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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 11:31pm On Oct 12
OluwaWonder:
It's bad cos if your parents were to be involved in homosexual would you have been born and if we as human being were to be homosexual God wouldnt have created adam and eve
The dumb line again. I can still remember how an old woman who had remained a virgin ALL HER LIFE was celebrated as a beacon of "virtue" on this same nairaland. Why didn't people like you apply this stupid line of argument to show that her celibate life is EVIL? After all, it has THE SAME CONSEQUENCES as homosexuality! If your mum had been like that, you won't be here either! Very pointless argument. All the Priests and Nuns must be evil. Isaac Newton must be an evil bastard deserving of the same punishment as homosexuals, since he also NEVER contributed to procreation.

If my dad were gay, I probably won't be here! So, I won't even know. If his dad had been gay, he also wouldn't be here to read your post either! The same way YOU probably wouldn't be here if THAT sperm hadn't fertilized THAT egg.

Come up with a reasonable argument against homosexuality.

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 11:38pm On Oct 12
IamaNigerianGuy:


Exactly. Upon the corruption, cultism, killing, looting, poor infrstructure and other evils in Nigeria we now wish to add lesbianism and homosexuality; yet some people are spewing trash about 'consenting adults'.
You know what? I want you to tell me what exactly is EVIL about homosexuality. I don't quite understand. Do you mind explaining? I might learn something from you.
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by jaksmillioniar: 11:49pm On Oct 12
ToZaraWithaZ:
You know what? I want you to tell me what exactly is EVIL about homosexuality. I don't quite understand. Do you mind explaining? I might learn something from you.
am sorry is ur brain full with smoke
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 11:56pm On Oct 12
Tenkobos:
Only shortsighted people will say that homosexuality doesn't affectanyone. Soon, straight people who don't support homosexuals won't be able to get jobs in many orgs.

Homosexuals have the right to adopt and it proven that one,s environment can influence his or her sexuality which means that young straight people adopted at early age can turn homosexual.

Also, it is possible for a gay parent to sleep with an adopted child since theyre not affiliated by blood. Now think about it this way, why give a child to a homosexual when the anal security of the child isn't guaranteed ?
You've drowned so deep in the well of stupidity you're beyond rescue. And I do not apologize for that.

Heterosexuals have the right to adopt. So, when did it become evil for homosexuals to do the same?

An heterosexual man and his adopted daughter are also not related by blood. So, why give a female child to a man when the vag!nal security of the child isn't guaranteed? Even fathers rape their blood daughters, let alone abducted ones. So, since there's NO guarantee that a particular man won't rape his daughter, why not take his daughter away from him? You're a very myopic, dishonest and narrow-minded fool.

So these are the dubious bases on which you justify the EVIL discrimination, stigmatization and oppression of a group of people?

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 12:00am On Oct 13
jaksmillioniar:
am sorry is ur brain full with smoke
Omo ale ofo jatijati. Oloriburuku oshi. Get the fück out of here!

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by jaksmillioniar: 12:05am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
Omo ale ofo jatijati. Oloriburuku oshi. Get the fück out of here!
when am done wit u u will live nairaland ask why mhsbliss msdelilah live
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 12:11am On Oct 13
jaksmillioniar:
when am done wit u u will live nairaland ask why mhsbliss msdelilah live
Go and get raped by a gay. Your lost destiny can only be recovered on a diick. Useless fool.

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Ssms(m): 12:11am On Oct 13
She love to suck pvssy....she loves Love Machine....buh for how long will it last..... Endtime#
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Ssms(m): 12:16am On Oct 13
Zealous2710:
I will, say shez never had a gud d**k. I av a frnd dat once tod me she ws a lesbian.... I asked if she has been f**ked by a guy b4, she said no. I persuaded her to try it onece. Now, she cnt wait 2 av d feel of my d**k anytime i'm around after our first ��.
A true life story.
correct guy

Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Ssms(m): 12:20am On Oct 13
hilaryiq:


God also condemns fornication and premarital sex. Also condemns judging other human beings. Can you proudly say you haven’t committed any of these sins? If the answer’s no then be the first to cast a stone. If your answer is yes then you are just as guilty of sin as a homosexual.

