It hasn't been easy being 30+ well established and a single lady. Yes people will argue saying when you are making money and doing well in life, who needs a man?

Yes who needs a man who will try to control my life or one day turn you to his personal punching bag...

But still as a woman, no matter how hard you try to justify being alone is great because you have peace of mind, it never is.

I've been around a lot of great guys and I believe there are still many good men in the world but getting them to show interest is now a big problem.

I'm currently working with this guy who seems to be decent and I've tried to get him to like me but it's like he's picked up the signals I'm giving him but not interested or he doesn't understand my signals and I need to step up my game.

The weekend has come to an end and I have to go to bed, and it's so sad I don't have anyone to talk to about my weekend or a movie I just saw. All I do is work work work work work.

Darling God gave you a mouth to speak... Please tell him your feelings....or are you a traffic warden that shows green light?

Try and go out more often, Don't lock yourself indoors when you're back from work..
Attend wedding ceremony and birthday you're invited, and pls be happy with yourself, be cheerful, be friendly and don't look or play desperate, guys can easily sense a desperate woman from afar and pray also and you'll meet the right one.

Divay22:
Try and go out more often, Don't lock yourself indoors when you're back from work..
Attend wedding ceremony and birthday you're invited, and pls be happy with yourself, be cheerful, be friendly and don't look or play desperate, guys can easily sense a desperate woman from afar and pray also and you'll meet the right one.

Professional have spoken...

Once in a while, everybody feels alone and in a similar situation like you. Well, you have tried by giving a signal, hope you don't overdo it in the next course. We don't like it very easy.
It's another week End too and no one to call to say Goodnight.

Topestbilly:


Professional have spoken...

Professional ko.. Not me

OP ... maybe the guy is in a serious relationship with another lady. It must not be him. Go out, take urself out, u might catch someone's attention by doing so. May God provide ur man for u....
Ladies appreciate the man in ur life today.

Find yourself

Vanillaskin:
It hasn't been easy being 30+ well established and a single lady. Yes people will argue saying when you are making money and doing well in life, who needs a man?

Yes who needs a man who will try to control my life or one day turn you to his personal punching bag...

But still as a woman, no matter how hard you try to justify being alone is great because you have peace of mind, it never is.

I've been around a lot of great guys and I believe there are still many good men in the world but getting them to show interest is now a big problem.

I'm currently working with this guy who seems to be decent and I've tried to get him to like me but it's like he's picked up the signals I'm giving him but not interested or he doesn't understand my signals and I need to step up my game.

The weekend has come to an end and I have to go to bed, and it's so sad I don't have anyone to talk to about my weekend or a movie I just saw. All I do is work work work work work.

I feel you. Its not good for anyone to be alone. Its not healthy and we are not designed to be alone. You are lucky you even socialise and meet people, some do not even know how to socialise trust me. At the same time finding the right person can be a daunting task but what I've come to realise is that no body is perfect. I find myself in same situation presently.

now I'm scared ...

I've started to notice that people are getting married later and later for some odd reason. Many people in their late 20s and early 30s are now single...not even in a relationship but totally single. I can't figure it out.

Awwww. You didn't drop your contact

millomaniac:


I feel you. Its not good for anyone to be alone. Its not healthy and we are not designed to be alone. You are lucky you even socialise and meet people, some do not even know how to socialise trust me. At the same time finding the right person can be a daunting task but what I've come to realise is that no body is perfect. I find myself in same situation presently.

how old are you?

Dasherz:
now I'm scared ...

scared? For what reason? Are you lonely too?

Luxuryconsult:
how old are you?

What are you Tryna form?

Vanillaskin:
It hasn't been easy being 30+ well established and a single lady. Yes people will argue saying when you are making money and doing well in life, who needs a man?

Yes who needs a man who will try to control my life or one day turn you to his personal punching bag...

But still as a woman, no matter how hard you try to justify being alone is great because you have peace of mind, it never is.

I've been around a lot of great guys and I believe there are still many good men in the world but getting them to show interest is now a big problem.

I'm currently working with this guy who seems to be decent and I've tried to get him to like me but it's like he's picked up the signals I'm giving him but not interested or he doesn't understand my signals and I need to step up my game.

The weekend has come to an end and I have to go to bed, and it's so sad I don't have anyone to talk to about my weekend or a movie I just saw. All I do is work work work work work.

It's not enough to give signal s when you may/maynot look like a hamplanet you may have let yourself go after all these years of being single, try to be sexy for the guy. Nothing wrong with that. Guys are very physical when it comes to ladies before personality.

millomaniac:


What are you Tryna form?

Defensive mode. Are you sure you weren't talking about yourself when you said some people don't even know how to socialize?

Dasherz:
now I'm scared ...

why? Cuz of the future?

Luxuryconsult:
scared? For what reason? Are you lonely too?

No I'm not lonely. ...

I'm only scared of getting to meet guys that just can't use their brain to think

dingbang:
why? Cuz of the future?

the future scares me sometimes. .. You just don't know what to expect

Fenix:
I've started to notice that people are getting married later and later for some odd reason. Many people in their late 20s and early 30s are now single...not even in a relationship but totally single. I can't figure it out.

We plenty oo. Not even relationship, just stark naked single.

It has gotten to the point where even family members think there is something wrong with someone. If only they knew what we all want is true love. Its not easy.

May God just direct our paths to that special person meant for us.

Dasherz:


the future scares me sometimes. .. You just don't know what to expect

yeah... Happens to me to... But when I look at couples in love, I feel happy once more...

dingbang:
yeah... Happens to me to... But when I look at couples in love, I feel happy once more...

Happens to you? .. Well there should be a way to overcome these fears then

Dasherz:


Happens to you? .. Well there should be a way to overcome these fears then

well I just mentioned of them ways...there are a lot more... Especially through that of my parents...

dingbang:
well I just mentioned of them ways...there are a lot more... Especially through that of my parents...

then if your parents can do it. . you definitely can do better. . good luck

hanassholesolo:


Defensive mode. Are you sure you weren't talking about yourself when you said some people don't even know how to socialize?

Don't be paranoid. Think clearly.

millomaniac:



Don't be paranoid. Think clearly.

Well, if you were thinking clearly you would have known that he's question was an innocent question, Schizo.

Please, do it wisely...
Dnt show you are too desperate for you nt to be hurt. God will locate yr own Mr right to you. Amen

hanassholesolo:


Well, if you were thinking clearly you would have known that he's question was an innocent question, Schizo.

Please what is schizo and who's question

Divay22:
Try and go out more often, Don't lock yourself indoors when you're back from work..
Attend wedding ceremony and birthday you're invited, and pls be happy with yourself, be cheerful, be friendly and don't look or play desperate, guys can easily sense a desperate woman from afar and pray also and you'll meet the right one.

U made a gud point here!

Modelqwen:






OP ... maybe the guy is in a serious
relationship with another lady. It must
not be him. Go out, take urself out, u
might catch someone's attention
by doing so. May God provide ur man
for u....

Ladies appreciate the man in ur life
today.

Tell dem o.. let dem hear.