And u forgot to tell us ur own fault, u dint know he has metal disorder before u got married to him.....this is the moment u notice a wife that has no respect to her husband. So is media that will solve ur family problem? And u so forget that another man poison is another man...... Dey dia dey add more fuel

The unfortunate thing is that this guy can walk his way back and still fucck this same woman. I have no confidence in the ability of women to reason well. Today, after insulting Tiwa's mum, Teebillz is still giving Tiwa the D.

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

Seems you are from Delta State

agbonkamen:
Nawao

The thing scare you right?

omooba969:


The thing scare you right?

I swear... Life get as e be..... They must had earlier prfes undying love for each other during shoulder rest style

soberdrunk:
Hell hath no fury like a woman scorned, i dont know why some ladies just like to slander their former lovers, if it doesn't work why dont you just move on jejely?

I taya o...

agbonkamen:
I swear... Life get as e be..... They must had earlier prfes undying love for each other during shoulder rest style

Such is life.

It's a pity TRUE LOVE has been thrown to the dogs.

In conclusion, a man is a fool, a wife beater, an idiot WHEN HE DOES NOT HAVE MONEY... according to ladies

Koolking:
Girls should stop being stereotypical. For the fact that it didn't work for you, does not mean it won't work for the next person.

Look inward and see why it didn't work for you and reshape your thoughts and attitudes. We are what we attract

That is to say...

D husband go beat u tripple today again for dat post...wafeku laleyi

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

same way we have gold diggers as males likewise we have the females....

if that the only advise...your pastor have you...in knowing marriageable men....then i think you need to complete your marriage lesson with him....

they're many shameless men....good in giving out gifts and money to their wives...but a serious womanizer...
I read one...on a relationship page on Facebook sometime ago...even goes to the extent of inflicting his wife wit std

so dear.....some who end up wit gold diggers are the greedy folks.

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

What is ur message to independent MENS ?

pweetiedee:


the guy doesn't av money na.

did u read the story.

It's clear you believe anything.

EgunMogaji:


Confirm.

When she was hanging leg for burglary, I dey there?

Explain sir...

U opened ur useless legs for him .he even scored a goal now u are ranting. See 5tupidity

pocohantas:
How did she miss all that during courtship?
Narcissism is pretty difficult to conceal.

Perhaps she was drunk in love which they say is blind.
I am sure these days, love now have 1 terabyte mega pixel camera

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

That ur pastor is a clown

Funkybabee:
I can't blame him, cuz you ladies are the main problems......forcing yourself on him because he is handsome,u wanna join married women gang quickly !!!showing up and down doing useless shakara wedding whereas you AR the bread winner of the family



Just don't know if some women can't stay single if they don't find their soulmate cuz doing all these because u want to be called Mrs dey baffle me. ooooo

Let's pick our wedding date babe.

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

I pray the ladies of these days hear you..
Ladies if you're the one doing the spending in your relationship, there is something wrong. Ask responsible guys who know their Worth as men and they'd tell you.
Stop listening to some of these nairaland guys who need you only as financial cushion!

Humility017:


same way we have gold diggers as males likewise we have the females....

if that the only advise...your pastor have you...in knowing marriageable men....then i think you need to complete your marriage lesson with him....

they're many shameless men....good in giving out gifts and money to their wives...but a serious womanizer...
I read one...on a relationship page on Facebook sometime ago...even goes to the extent of inflicting his wife wit std

so dear.....some who end up wit gold diggers are the greedy folks.

No. There was a reason he gave the advice. Every other thing was okay, unless that part where he needed to give the advice.

liquidsnake:


There was a case of a woman who accused her boyfriend of "rape." The so-called rape got her pregnant. The boyfriend was imprisoned for 17 years. They were teenagers then. But the thing was, she lied. The daughter, the result of the "rape", forced her mother to reveal who her father was, forced her to a talk show were the mother was asked to take a lie detector test. In the end it was revealed that she falsely accused her then boyfriend of rape to punish him for getting her pregnant, and not having money to take care of her. Because of that talk show episode the man was released from jail after 17 years. She was brought back to face the man in the follow up episode but she only cried. Not even the dignity to apologise. A lot of women from the audience came down to hug the man. The daughter also left with her father.