In all honesty whether you support it or not, nobody is forcing you to be gay and it’s not your life and also not your business so simply turn your face and walk away, it’s not that difficult.
lesbian spotted....u r proud too?.as pretty as u are..
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by KingSango(m): 12:22am On Oct 13
Its terrible because all I see is a beautiful woman that was some how abused as a small girl. Africa needs to be honest about the true cause of homosexuality, the abomination of pedophilia. The Christians and Muslims are hiding and protecting these pedophiles, along with them demonic Freemasons. If African men do not grow some Lion heart we might be headed into genocide. Ase.
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by selflessmaya: 12:38am On Oct 13
Tenkobos:
This is a lame line of thought though. I believe you also support incest by two consenting adults since they can use condom or birth control pills to stop child bearing, right?

the greatest argument against incest is inbreeding and familial influence to child development & formation of personality. if the possibility of inbreeding is removed, we still have issue of familial influence which means that familial bonds are more complicated and a family member is at too close proximity during formative years to be legally allowed to form romantic ties. and no, this does not apply to childhood besties, they dont live in the same house or share family ordeals that bond etc, incest does not carry the same weight as homosexuality, in cases of incest, the person in question is exposed to the other from a very young age when they're easy to indoctrinate or train or brainwash and living under the same roof. the subject of incest touches on minors so it's a sensitive topic.

even if 2 related adults decide to get into an incestuous relationship, ppl still get uncomfortable cos they dont know how & when it all started. once incest does not involve any minors, it's less taboo, if age gap is closer, it's even less taboo cos it seems more a conscious choice cos they're of same mental age so no one groomed the other for the relationship. then the more distant the relation, even lesser the taboo etc. familial influence is why some, including me might have issues with incest despite impossibility of pregnancy.
i would have nothing against incest if they're of legal age, consenting, not replicating DNA and i know for sure there's no childhood psychological damage that caused the attraction(no way to know) eg: in cases of separated at birth where siblings meet in future and fall in love, let's say they've dated 12 years so we know the love is true, if there is no possibility of inbreeding(birth control or same sex or sterility) and dont want kids or choose to adopt, then i dont see any reason why they shouldn't stay together.

as long as a sex act is between legal consenting adults of sound mind. it's really no one's business, irrespective of how it makes u feel.

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by IamaNigerianGuy(m): 12:52am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
You know what? I want you to tell me what exactly is EVIL about homosexuality. I don't quite understand. Do you mind explaining? I might learn something from you.

Do you think in your heart you have asked a reasonable question ?
I would compare your question to a crack addict asking "what's wrong with cocaine ? It's just a little fun, It makes me feel good. I'm an adult. I'm not hurting anyone am I ? "

Looking through your other posts it's evident you're a vocal supporter of this despicable act and your question is just meant to troll.
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by selflessmaya: 1:05am On Oct 13
IamaNigerianGuy:

Do you think in your heart you have asked a reasonable question ?
I would compare your question to a crack addict asking "what's wrong with cocaine ? It's just a little fun, It makes me feel good. I'm an adult. I'm not hurting anyone am I ? "
Looking through your other posts it's evident you're a vocal supporter of this despicable act and your question is just meant to troll.

as much as ppl are allowed to do what they please with their body, we have the right to intervene if they've become a danger to themselves. this is allowed in the cases of attempted suicide or addictions. that is why ppl can smoke cigarettes which are branded "smoking kills" and they're allowed to by friends but will not be allowed to smoke on a hospital bed if they get lung cancer. how a homosexual lives might not be ok to you but they are no danger to themselves by virtue of being gay. wrong comparison.

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 1:08am On Oct 13
IamaNigerianGuy:


Do you think in your heart you have asked a reasonable question ?
I would compare your question to a crack addict asking "what's wrong with cocaine ? It's just a little fun, It makes me feel good. I'm an adult. I'm not hurting anyone am I ? "

Looking through your other posts it's evident you're a vocal supporter of this despicable act and your question is just meant to troll.
You have no legitimate reasons to give.
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by jeff1607(m): 4:12am On Oct 13
I guess it's the earth trying to defend itself, humans have over populated the earth, we need them
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by rhektor(m): 4:15am On Oct 13
LionInBoxOffice:
we're who we're! We should learn to respect the decisions of people as far it doesn't hurt or attempt to hurt anyone.


