. Then I don't know why others will be different.

TheRealestGuy:


You are a callous and wicked person.

You aren't even sure if he's broken even, you're not trying to be supportive, you're not even giving him a few weeks to stabilize after some production problems. All you're after is your miserly 500k that you lent to him.

You don't ever deserve to be married cos your type will turn to Jezebel if your hubby ever has financial issues.

If he wanted to scam you, will it be 500K, don't you know he'll be looking for a way to get more?

I pray for that guy that he doesn't marry you cos you will make his life miserable if he ever has financial problems.



Funny thing is that most of y'all women are like this, always quick to collect everything possible but when it comes to giving it's a problem.

I hope you fall into wrong hands that will teach you a lesson of your life since you can't be supportive of your to be husband.

All the harshness was duly intended and I exercised restraint not to call you names.

EMMAUGOH:


And when she is back and I accuse her of promiscuity when I know anything might be the cause.. Will you support me

nkwuocha:
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You are a big fool. 500k is your god, that's why the first thing you're doing is overreacting like a failed nuclear reactor. I won't waste words on you, low life...I won't bring my family here, i know just like NNPC declared over 90% of Nigerian graduates are unemployable, i know your mind is stuck in mediocrity,you lowlife...

I''m sure your life is in shambles, nothing in the right order, it's because of this same mindset. Go have your mind reset...You've got a terrible mindset...Ote.[/s]..

Le kwa nu Nkita nsi!
Mpama, It doesn't matter if its 1kobo.You wretched piece of scum!You quoted me first, remember?!

Employable? hahahaha.You dey find work?I don't even know where my CV is.I don't need it!

Now listen you non entity! There are many institution that gives out loans. At best he should have gone for such loans, but na!Why should he,when there's a desperate woman he can swindle off her cash.

supersystemsnig:



So you're capable of such thoughtfulness and you're spewing thrash earlier... Bros leave my matter abeg, i'm looking for Nnamdi Kanu right now biko

Immee:
Hello fellow nairalanders, pls advise needed on this issue.

My bf and I have been together for a while now and planning on having our marriage introduction by November and marriage proper early next year.

Im an independent woman with a gud job. As a matter of fact, ive never made any financial request from this guy though he buys gift for me without requesting. He is doing well financially too, he runs a recycling factory while I work with a manufacturing company.

Things are working well between us since the relationship started untill recently when we had some business deals together ( my opinion though) cos I don't understand him anymore. He was broke at that time and needed to get some materials which he never budgeted for. He requested that I invest in his company by paying for those materials since they're coming cheap and he doesn't have enough to get them at that time and wouldn't want to loose the opportunity. I consented to the idea cos I knew he's business was very lucrative and that I'll get my money back with interest. He promised to be paying me a weekly dividend so I thought of giving 1 million naira. I made an instant transfer of 500k to his account as dts the maximum I can do daily without a token and I wasn't with it then.

The 2nd day dt I was suppose to send the remaining money, some issues occurred in his company in my presence. He had some major issues with some of the equipments in his factory. He had to stop productions for some days. So i with held the balance as it wont be neccesary since there was no production.While repairs were ongoing? I had to liase with some of my junior colleagues at work who are engineers to help my bf cos I found out he's engineer's aren't capable of handling the situation as dts the first time he would experience such. As God will have it operations started back in few days with the support of my engineers.

My concern now is since things went back to normal in my bf compan' he's yet to keep to his promise of the weekly dividend he said I would be receiving from the investment. As a matter of fact , things has changed between us cos he no longer call and hardly pick my calls. I communicate with him mostly thru SMS now since he wouldn't pick my calls. I'd sent messages to him to return my money without interest and he has promised to pay back with no time and date of when he's going to pay back. I even had plans of going to his place today since im off work so as to force him to go to the bank with him so DT I can get my money but he left the house early in the morning with excuses that he has a place to go and would return to my place after leaving there.

Pls guys how best can I get this money back from him cos I know he has it but playing pranks on me. I don't mind loosing my relationship with him as I don't trust him any longer.

missyadorable:


Even many marriages these days are organised scam!
The lady is foolish! because of "I love you,i will marry you,and some sweet jargons that the man tells her which are all lies,she threw away 500K...

I am married but I can never give my husband 5K loan or dash,he will use my sweat to flex with other ladies outside.

I made my own money before I got married and still make my own money.

Everybody hold your pocket,abeg!

Pleasure and business don't mix!

olaremint:
If your story is true then i can only say the truth. You are obsessed with money. The dude is testing u and u have started to fail woefully. I just hope u have not done final damage as u don't deserve the guy. Money monger.

