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Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:05pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
all d ladies supportin d lady shld shut up. A knife? Wtf. @poster, dos kind of girls are evil n can kill u easily when dey re upset. Run 4ur life. Dats nt d best 4u mate. Sumtimes u nid↲2 slap dem so dat their senses can cum bck 2 normal. Not beatin her. A normal who got brains wont respond. U can apologize later but u nid 2 send dat instant msg 2 her. She must be crazy. A girl cant slap me back thou. D 1 dat tried it wit me cos she slaps guys easily. I took her same hands n slap n 3times. + 1 of mine n warnd her. In ur life dnt try dat sh, it wit me. U knw wat# she was d 1 beggin. Guys wake up. Ds girl ve got soft heart. Emotions - weak |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by 190: 2:06pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
googles: baby u wud attack me~ @faakaay leave dem make dem dey talk anyhow~ maybe sometyme in future they would chase their husband off their matrimonial home with a machete |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by ayettymama(f): 2:09pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
lolz see what i mean gus that reason like gakay up there dont belong with society where i come from men are not taught to beat women they are taught to respect women i for one have no time for men like him but to any man that crosses me . . . . . , . . . I am actually more patient with women than men |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 2:12pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
faakay: Hmmmmmmmmmmmm |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:16pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@ayettymama: society my ass. Slapping is different 4rm beating. Read btw my sentence again. Ladies who attack re d 1s who get divorced easily or cant get a husband @ teenage age because of their proudiness n stupidity. They wanna say we our right. Crap. Dat does nt mean u shld disrespect ur hubby or bf. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:17pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Some |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 2:18pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: WORD 500 times over. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by ayettymama(f): 2:18pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
like i said men with your reason need to stay in the jungle! theres nothing great abt slapping women its sad and pathetic men that do so and they are the ones with the high divorce rates mate check ur statistics properly do you no the number of women that die from domestic violence? because they are too weak or too scared to defend themselves?? or too stupid to leave?? im sorri i u think u can go arnd slappin women u need to be sent to an asylum i pray one day u meet and slap someone like me you will no the REAL meaning of khaki not being leather! |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by ayettymama(f): 2:20pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
ebony seriously ar eu listening to this crap?? real men pick on people thier own size pathetic men slap women!! i dont understand?? im seriously confused where do these monkeys come from?? |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:22pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Real men dont think like this Madlady and A.Mama only the goons and thugs think like this. Hopefully we meet real men. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 2:25pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Ebonyeyes: I know they don't must are sane, thank goodness. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:26pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@ayettymama n madlady. Go ahead n be slappin ur bf n hubby. Its ur decision n u get d result. #i dnt nid 2 argue wit u folks. Dats d way it shld be. I ve said mine |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:30pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
faakay: From your reasoning, I can almost see why a woman would be desperate enough to use a knife to defend herself. And as per your reasoning, it's right for a guy to slap his girlfriend / wife about, but she's not allowed to retaliate in kind? Doesn't that smack of double standards? You said she was begging you, despite you being the aggressor - did that stoke your ego, make you feel a big man? Your manner of reasoning is wrong, and it's the very sort of reasoning that can get a man killed. A woman will only take so much beating / slaps, before she snaps, and hits back with a force greater than yours, which could well be fatal. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 2:32pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
faakay: I've never slapped a man before in my life, no man I know would ever raise his hand to me. I only know HUMANS. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 2:34pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Siena: SEE A MAN!!!!!!!!!! |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:38pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@siena: nope my situation was different she slapped me 1st. If i didnt corect her instantly. She wil repeat same n continue slappin guys. She shld also nid 2 feel d pains in it nt gud 2 slap. Ok 4 example men go angry sumtins i slap their lady because of anger. D best situation is 4 d girl 2 leave nt respondin. D guys head wil cum back 2 sense wat he did was wrong when she starts cryin |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by googles: 2:46pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