And those who made such decisions should not border us to accept it since it is their own psychological problem

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by rhektor(m): 4:17am On Oct 13
selflessmaya:


the greatest argument against incest is inbreeding and familial influence to child development & formation of personality. if the possibility of inbreeding is removed, we still have issue of familial influence which means that familial bonds are more complicated and a family member is at too close proximity during formative years to be legally allowed to form romantic ties. and no, this does not apply to childhood besties, they dont live in the same house or share family ordeals that bond etc, incest does not carry the same weight as homosexuality, in cases of incest, the person in question is exposed to the other from a very young age when they're easy to indoctrinate or train or brainwash and living under the same roof. the subject of incest touches on minors so it's a sensitive topic.

even if 2 related adults decide to get into an incestuous relationship, ppl still get uncomfortable cos they dont know how & when it all started. once incest does not involve any minors, it's less taboo, if age gap is closer, it's even less taboo cos it seems more a conscious choice cos they're of same mental age so no one groomed the other for the relationship. then the more distant the relation, even lesser the taboo etc. familial influence is why some, including me might have issues with incest despite impossibility of pregnancy.
i would have nothing against incest if they're of legal age, consenting, not replicating DNA and i know for sure there's no childhood psychological damage that caused the attraction(no way to know) eg: in cases of separated at birth where siblings meet in future and fall in love, let's say they've dated 12 years so we know the love is true, if there is no possibility of inbreeding(birth control or same sex or sterility) and dont want kids or choose to adopt, then i dont see any reason why they shouldn't stay together.

as long as a sex act is between legal consenting adults of sound mind. it's really no one's business, irrespective of how it makes u feel.


Since the problem of inbreeding can not be removed then your arguments is as lame as the other guy has labelled
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by rhektor(m): 4:18am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
You have no legitimate reasons to give.

He just gave you one but you're refusing to accept your acceptance however does not change any fact
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by rhektor(m): 4:20am On Oct 13
Thinking that you are what you aren't would not change fact, should we all accept something that is not true because some set of people will feel hurt by the truth? A woman is a woman a man is man nothing in between
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Daeylar(f): 5:18am On Oct 13
IamaNigerianGuy:


If it's not trash what is it ?

In 10,000 years of recorded human history homosexuality has been a fringe practice for a reason. Suddenly, in less than 30 years we are now being forced to accept it as legitimate. The people who support homosexuality and think they are avant garde and progressive do not even realize that they are being manipulated by powerful interests which wield money and influence. They are pawns.
There are forces at play beyond your knowledge and imagination.

Take a look at America: What is there to like about that society ? Men grow breasts women want pe-ni*se's ? Suddenly for the first time in human history people claim not to be able to identify with their sex. Perfectly normal people without genetic problems subject themselves to sex-change operations.
America is not a model for morality. The only thing they can offer the world is technology
Ask yourself the truthful question? When men have anal intercourse is that a good thing ? If Africa succumbs to the evil of homosexuality, our lineage will enter a long dark age from which we may never emerge considering the fact that we are intellectually feeble as a people.

Look for a worthy cause to support. There are many. Dont try to sell this sick ideology

If i give you a reply now, you will run away and ignore it the way you did on the thread of the guy who was pushed down because he was gay, grin grin, where you allowed your hatred for gays to fall your hand grin grin I hope you are better now,? If someone is allegedly pushed down or attacked or killed for being gay you will look at the crime and not indirectly consent to attacking or killing someone for being gay? grin

That's the problem when you hate something too much,
By the way I wonder what was the follow up to the story was, I hope those guys were arrested,


Anyways, I will give you a reply on the condition that you won't ignore like you did before, agreed?
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by viktagorion: 5:54am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
The dumb line again. I can still remember how an old woman who had remained a virgin ALL HER LIFE was celebrated as a beacon of "virtue" on this same nairaland. Why didn't people like you apply this stupid line of argument to show that her celibate life is EVIL? After all, it has THE SAME CONSEQUENCES as homosexuality! If your mum had been like that, you won't be here either! Very pointless argument. All the Priests and Nuns must be evil. Isaac Newton must be an evil bastard deserving of the same punishment as homosexuals, since he also NEVER contributed to procreation.

If my dad were gay, I probably won't be here! So, I won't even know. If his dad had been gay, he also wouldn't be here to read your post either! The same way YOU probably wouldn't be here if THAT sperm hadn't fertilized THAT egg.

Come up with a reasonable argument against homosexuality.

