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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by muller101(m): 3:56pm On Oct 04, 2017
Cohabitation palava. Now put am belle for real. Savvy
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:57pm On Oct 04, 2017
Pynkylypz:
Hmm!
Lol... You Changed It...

Well, i Could If You Let Me...
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 3:59pm On Oct 04, 2017
DeadRat:
Lol... You Changed It...


Well, i Could If You Let Me...
Yes, i just have to change it.. You could what?
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:01pm On Oct 04, 2017
Pynkylypz:
Yes, i just have to change it.. You could what?
am Just Responding To Your Latest Signature
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by nuelzz04(m): 4:01pm On Oct 04, 2017
Let me add a new twist.. ....what if she is pregnant for someone else grin

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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:03pm On Oct 04, 2017
DeadRat:
am Just Responding To Your Latest Signature
Ohh!! Okay
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:06pm On Oct 04, 2017
Pynkylypz:
Ohh!! Okay
is Your Email Alive
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
babyBB:
guy u get sense

i want to say something bad but i just checked ur profile embarassed
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by izaray(f): 4:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:



chai girl from poor generation spotted, choi lipsrsealed
What is the meaning of that pls
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:08pm On Oct 04, 2017
DeadRat:
is Your Email Alive
Yes
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:09pm On Oct 04, 2017
izaray:
What is the meaning of that pls

girl that praised guy allowing their gf living with dem lipsrsealed
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:10pm On Oct 04, 2017
Pynkylypz:
Yes
hmmm
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:12pm On Oct 04, 2017
DeadRat:
hmmm
Okay
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by izaray(f): 4:16pm On Oct 04, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


girl that praised guy allowing their gf living with dem lipsrsealed
Pls go back and read my post over again..Cos i can't remembered encouraing such habit my dear. I only laughed over it, seeing a girl that accepted staying with a guy who is not married to her yet, and may end up dumping her for another girl tomorow.
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:20pm On Oct 04, 2017
izaray:
Pls go back and read my post over again..Cos i can't remembered encouraing such habit my dear. I only laughed over it, seeing a girl that accepted staying with a guy who is not married to her yet, and may end up dumping her for another girl tomorow.

gods actually saved u from my wages of e-war tongue tongue
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by izaray(f): 4:23pm On Oct 04, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


gods actually saved u from my wages of e-war tongue tongue
Safe me from ur e-war Guy you no fit try am undecided you no even reach grincheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 4:30pm On Oct 04, 2017
izaray:
Safe me from ur e-war Guy you no fit try am undecided you no even reach grincheesy cheesy cheesy

is dis not d girl 4fm nasarawa fed poly lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 4:59pm On Oct 04, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:

is dis not d girl 4fm nasarawa fed poly lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed

........& WE ARE BACK!!!
Guess What Nairalanders!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 5:01pm On Oct 04, 2017
What happened?
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by babyBB: 5:08pm On Oct 04, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


i want to say something bad but i just checked ur profile embarassed
wat about my profile?
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by pocohantas(f): 5:09pm On Oct 04, 2017
izaray:
Pls go back and read my post over again..Cos i can't remembered encouraing such habit my dear. I only laughed over it, seeing a girl that accepted staying with a guy who is not married to her yet, and may end up dumping her for another girl tomorow.

ACCEPTED STAYING WITH A GUY WHO IS NOT MARRIED TO HER YET AND MAY END UP DUMPING HER FOR ANOTHER GIRL TOMORROW?

Women and sentiments...
Makes it sound like the guy forced her to come stay with him. From the angle I am viewing the story, the girl is the one gaining.
Free accommodation, free feeding, she saves her N19800, gets extra from OP and maybe her parents.

I won't be surprised if OP is the one that gets dumped after NYSC.

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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by NeeKlaus: 5:21pm On Oct 04, 2017
GRAMMARJAMES:



........& WE ARE BACK!!!

Guess What Nairalanders!!!
Oga, stop telling us to guess. Are we playing games here? Break the news if you want to 'break' it na. undecided

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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by kellycute(m): 5:28pm On Oct 04, 2017
Nor mind op
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Nobody: 5:31pm On Oct 04, 2017
pocohantas:


ACEPTED STAYING WITH A GUY WHO IS NOT MARRIED TO HER YET AND MAY END UP DUMPING HER FOR ANOTHER GIRL TOMORROW?

Women and sentiments...
Makes it sound like the guy forced her to come stay with him. From the angle I am viewing the story, the girl is the one gaining.
Free accommodation, free feeding, she saves her N19800, gets extra from OP and maybe her parents.