I watched this in 2015. Can't remember the name of the show. But it was shown on Sony Max. The host was a black woman who beat a breast cancer illness.

Some women are pathological liars...so pathetic.

400billionman:


Explain sir...

It’s an analogy.

Good looking Nigerian women and ugly men are like...well, unfathomably common sight, why?

kennygee:
Ah. Water haff pass garri.

This is for the independent women out there who work, pay their bills and don't wait for a man to do it for you. Just cause you're independent doesn't mean you should be a fooool. My pastor gave me an advice this year, He said and I quote, "any man you're dating who has never bought you a gift or taken you out on a date is not marriageable".

His reason is, if he can't spend money on you during courtship, then you're up for Africa Magic after your wedding.

That's how my Engineer aunt married a man who lied to her about being a contractor, na she dey finance the marriage till today. Even after the man finally had a source of income, na him extended family e dey use for.

If you're an unmarried Lady, shine your eyes, being independent doesn't equal being an ozuo.

Many men are looking for independent women so they will dodge their own responsibilities as providers.

What you just opined is also applicable to women. Both sexes needed to be responsible and reason with our expectations

mrphysics:

Perhaps she was drunk in love which they say is blind.
I am sure these days, love now have 1 terabyte mega pixel camera

Sometimes ladies are obsessed with the idea of changing a bad guy, like they are one psychiatrist ...

pocohantas:
How did she miss all that during courtship?
Narcissism is pretty difficult to conceal.

You believe her ?

Incrizz:


I pray the ladies of these days hear you..
Ladies if you're the one doing the spending in your relationship, there is something wrong. Ask responsible guys who know their Worth as men and they'd tell you.
Stop listening to some of these nairaland guys who need you only as financial cushion!

I SMH for you lazy ladies, what's wrong with the wife being a financial cushion? Your false sense of entitlement makes y'all think the man must do everything forgetting that he's got other commitments such as his extended family & wife's immediate family.

When it comes to equal rights, you ladies show up masturbating & shaking yansh everywhere but for equal responsibility you will start foaming in ya mouth.

Nonsense.

dinma007:
A Nigerian lady, Lyrnda Onwunali has called out her estranged husband, Okpoebo Chidozie for beating her up while she was pregnant, stabbed her cousin and also threatened to take his own life.


According to her, he is a gold digger who goes after ladies from rich home. She also warned ladies to stay away from him. See her now deleted post below…

http://www.lailasblog.com/nigerian-lady-calls-out-her-estranged-husband-warns-ladies-about-him/

I thought she wanted to say something reasonable. When she was enjoying other guys money and feeling like a slay queen with pu*sy not knowing that she will reap it one day when another guy will do same to her.
The question is, can't she spend on a guy? Guys shouldn't be the only people spending, at least he gave her sex.
I am not happy that she didn't buy the land in the guy's name, she needs to settle the guy.

pocohantas:


Sometimes ladies are obsessed with the idea of changing a bad guy, like they are one psychiatrist ...

The bad guys are the lucky ones in relationships. They do anyhow and they always get away with everything. Only on rare occasions do things go south.

While the good ones are always complaining of one thing or the other. Being marginalized like they are ..........

Ladies are psychiatrists in some way. I am sure you will agree

Chai...the first sentence just got me ...Nne, only one man get all that abuse

kennygee:


No. There was a reason he gave the advice. Every other thing was okay, unless that part where he needed to give the advice.

I just pray you and other ladies who heard that advice yield to it wit moderation otherwise.....using the yardstick of gifts and money from men to know men who are marriageable will only place many in ditches...

Good men are not know by wealth I material possession but by the content of their character