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Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by WotzupNG: 10:16am On Oct 11
Legendary Nollywood Actor, Adebayo Salami popularly known as Oga Bello has given his advice concerning marriage.

In an interview with Broadway TV, the Yoruba Actor made it clear that one of the reasons why today's marriages hardly last up to 2 years is simply because of the importation of Western culture of equality.

He says we have thrown away our African culture and emulated the ways that are foreign to us. Below is what he said after he was asked if a man and his wife are equal.

''They are not. That's what I'm saying. We are throwing the African culture away. Our forefathers... you cannot claim that you are equal with your husband. It happens out there in the Western World. That's part of the emulation I'm talking about, which is wrong. African women are taught to bow to their husband; the husband too must respect the wife. Bow... do things for him, cook for him. Unlike there... you go to the restaurant to eat together. Even here, nowadays you see a husband will say ''let me take you out for lunch''. For what? Cook... let it be homemade.

Some people will get married, spend a lot of money and the marriage wont last 2 years. Some don't even last 6 months, because they claim they are equal... ''you are a graduate I'm a graduate''... and so? You must bow. But that's not to say you must take your wife as a slave. There must be respect for each other''.

Below are comments from Social Media fans concerning what he said.


https://www.wotzup.ng/oga-bello-african-culture-bow-husband/

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Jagermeister(m): 10:24am On Oct 11
In the end, it's just social media claptrap.

Practice all these or don't. It's still all a waste of time.

Marriage is all about conformity; becoming a complete fool for the other fellow. If this is impossible for you, don't get married.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by OKorowanta: 11:07am On Oct 11
If d woman like make she tall like okro wey dem assist grow wit 20 bags of manure, she must bow down.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by WotzupNG: 11:39am On Oct 11
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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Sixaxis: 1:38pm On Oct 11
Bow as in bow down low abi?

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by ToluSuo(m): 1:38pm On Oct 11
Hmm... yeye dey smell...

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by slimshadyl(m): 1:38pm On Oct 11
tell them if they wee hear

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Adaumunocha(f): 1:39pm On Oct 11
Well, its not possible not to bow to one's husband... If u catch ma meaning

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by quiverfull(m): 1:39pm On Oct 11
The major problem with our society is that we haven't learnt to evolve our traditions in line with the times. We must learn to adopt the "good" things from the Western culture into ours but retain the "good" part of ours.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by free2ryhme: 1:40pm On Oct 11
WotzupNG:
Legendary Nollywood Actor, Adebayo Salami popularly known as Oga Bello has given his advice concerning marriage.

In an interview with Broadway TV, the Yoruba Actor made it clear that one of the reasons why today's marriages hardly last up to 2 years is simply because of the importation of Western culture of equality.

He says we have thrown away our African culture and emulated the ways that are foreign to us. Below is what he said after he was asked if a man and his wife are equal.



Below are comments from Social Media fans concerning what he said.


https://www.wotzup.ng/oga-bello-african-culture-bow-husband/

mumu people must post

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Daeylar(f): 1:40pm On Oct 11
Nonsense.

Only thing reasonable there is where he spoke of mutual respect.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by jaksmillioniar: 1:40pm On Oct 11
Only a guy dat love his wife beat his wife u ask why beat her. if a woman got a man mad he might get angry and dump her but beating her show u love her and want her to change. is bad for a man to beat woman but sometimes is for the best

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by mrphysics(m): 1:40pm On Oct 11
They are coming for this man. Just look down and see them

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by LesbianBoy(m): 1:41pm On Oct 11
Oga bello let cococandy catch you!

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by SAMBARRY: 1:41pm On Oct 11
grin

Complete fool for the other Kwa? grin
Jagermeister:
In the end, it's just social media claptrap.

Practice all these or don't. It's still all a waste of time.

Marriage is all about conformity; becoming a complete fool for the other fellow. If this is impossible for you, don't get married.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by LesbianBoy(m): 1:41pm On Oct 11
Meanwhile......not just bowing down, she must open her legs whenever her man want to have sex whether she likes it or not lipsrsealed

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by DanielsParker: 1:41pm On Oct 11
tell them

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Alao96(m): 1:41pm On Oct 11
Make she dy bow for za other rooom grin
Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by dealslip(f): 1:42pm On Oct 11
Submit ye to one another - Ephesians 5:21

Women must bow to their husbands - African Forefathers.