I won't be surprised if OP is the one that gets dumped after NYSC.

a bit wife material spotted undecided undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GOFRONT(m): 5:36pm On Oct 04, 2017
The number of months of pregnancy determines the Amoint u wil pay to Abort it......How True abeg??
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by nwakibe: 6:07pm On Oct 04, 2017
That's how my gal told me that she is pregnant and I congratulated her. She called back and told me she was only joking with me. I come dey vex.
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 6:14pm On Oct 04, 2017
...AND WE WERE BOTH INSIDE BUS HEADING TOWARDS D HOSPITAL, SHE ASKED "Wch hospital are we going" ., AND I TOLD HER "........ SPECIALIST HOSPITAL..
WHEN WE GOT THERE, I TOLD D DOCTOR WR WANNA DO A PREGNANCY TEST! D DOC. LOOKED AT ME FURIOUSLY ASKING IF A GUY GOT PREGNANT TOO!. I SMILED AT HIM AND SAID ITS MY GF, NOT ME.
THE DOC GAVE HER A SMALL CONTAINER TO USE THE CONVENIENCE AND BRING A SMALL SAMPLE OF HER URINE!!
ON BRINGING IT, HE TOLD US TO WAIT DOWNSTAIRS.
AFTER 28/30 MINUTES OF WAITING, HE CALLED BOYH OF US IN AND HANDED OVER THE RESULTS TO US!!

FELLAS!!
"non-detective" -ve "" was what was on the form given!!

she's Pregnancy Negative .
what baffled me was that she didn't show any sign of Joy or excitement., she didn't feel shocked or "una know na" dat excitement wen u find out u are hiv negative"" she just said okay and that's all..

SHE ASKED THE DOCTOR WHY SHE HASN'T SEEN HER PERIOD, I DIDN'T HEAR D DOC RESPONSE AS I LEFT THERE.

I GAVE HER TP to go home, I wanna deliver a parcel in town.

I Boarded a cab and went straight to that former hospital she claimed she did the test!!

BEFORE THEN, I WAS ABLE TO PICK HER HOSPITAL CARD WITH THE HOSPITAL.
on getting there, I went straight to where they issue card and hand over the card to d lady there, I told her "MY SISTER WAS HERE ON MONDAY FOR PREGNANCY TEST, SHES TOO WEAK TO COME SO SHE TOLD ME TO COME ON HER BEHALF, d lady answered OK and brought out her files . she glanced through it and she told me MY SISTER DIDN'T COME ON MONDAY AS I SAID. SHE SAID D CARD WAS USED ONLY ONCE "Wch I'm aware of * she said no pregnancy test was conducted on that file. I told the nurse thanks that maybe we'll come together, dis nurse even went as far as checking their incoming and outgoing register from last month till date, nothing of her name.

MY DEAR NAIRALANDERS, WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO TO HER ON GETTING HOME PLEASE.
advice needed!!

But come to think of it o, this girl will call me honey, she gives me *pusss*y anytime and any day, she cook good food, treat me like a king, although, she has her nagging attitude but best thing I do when she starts nagging is, I just walk out of her. but why would she lie. ?
I'm still confused about everything coz I thought I've found someone who truly loves me and I love her also,
pls fellas, why would she lie this kinda expensive lie,

thank you

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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Heebah: 7:19pm On Oct 04, 2017
GRAMMARJAMES:
...AND WE WERE BOTH INSIDE BUS HEADING TOWARDS D HOSPITAL, SHE ASKED "Wch hospital are we going" ., AND I TOLD HER "........ SPECIALIST HOSPITAL..
WHEN WE GOT THERE, I TOLD D DOCTOR WR WANNA DO A PREGNANCY TEST! D DOC. LOOKED AT ME FURIOUSLY ASKING IF A GUY GOT PREGNANT TOO!. I SMILED AT HIM AND SAID ITS MY GF, NOT ME.
THE DOC GAVE HER A SMALL CONTAINER TO USE THE CONVENIENCE AND BRING A SMALL SAMPLE OF HER URINE!!
ON BRINGING IT, HE TOLD US TO WAIT DOWNSTAIRS.
AFTER 28/30 MINUTES OF WAITING, HE CALLED BOYH OF US IN AND HANDED OVER THE RESULTS TO US!!

FELLAS!!
"non-detective" -ve "" was what was on the form given!!

she's Pregnancy Negative .
what baffled me was that she didn't show any sign of Joy or excitement., she didn't feel shocked or "una know na" dat excitement wen u find out u are hiv negative"" she just said okay and that's all..

SHE ASKED THE DOCTOR WHY SHE HASN'T SEEN HER PERIOD, I DIDN'T HEAR D DOC RESPONSE AS I LEFT THERE.