[size=13pt]someone slapped a chic 4 good times or am i missing something. . . waoh [/size] |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 2:48pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Faakay, it's still not right for a guy to slap a lady, regardless of who slapped first. I'm not into either gender using physical violence, under any circumstance. Beating for "correction" is for beasts, not humans. As for coming back to their senses - some men are oblivious to tears. A decent man doesn't need to see his wife / girlfriend crying to realise his slapping her was wrong - if he needs tears to tell him physical abuse is wrong, then I'm afraid he has more problems than he thinks, and needs to see a shrink. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Moyola(f): 2:58pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
. . heard something similar a while ago! Slap a guy?! she musta bn well provoked! Gettin' a knife?. . .d guy shoulda acted gentle @ d sight of it. . .I bet he was still doin strong hed. . .hence d stabbing!. . .hehe! buh she shouldnt have! uhmn! |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by OBLONG(m): 3:00pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@madlady------ we can slap each other on the bed. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by madlady(f): 3:03pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
OBLONG: You can be the IST and LAST I slap. Take that 3 dirty slappppps |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by OBLONG(m): 3:09pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
madlady: |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:29pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
googles:dont be surprised girl. Its jst mere a correction. No intentin 2 beat her or violence. Real men dnt beat women, their re other ways 2 get dem purnish. U knw wat i mean? . U knw wat till date d girl respect me n dnt slap guys again. Infact she wants 2 date me byforce. Imagine! Lol. Ladies re meant to be control also respect dem 4 whom dey re nt takin advantage because we re men. As soon as u let ladies control n dictate 4u. U re doomed. She wil cheat n do al sort of rubbish. Ladies can advise u n make impact in ur life. Simple arithmetic. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:36pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Faakay, slapping a lady, or anyone else is violence - what do you think it is? A lady should respect you for being a man, for who you are, not because you've slapped her into submission, and she's scared of you. Fear and respect are two very different emotions, and are not to be confused with each other. If you truly feel the need to make a lady "respect" you by slapping her, then you're about as compatible as chalk and cheese. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 3:46pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@mr siena. I dnt knw wat 2 say again o. I think u knw beta than i do. Slap is violence in d court of law not matrimonial home i believe. Couples nid 2 settle btw each oda cos court was nt der wen dey met. As soon as u take it 2 court 2 be judge by a man. Ppl will laugh @ d couples @ their back. Who's @ shame? Peace out. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by googles: 3:49pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
faakay: for real slapping is not always the answer to these issues i can never respeck a man dat hits a woman there are some things you could say to her rather dan slapping. . . its not worth it not slapping a lady doesnt mean she will eventually control you. . .i know a man who used to hit his wife and the more he hits her the more she curses him. . . bad yoruba curses o there was a day he beat her bad and she cursed him dat he was never going to return home do you know this guy actually died on his way home from work, . . . it might have been coincidental o but then there is power in the tongue he coulda avoide the curses restraint is the best thing in the world learning to control urself |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:18pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
@poster both of you are mad men really mad, the babe is even more insane, If this relationship doesn't end there is a 99.99% chance someone will get hurt I mean REALLY HURT. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by indie22(f): 5:40pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
He slapped her, she pulled a knife on him. Obviously they r both as bad as each other, although I think anyone (man or woman) who would pull a knife during an arguement, (When its nt as if ur life is in danger) and threaten to use it, while 4 pple r wrestling wiv you to give up ur wepaon, is nothing short of an area girl/ boy, that's my own opinion! |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:48pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
indie22: There are people who've thought their lives weren't in danger, that they were in control of the situation, till it was too late. If you're being slapped about, you can never determine how far the guy will go. Most wife beaters started from the odd slap, to more serious beatings, and eventually fatalities. The more a woman is slapped, the more resistant she becomes, and the more the guy will beat her, till one day, it goes too far, and she's dead. Is the woman supposed to wait, sit down with a glass of wine, determine if her man's going to stop at slapping, get back up, and allow some brute to continue beating her? |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:51pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
In normal countries, that's self-defense Siena. But In Nigeria you are supposed to turn the other cheek, cook, clean and pray to God that he changes. Nigeria needs help. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:56pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Lol, Ebony. Neither cheek will have space for any more slaps, from the sounds of things! And the lady will pretty much run out of prayers to use. |
Re: Quarelling With Ur Girlfriend by indie22(f): 5:57pm On Mar 21, 2010 |
Siena violence or retaliation is never the answer, the minute he tried it the first time and slapped the girl around, what stopped her from picking up her stuff, leaving his house and dumping his sorry ass! |
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