EMMAUGOH:

From far I know girls that has security issues... And the said op is one.. They can nag for Africa

NowisGod109:


Haa !
You just spoke my mind and Jah bless u
Why will I even tell my husband I have up to 500k in my bank account not to talk of my fiance...chai

TheRealestGuy:


Seems your generation is cursed.

Next time just make your shitty opinion without quoting anyone, especially with an opening line of insult.

Everyone just talks anyhow online

Ninethmare:
You said he is your fiance and you guys are planning for marriage
you borrowed him some money to help in revitalising his company.
Now the question is have you asked him how business is moving? he maybe having some problems...
You are all after ur money not knowing that after ur marriage with him the company is also urs
.
.
Now see what you are going to do...
Stop talking about ur money for now and try to know how the business is going.
Build the love again
Focus on your marriage
.
After marriage then you can skin him alive if you want.

Daeylar:


Op immee please ignore this comment I quoted and the poster who made it, someone who had read the topic wouldn't had made such a contribution.

Please ignore, even if you want to take anyone's advice, Don't even take this one into consideration, ignore, it's part of what happens when you bring your issues online, pretend you didn't see it, it's not worth your time at all

You know nairaland is full of misogynistic men who are forever against women in issues concerning a man and a woman, this is clearly one of them.

Just ignore

supersystemsnig:



Ease off, i'm also a C.E.O. take ya pride off my face....

EMMAUGOH:


And when she is back and I accuse her of promiscuity when I know anything might be the cause.. Will you support me

Ninethmare:
You said he is your fiance and you guys are planning for marriage
you borrowed him some money to help in revitalising his company.
Now the question is have you asked him how business is moving? he maybe having some problems...
You are all after ur money not knowing that after ur marriage with him the company is also urs
.
.
Now see what you are going to do...
Stop talking about ur money for now and try to know how the business is going.
Build the love again
Focus on your marriage
.
After marriage then you can skin him alive if you want.

Godchild2015:
As a Lady like you I will be honest with you.
The very day you accepted to give him half of the money with interest , sister that very day was when the true picture of who really you are got to him. Don't get me wrong, there is no crime in borrowing him such amount, but you should have not had requested for interest in return. Let assume the table was turn, how will you feel if he ask you to pay interest for every cash he borrow you? This is someone you plan spending the rest of your life with oh, not just any body that approach you to borrow them some amount.

I also think you should be patient with him. Everything is not by gra gra. Cold down and make finding on what is affecting him which he kept alway from you.

Immee:
Hello fellow nairalanders, pls advise needed on this issue.

My bf and I have been together for a while now and planning on having our marriage introduction by November and marriage proper early next year.

Im an independent woman with a gud job. As a matter of fact, ive never made any financial request from this guy though he buys gift for me without requesting. He is doing well financially too, he runs a recycling factory while I work with a manufacturing company.

Things are working well between us since the relationship started untill recently when we had some business deals together ( my opinion though) cos I don't understand him anymore. He was broke at that time and needed to get some materials which he never budgeted for. He requested that I invest in his company by paying for those materials since they're coming cheap and he doesn't have enough to get them at that time and wouldn't want to loose the opportunity. I consented to the idea cos I knew he's business was very lucrative and that I'll get my money back with interest. He promised to be paying me a weekly dividend so I thought of giving 1 million naira. I made an instant transfer of 500k to his account as dts the maximum I can do daily without a token and I wasn't with it then.

The 2nd day dt I was suppose to send the remaining money, some issues occurred in his company in my presence. He had some major issues with some of the equipments in his factory. He had to stop productions for some days. So i with held the balance as it wont be neccesary since there was no production.While repairs were ongoing? I had to liase with some of my junior colleagues at work who are engineers to help my bf cos I found out he's engineer's aren't capable of handling the situation as dts the first time he would experience such. As God will have it operations started back in few days with the support of my engineers.

My concern now is since things went back to normal in my bf compan' he's yet to keep to his promise of the weekly dividend he said I would be receiving from the investment. As a matter of fact , things has changed between us cos he no longer call and hardly pick my calls. I communicate with him mostly thru SMS now since he wouldn't pick my calls. I'd sent messages to him to return my money without interest and he has promised to pay back with no time and date of when he's going to pay back. I even had plans of going to his place today since im off work so as to force him to go to the bank with him so DT I can get my money but he left the house early in the morning with excuses that he has a place to go and would return to my place after leaving there.

Pls guys how best can I get this money back from him cos I know he has it but playing pranks on me. I don't mind loosing my relationship with him as I don't trust him any longer.

nkwuocha:


A roadside meat seller is also his own CEO. There's no pride here.Don't get it twisted. Everyone is still a hustler.

The lady messed up big time,my opinion at least. As a man,I don't ask women for money,those are my rules.If I want to take loans,I do it corporately or I ask other acquaintance.