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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by sweetilicious(f): 12:56am On Oct 05, 2017
samx4real:
Dear ladies,
Men are NOT financially responsible for you!
You’ve got 24hours of the day, just like the men do. The men are not allocated more hours in a day to make money.
You are not incapacitated. You are not brain dead.
Stop feeling entitled to the money of other adults simply because you’ve got a vagina.
The only understandable way your vagina can fetch you money is if you are a sex worker.
Stop asking your boyfriends for things that your fathers can’t afford to give you.
If you need anything as an adult, work hard and smart for that thing.
No one owes you birthday and Christmas gifts.
You do NOT ask for gifts. Gifts are WILLINGLY given by the givers.
You are an adult human, not an ornament.
Stop feeling entitled to the sweats of others.
After the age of 18, NO MAN owes you shit, not even your father, and definitely not your boyfriend. Whatever you get from them are PRIVILEGES. Stop mistaking privileges for rights.
Stop putting needless pressures on men to fund your lifestyle.
If you want to live a certain lifestyle, WORK TO EARN IT!
Don’t pick up a class you clearly can’t afford at the expense of others.
To live a baby girl lifestyle and sustain it, you must earn your own case.
Nothing stops you from making as much money as that man you are asking to give you money does.
PS: This post is for single women. A husband owes the wife “everything”. Men cohabiting in civil partnership also owe their partners a lot.
This mentality made me

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Mcslize: 6:10am On Oct 05, 2017
IamRaizo:
She must be really naive to have been played like a piano for so long... This indicates she lacks MATURITY!

A mature person should be able to code and de-code.

But the way the guy dress is a killer hence unable to code. Even in Nigeria here do girls not judge you by what you put on? Just dress fine with no one single one naira on your pocket they will automatically see you as Bill Gait isn't that awesome?

Another thing I noticed again is that ladies are more receptive to listen to a guy when he dress well.

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by nwigwemark: 6:54am On Oct 05, 2017
I am sure it was not only money he took from you, so who will pay for the one you guys did in the other room? good for you
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by elly4(f): 8:16am On Oct 05, 2017
he acted and talked rich and u still spent your money . abeg sister how did it happen? take heart grin grin
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Kobicove(m): 8:43am On Oct 05, 2017
You got what you deserved... undecided
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Luckki1001(m): 8:47am On Oct 05, 2017
samx4real:
Dear ladies,
Men are NOT financially responsible for you!
You’ve got 24hours of the day, just like the men do. The men are not allocated more hours in a day to make money.
You are not incapacitated. You are not brain dead.
Stop feeling entitled to the money of other adults simply because you’ve got a vagina.
The only understandable way your vagina can fetch you money is if you are a sex worker.
Stop asking your boyfriends for things that your fathers can’t afford to give you.
If you need anything as an adult, work hard and smart for that thing.
No one owes you birthday and Christmas gifts.
You do NOT ask for gifts. Gifts are WILLINGLY given by the givers.
You are an adult human, not an ornament.
Stop feeling entitled to the sweats of others.
After the age of 18, NO MAN owes you shit, not even your father, and definitely not your boyfriend. Whatever you get from them are PRIVILEGES. Stop mistaking privileges for rights.
Stop putting needless pressures on men to fund your lifestyle.
If you want to live a certain lifestyle, WORK TO EARN IT!
Don’t pick up a class you clearly can’t afford at the expense of others.
To live a baby girl lifestyle and sustain it, you must earn your own case.
Nothing stops you from making as much money as that man you are asking to give you money does.
PS: This post is for single women. A husband owes the wife “everything”. Men cohabiting in civil partnership also owe their partners a lot.

Well said, bro. Well said.

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Nobody: 9:15am On Oct 05, 2017
Mcslize:


But the way the guy dress is a killer hence unable to code. Even in Nigeria here do girls not judge you by what you put on? Just dress fine with no one single one naira on your pocket they will automatically see you as Bill Gait isn't that awesome?