I GAVE HER TP to go home, I wanna deliver a parcel in town.

I Boarded a cab and went straight to that former hospital she claimed she did the test!!

BEFORE THEN, I WAS ABLE TO PICK HER HOSPITAL CARD WITH THE HOSPITAL.
on getting there, I went straight to where they issue card and hand over the card to d lady there, I told her "MY SISTER WAS HERE ON MONDAY FOR PREGNANCY TEST, SHES TOO WEAK TO COME SO SHE TOLD ME TO COME ON HER BEHALF, d lady answered OK and brought out her files . she glanced through it and she told me MY SISTER DIDN'T COME ON MONDAY AS I SAID. SHE SAID D CARD WAS USED ONLY ONCE "Wch I'm aware of * she said no pregnancy test was conducted on that file. I told the nurse thanks that maybe we'll come together, dis nurse even went as far as checking their incoming and outgoing register from last month till date, nothing of her name.

MY DEAR NAIRALANDERS, WHAT DO YOU THINK I SHOULD DO TO HER ON GETTING HOME PLEASE.
advice needed!!

But come to think of it o, this girl will call me honey, she gives me *pusss*y anytime and any day, she cook good food, treat me like a king, although, she has her nagging attitude but best thing I do when she starts nagging is, I just walk out of her. but why would she lie. ?
I'm still confused about everything coz I thought I've found someone who truly loves me and I love her also,
pls fellas, why would she lie this kinda expensive lie,

thank you
Just be thanking ur stars op! This lady is not a wife material,she can even do worse as time goes on. End the relationship now dat d ball is in ur court cos if u don't,hmm....OYO is ur name o.

She is not worth it,forget all d loving loving wey she dey do,she is a great pretender and will give u d shock of ur life wen u least expect it. A word is enough for the wise
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Venica(f): 7:27pm On Oct 04, 2017
GRAMMARJAMES:


Good Advice Bruh, but my fear is what if she's actually Pregnant! you need to see how she's shedding tears!! making calls to friend that she needs Money!!

what I really don't understand is please for those who has done pregnancy test before, is it possible to do test without being giving results?

the girl is not telling the truth. how can you do a test without result ? just buy a pregnant strip . it very easy and accurate. it can detact a week old pregnancy . do the test yourself. dip the test strip into her urine . within 5mins you will have the truth .
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by GRAMMARJAMES(m): 4:43am On Oct 05, 2017
Heebah:
Just be thanking ur stars op! This lady is not a wife material,she can even do worse as time goes on. End the relationship now dat d ball is in ur court cos if u don't,hmm....OYO is ur name o.

She is not worth it,forget all d loving loving wey she dey do,she is a great pretender and will give u d shock of ur life wen u least expect it. A word is enough for the wise


Thanks alot!!

I got home, still haven't said anything yet, she's not comfortable, guilty conscience is not making her to be comfortable.
I'm waiting for the perfect time before breaking the News to her.
my decision, : IM LETTING HER GO FOR REAL!! THE RELATIONSHIP IS OVER!!!

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Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by NickD(m): 5:15am On Oct 05, 2017
GRAMMARJAMES:


Good Advice Bruh, but my fear is what if she's actually Pregnant! you need to see how she's shedding tears!! making calls to friend that she needs Money!!

what I really don't understand is please for those who has done pregnancy test before, is it possible to do test without being giving results?
Seriously are u that d*mb? Who does a test without getting a result? U are living with a scammer and trust me when she finds another mugu she'll leave u. People have told u what to do yet ur asking irritating questions. Where are u from? Please this is 2017 stop acting naive. She knows ur gullible and that's y she's pulling a fast one on u...Cry me a river.
Re: My Girlfriend Lied To Me About Being Pregnant. Advice Needed Please!!!! by Yampotatocarrot(m): 5:25am On Oct 05, 2017
pocohantas:
Oldest trick in the book. The best way to counter this trick is to jump up in joy, tell her you can't wait to be a father grin... It's guys like you that are scared of taking that step, them dey use chop.
Most of you men fall into that category.

A simple home PT,can solve this. If the sex occurred on her ovulation day and she took postinor2 after that, there is still a very high chance of pregnancy. Though I know issa scam.



...You're both salary earners, you spend on her to the point you become broke and complain? When will you guys have sense?

What is her responsibility? Cooking and fecking you lipsrsealed?
You're not her husband, she isn't your wife. You both are not even financially compatible. If you marry her, don't come and start disturbing us for advice.
undecided

It's absurd n odd seeing a lady talk this way...

But it's true sha

So lemme ask ur opinion on this, z church wedding compulsory for ladies? Can't a lady just do a *big* trad n forget bout d church thingy?

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