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Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:33pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
This is just like saying because the maid cooks,cleans and takes Care of the kids,she is the Woman of the house. 4 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by lilmax(m): 10:33pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Daeylar:this is it 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Jsaviour(f): 10:34pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Flame4chi: Let me quote it for you so you know it should actaully be used in this scenario. King James Version But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. Note the words He and his |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Jsaviour(f): 10:37pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez: Remember the trend " a wife that cannot cook, is that one a wife"? Shouldn't same apply to the man 4 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Nobody: 10:37pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Gustavo404:Thanks for the open cheque offer but I think I'll pass. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by delishpot: 10:38pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
mmsen: What protection can a bully give? Rather the wife would need protection from his abuse. 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:39pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Daeylar:Well said, thank you. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by offshoreking: 10:39pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
These are the reason why some ladies are going astray because of this nonsense. Bet me all the people here talking trash can do anything to answer mans name, they will come online to deceive the others. Let me answer your question. Is only when the table turn around, you can go to mans family and ask your man family for his hand in marriage then you can talk of been the head of union. As far as is the man that got married to you, you will remain under him till una separate, man is the head of every family irrespective of the situation. 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by delishpot: 10:41pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Flame4chi: Bible said a man not anyone. If your Bible says anyone then it has been edited. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:42pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
JeffreyJamez:We are talking about married couples, the maid is only doing her job as she is instructed and will get her monthly salary or wages. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by victorioushands: 10:42pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Children of Bellial. Why not ask if the man can become pregnant since the wife is barren? The love of money is the root of all evil. A woman cannot be the head of the home even if the man is deaf, dumb, blind, crippled and poor, and not even if she is the one feeding his entire generation. Marriage is a spiritual thing, your carnality is no excuse. And, in marriage, MAN IS THE HEAD. You can give any other excuse from here to thy kingdom come, you would be kicking against the goad. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:43pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
adepeter2027:I tire my brother. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Olaniyi4(m): 10:44pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Do u give the role of the head to the neck just because head dey ache?? |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:45pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Jsaviour:Lol, I also asked same question, double standard syndrome is really affecting Africans. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:47pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
femolii:Women might come from your tiny ribs but not from my ribs, this is degrading to the women folks. And religious women sucked this myth up. 2 Likes |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Daeylar(f): 10:49pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Jsaviour: How can he remember such? They only remember as it benefits them everything else is forgotten, If a woman is not submissive as is commanded in their bible, they would start foaming at the mouth and use the bible to preach,, but the same bible that says that if a man cannot provide for his household he is worse than an infidel they overlook it. It's not important 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Jsaviour(f): 10:51pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Being the breadwinner doesn't make one any head or tail neither do I think there should be anything like head or tail. A man and a woman deserve respect and love from each other. Man cordinates the home, the woman keeps the home and things move smoothly. But when one start lording over the other or start expecting more than what he or she is giving in the home then the person needs his or her head to be thoroughly examined. One should be contributing to the positive growth of a home before he or she can expect any responsibility from the other. Not for someone here to say even if the man is a drunkard or whatever, he is still the head. Is that what the religion, tradition or logical sense or whatever you believe taught you?. Do what works for you and you are good to go 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Nobody: 10:51pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 10:53pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Mrkumareze:Marriage by court is neutral. It is not a must one marry by religion or tradition, you can simply go to the court and make it legal. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by loswhite(m): 10:54pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
tintingz:is it deductive or inductive? |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by kenodrill: 10:54pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
alexialin:Nice one dear.... How I wish I can 've ur kind of woman. 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Jsaviour(f): 10:55pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
tintingz: I dey tell you, high level of double standard. Talk this nonsense close to my brothers and they will kick you out. I love the men my parents trained, they believe in equal respect and right for all- man or woman Which kind yeye rib, head, tail and bombom. Nonsense and ingredients 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Ediomo12(m): 10:57pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
It doesn't matter how poor the husband may be...... But what i know is that, A one wrip cannot control one hundred wrips |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Jsaviour(f): 10:58pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Olaniyi4: Can I know what makes one the head please? |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Paulosky1900: 10:58pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
alexialin: BABE YOUR TYPE IS RARE,cant believe a female wrote this.....I CLAIM YOUR KIND OF GIRL AS MY FUTURE WIFE IN JESUS NAME AMEN!!!! 1 Like |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by zoeshalom(m): 11:02pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
tintingz:The op is as confused as his post. you are already in violation of your said rules, no religion or traditional based opinion, but you can use social stereotypes? |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 11:08pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Jsaviour:Lol, how can people believe a full grown woman with all the organism, cell, tissue in her body came out from a man's tiny ribs still baffles me and I believed in this myths for years. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Daeylar(f): 11:10pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
tintingz: |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by tintingz(m): 11:11pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
zoeshalom:No, wrong, I said don't use your religious and traditional opinion as the ultimate answer to this. Don't misquote me. Where did I use social stereotype? Just make it neutral. |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by firmphem: 11:11pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
Okay noted. Next person pls. alexialin: |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by ziga: 11:14pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
It seems like in Naija breadwinner is a synonym for man. Lol |
Re: Does The Wife Earn The Position Of Head Of The House If She's The Breadwinner? by Nobody: 11:14pm On Oct 10, 2017 |
tintingz: No the man is still the head of the home and respected as such as I was taught I won’t change the dynamics of the home if we put God first. The important thing is he is still contributing to the home in other ways no one should be treated anyhow and hounded for not being able to provide either because poverty is never a choice. When you get married your supposed to drop The I for the We so that role switch shouldn’t happen but it does. In any home it’s best to not Rob anyone Of their personal peace and lord over them no one is perfect sure there will be days you’ll get mad but maturity is when you can admit your shortcomings and work through them |
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