Another thing I noticed again is that ladies are more receptive to listen to a guy when he dress well.
bro, a full grown lady who couldn't de-code a guy's deceptive ways for 3 months with glaring obvious reasons is a immature... Haba bro, 3 whole months she paid bills on their dates, not sure a 9ja babe would be used this long before de-coding bro.
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by KwashB419: 9:55am On Oct 05, 2017
she didnt tell the whole story....

did d nigga chop ur puna??
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by RillJ(m): 10:31am On Oct 05, 2017
'Investment' gone wrong.
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by mrwonlasewonie: 11:09am On Oct 05, 2017
samx4real:
Dear ladies,
Men are NOT financially responsible for you!
You’ve got 24hours of the day, just like the men do. The men are not allocated more hours in a day to make money.
You are not incapacitated. You are not brain dead.
Stop feeling entitled to the money of other adults simply because you’ve got a vagina.
The only understandable way your vagina can fetch you money is if you are a sex worker.
Stop asking your boyfriends for things that your fathers can’t afford to give you.
If you need anything as an adult, work hard and smart for that thing.
No one owes you birthday and Christmas gifts.
You do NOT ask for gifts. Gifts are WILLINGLY given by the givers.
You are an adult human, not an ornament.
Stop feeling entitled to the sweats of others.
After the age of 18, NO MAN owes you shit, not even your father, and definitely not your boyfriend. Whatever you get from them are PRIVILEGES. Stop mistaking privileges for rights.
Stop putting needless pressures on men to fund your lifestyle.
If you want to live a certain lifestyle, WORK TO EARN IT!
Don’t pick up a class you clearly can’t afford at the expense of others.
To live a baby girl lifestyle and sustain it, you must earn your own case.
Nothing stops you from making as much money as that man you are asking to give you money does.
PS: This post is for single women. A husband owes the wife “everything”. Men cohabiting in civil partnership also owe their partners a lot.
take ONE bottle of cold Guinness and asun
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by mrwonlasewonie: 11:14am On Oct 05, 2017
IamRaizo:
bro, a full grown lady who couldn't de-code a guy's deceptive ways for 3 months with glaring obvious reasons is a immature... Haba bro, 3 whole months she paid bills on their dates, not sure a 9ja babe would be used this long before de-coding bro.
this scamming technique are for small ladies of 16 to 24.a full grown adult woman of 25 upwards still falling into this kind of tricks after 1week deserves a slap
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Nobody: 11:17am On Oct 05, 2017
mrwonlasewonie:
this scamming technique are for small ladies of 16 to 24.a full grown adult woman of 25 upwards still falling into this kind of tricks after 1week deserves a slap
may God bless you with unending wisdom bro.

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by mrwonlasewonie: 12:21pm On Oct 05, 2017
IamRaizo:
may God bless you with unending wisdom bro.
all these tricks are for smallies still living in fantasy island.a man who claims he's all that shouldn't be collecting money from you.your number 6 should have given you red alert but women are always drawn by the list of the flesh and the pride of life hence always being a victim to the wiles of men

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by mrwonlasewonie: 12:24pm On Oct 05, 2017
Bobbybube:

Hahaha. I'm telling you bro. The good ones really suffer cos of the slay mamas. Who knows how many times that particular lady has 'chop and clean mouth' on top of other guys. Now claiming she has been duped.
Smh for all "free to air ladies"
any lady that cannot earn whatever she wants with her sweat but be commercializing her v@gyna will always be a victim of life and men's ploys
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by mrwonlasewonie: 12:30pm On Oct 05, 2017
IamRaizo:
bro, a full grown lady who couldn't de-code a guy's deceptive ways for 3 months with glaring obvious reasons is a immature... Haba bro, 3 whole months she paid bills on their dates, not sure a 9ja babe would be used this long before de-coding bro.
this is the gimmicks of poor/broke undergraduate boys trying to scam daughter of a rich man who is also an undergraduate school girl.this trick is so 1995 cheesy

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by Nobody: 8:44am On Oct 06, 2017
Arsenalholic:
To teach ladies who have the knack of scrambling after material things a lesson.

Still, to what end?
Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by samx4real(m): 6:44pm On Oct 06, 2017
cheesy
mrwonlasewonie:
take ONE bottle of cold Guinness and asun

grin
mrwonlasewonie:
take ONE bottle of cold Guinness and asun

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Re: South African Lady Calls Out Guy Who Scammed Her In Guise Of Dating Her by pally123: 9:03am On Oct 07, 2017
I'm surprised she didn't mention the numerous rounds of.......that went with it

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