Should a man's Instruments enter another man's anus? Is that the order of nature?
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Fyi0: 6:16am On Oct 13
marunga:
GAY ALERT!!!!: Another one has been detected.
Mtchew
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 6:25am On Oct 13
rhektor:


He just gave you one but you're refusing to accept your acceptance however does not change any fact
You goats just come here to type nauseating nonsense with your leprous fingers.

So, homosexuality should be equated with drug abuse? What bullsh!t.

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 6:28am On Oct 13
viktagorion:
Should a man's Instruments enter another man's anus? Is that the order of nature?
Nature didn't come to you complaining. So, how does it affect you? Are you nature?
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Daeylar(f): 6:34am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
Nature didn't come to you complaining. So, how does it affect you? Are you nature?

grin grin grin grin

Chai grin grin
Brotherly, grin
this early morning grin grin grin
grin grin grin grin,
Where did you keep your chill grin?
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 6:50am On Oct 13
Daeylar:


grin grin grin grin

Chai grin grin
Brotherly, grin
this early morning grin grin grin
grin grin grin grin,
Where did you keep your chill grin?
Lol. The kind of excuses these guys give to justify the persecution of homosexuals are dubious at best, and extraordinarily stupid at worst.

NONE of them has been able to give a reasonable, rational, justifiable reason why homosexuality should be criminalized. It's nauseating.

Good morning. How was your night?
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Daeylar(f): 7:00am On Oct 13
ToZaraWithaZ:
Lol. The kind of excuses these guys give to justify the persecution of homosexuals are dubious at best, and extraordinarily stupid at worst.

NONE of them has been able to give a reasonable, rational, justifiable reason why homosexuality should be criminalized. It's nauseating.

Good morning. How was your night?

The simple truth

I waiting for them to give a rational logical excuse, I'm sorry pulling emotional strings doesn't work with me, and linking it to pedophillia and transgenders always pisses me off because they are all different things and pedophilla is criminal, they act as if heterosexuals don't abuse kids.

The use of emotion to argue against homosexuality always takes me back to when people would use emotions to try to get you to believe in God either by saying you will go to hell or don't you believe in a God that gives you the air you breathe and blah blah blah, but when you ask them for facts they start bumbling and fumbling,

I'm a rational human being, I have logical reasons, facts, that make me to hate child abuse and molestation. Still have logical reasons that make me not to like the transgender idea, open to debate though.

But I've not seen a single logical reason that makes me want to despise homosexuality, and the people who hate it so much seem unable to come up with one,
I'm tired of the way they try to sway people with emotions, it's old. They should do better.

Good morning, I'm good you?

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Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by ToZaraWithaZ(m): 7:09am On Oct 13
Daeylar:

The simple truth

I waiting for them to give a rational logical excuse, I'm sorry pulling emotional strings doesn't work with me, and linking it to pedophillia and transgenders always pisses me off because they are all different things and pedophilla is criminal, they act as if heterosexuals don't abuse kids.

The use of emotion to argue against homosexuality always takes me back to when people would use emotions to try to get you to believe in God either by saying you will go to hell or don't you believe in a God that gives you the air you breathe and blah blah blah, but when you ask them for facts they start bumbling and fumbling,

I'm a rational human being, I have logical reasons, facts, that make me to hate child abuse and molestation. Still have logical reasons that make me not to like the transgender idea, open to debate though.

But I've not seen a single logical reason that makes me want to despise homosexuality, and the people who hate it so much seem unable to come up with one,
I'm tired of the way they try to sway people with emotions, it's old. They should do better.

Good morning, I'm good you?

Cool. Very cool. You won't see these dunderheads asking for the heads of the paedophilic bastards that indulge in the abomination of child marriage in the North. Homosexuals are their headache. Homophobic baboons.

I'm pretty good too.
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by darkhorizon: 7:33am On Oct 13
FortifiedCity:
Lesbianism and gay affects everything around you, and by extension you.
We need to stop this 'I don't care' attitude . Evil is evil no matter what.
How is it evil
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by Revolva(m): 7:41am On Oct 13
grin grin grin see them four of them....shame on them
Re: Pamela Adie: "Coming Out As A Lesbian Is The Best Decision I Ever Made" by elly4(f): 8:08am On Oct 13
Dillusionist:
you don't know what you are missing;;dick is bae lipsrsealed

tell them sis, God bless you.

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