Women must submit to their husband in totality - Islam

Men and women are equal in marriage - western world

So much views and opinions about marriage. Please choose the one that makes you feel happy and fulfilled. Combination of all this opinion is what brings about trouble in marriage. People want to be westernised, culturised and religious at the same time. The views are conflicting so don't expect your marriage to be without conflict if you add all this together as a recipe for your marriage. This also has to be settled before committing to marriage. You cant ask a woman to be wholly submissive if she still has to contribute to upkeep, that is fraud. You cant ask a man to help with the house chores, if he has to be the sole provider that is blackmail . You can't abuse your spouse and be expecting respect or submission in return, that is dumb. Choose the one that works for you and the partner that also agrees and his comfortable with your choice. Your happiness is the most important after all. Choose happiness

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Adaumunocha(f): 1:43pm On Oct 11
jaksmillioniar:
Only a guy dat love his wife beat his wife u ask why beat her. if a woman got a man mad he might get angry and dump her but beating her show u love her and want her to change. is bad for a man to beat woman but sometimes is for the best
If I kick you eh, beating shows u love a woman Jakandeola!!!
Many Niger men no sabi this thing called love sha

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by muller101(m): 1:44pm On Oct 11
jaksmillioniar:
Only a guy dat love his wife beat his wife u ask why beat her. if a woman got a man mad he might get angry and dump her but beating her show u love her and want her to change. is bad for a man to beat woman but sometimes is for the best
they will ban u again

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Uyi168(m): 1:44pm On Oct 11
More or less like a slave-master relationship

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Vanillaskin(f): 1:45pm On Oct 11
Laye angry

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by hazan041: 1:45pm On Oct 11
Adaumunocha:
Well, its not possible not to bow to one's husband... If u catch ma meaning


Abeg u go like doggy too much

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by buchilino(m): 1:45pm On Oct 11
Jagermeister:
In the end, it's just social media claptrap.

Practice all these or don't. It's still all a waste of time.

Marriage is all about conformity; becoming a complete fool for the other fellow. If this is impossible for you, don't get married.


IF DATS D WAY U VIEW MARRIAGE, THEN IT'S VERY UNFORTUNATE.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Nobody: 1:45pm On Oct 11
Adaumunocha:
Well, its not possible not to bow to one's husband... If u catch ma meaning
for Ur own life everything na sex

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by designer01(m): 1:45pm On Oct 11
Uyi168:
More or less like a slave-master relationship
Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by SAMBARRY: 1:45pm On Oct 11
mrphysics:
They are coming for this man. Just look down and see them
is he a pharoah or ooni? grin

Even olori wura walked out on a wholye kabiyesi so who is any regular man.make him Dey claim kabiyesi for his subjects.after ALL she had her business before she married ooni and was doing well for herself before the marriage

Marriage is do me I.do you,rub my back I rub yours.be useful to me,I be useful to you but you want to be forming alpha and omega in another human beings life that also has a brain like you without having any usefulness? grin


Buhahahahaah


Bow ko,rise ni grin

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by Opakan2: 1:45pm On Oct 11
You're still living in the past oga..

Go to developed countries and see how women live like gods.. Touch them and go to jail 6 months min.

Gone are the days of good women, now na femini.sts or what have you. women right activists

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by francis247(m): 1:45pm On Oct 11
Please help me tell them O. She must bow and worship him as her Lord and personal Savoir. This is 2017 not 1937.

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by hazan041: 1:47pm On Oct 11
jaksmillioniar:
Only a guy dat love his wife beat his wife u ask why beat her. if a woman got a man mad he might get angry and dump her but beating her show u love her and want her to change. is bad for a man to beat woman but sometimes is for the best

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Re: Adebayo Salami: You Must Bow To Your Husband Whether You Are A Graduate Or Not' by buchilino(m): 1:47pm On Oct 11
Uyi168:
More or less like a slave-master relationship

HAVE U EVER WONDERED Y GOD BLESSED SARAH D WIFE OF ABRAHAM.

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