To me, that can only be triggered by joblessness, what will be will be, i 've thought it wise resolving to "conscience theory" This is the sure way to long life,

@ poster

No

what has happened to trust?

distrust breeds distrust, gbam!!!

@Otukpo, thats my EXACT point too. "Why should I waste my life with someone who's not worth it".

Na wa for the overly sentimental replies i'm seeing on this thread. I can understand why the women wouldn't want to bother to spy on their husbands. But the men? Come' on!

Why not. I wonder why a lot of you have been parroting trust trust trust - as if it is some sacred entity. If a wife is TRULY trustworthy then the spying would prove just that! Na lie? And you'd then TRULY trust her! If you claim you trust her but yet you're too scared to spy on her (lest you discover she's su.cking her pastor's dic.k), then what kind of st.upid trust is that? That is self-delusion; one cannot build a marriage on delusion. I cant do that for the effed up cliché that 'what you don't know wouldnt hurt you'. It would, even more than if I knew!

pro01:

@Otukpo, thats my EXACT point too. "Why should I waste my life with someone who's not worth it".

Na wa for the overly sentimental replies i'm seeing on this thread. I can understand why the women wouldn't want to bother to spy on their husbands. But the men? Come' on!

Why not. I wonder why a lot of you have been parroting trust trust trust - as if it is some sacred entity. If a wife is TRULY trustworthy then the spying would prove just that! Na lie? And you'd then TRULY trust her! If you claim you trust her but yet you're too scared to spy on her (lest you discover she's su.cking her pastor's manliness), then what kind of st.upid trust is that? That is self-delusion; one cannot build a marriage on delusion. I cant do that for the effed up cliché that 'what you don't know wouldnt hurt you'. It would, even more than if I knew!

So so insecure!

@ Post

Why would I bother mounting surveillance on somebody  If he wants to cheat he can go ahead and do just that! The day I get tired, I'll pack my bags and leave . .  right after I blow his brains out! *walks away to clean my AK47* 

I'm married and I can tell you it's not worth it at least for men.If or when you catch him,he'll only yell at you for doing it and act all defensive and cold and make it your fault.It's not worth it eeeehhhhhh.When I stopped calling my husband every hour,he wondered why and started calling me himself.If I'm the one who is out,Ilet the fone ring without answering.I did answer a call from a female once and calmly told her to stop calling him at home and she shd wait till he's out of the house.
Ladies,we don't need to put our man under surveillance,when he starts cheating,trust me,you'll know.
Now he's the one who asks me"Is there anything you're not telling me?" and I just laff.Now instead of going out all nite,he wants to stay home to play PES 2010.Men!

I only tried checking my BF's SMS on his phone he was so angry as i have done something wrong.For me i have promise myself never to even touch his fone again.But come to think of it have i done any tin wrong?


Mounting a surveillance is the last tin i will do.

Ujujoan:

So so insecure!
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Why can't you simply stop stalking me. Would give you just this one chance for peace. Things could get really messy btw us if you choose to refuse.

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You might not be able to live with what you discover,

I'll never do that, it's a free world, a man or woman should have his or her freedom, I don't have to monitor my woman, except if I want my heart to be broken!!!

pro01:

Why can't you simply stop stalking me. Would give you just this one chance for peace. Things could get really messy btw us if you choose to refuse.

haha, I have a hunch that something good will work out for you too. looooooooooool

ROFL

pro01:

Why can't you simply stop stalking me. Would give you just this one chance for peace. Things could get really messy btw us if you choose to refuse.

Who's stalking you You flatter yourself my friend

But wait oh, am I supposed to start trembling now *rooooooooolz eyez*

You 'messy' no go pass calling me a pro.st.itute and a s.lu.t . . who the heck cares

Ujujoan:

So so insecure!

@ Post

Why would I bother mounting surveillance on somebody If he wants to cheat he can go ahead and do just that! The day I get tired, I'll pack my bags and leave . . right after I blow his brains out! *walks away to clean my AK47*

i need to start walking around with bullt proof

No, i won't do that. For reasons best known to me.

r231:

i need to start walking around with bullt proof

You are not the cheating type!

no, i can never do that for any reason

"Many people never get to know their partners are cheating on them throughout the relationship."

I don't want to be one of those Mugus so I gotta spy at times.

^^ e juta isi nkita, e were agba ya me gini

_{I really hope you are Ibo cos I don't have the strength to interpret that . .}

english pls lol

r231:

english pls lol

I'm sorry darling, but English is not my first language

But we can ask pro01 to interpret it for us, when he's done with his campaign against women . .

Abeg come to YIM jor, let's jist!

My ex used to do that alot. I think it bothers on insecurity.

I would'nt do such cos it's too much heartache.

my girlfriend, na na na but my wife yes ooooo.

Ujujoan:

Who's stalking you You flatter yourself my friend

Your 'messy' no go pass calling me a pro.st.itute and a s.lu.t . . who the heck cares

You've already described yourself excellently; there's little I can add to that.

Just stop stalking me all over the place with skunk-like stench.

There are somefins u cant hide for long, not from me and any other guy dat has bin in the game, ! this question is only for kids at their mother's breast not for grown up players lk me,

dere are very subtl ways to tell wivout havin to mount FBI or satelyt on the young lady,

1)Phones are wonderful, if she a nu chick and is has a secrets, chk her voice signals weneva she answas the phn, gals hv diff voice signals for diff folks, and wen she hangs up, chk up on her body language note carefully the nxt tin that comes out of her mouth,

2) drop in on her unanounced but make sure u bring a gift along,

3) note her click of frnds and b close to the coolest one and win her trust, she is ur eyes if u know wor i mean,

i have no endin to this, so i take a small bow,

WIFEE MATERIALS, ARE DIFFICULT TO TRACE COS U JST KNW SHE IS , CLEAN! AFTA ALL, U CONNECT IN SOUL FAR BEYOND THE NATURAL, U CAN TELL WEN SHE IS DOIN SOMEFIN WRNG OR SHE HAS AND MOST WUD TELL U B4 U EVN ASK!

pro01:

You've already described yourself excellently; there's little I can add to that.

Just stop stalking me all over the place with skunk-like stench.

seriously, is that the best you can do

Mccccheeeeeeeew!

_{eyes him from head to toe, turns around and walks away in disgust!}

hmmmm, stalkers.

Ujujoan:

seriously, is that the best you can do

Mccccheeeeeeeew!

_{eyes him from head to toe, turns around and walks away in disgust!}

its enough

plsssss

@topic it wouldn't hurt to do it at times but not stupidly though.

Why not? I don't trust blindly