indie22:

Siena violence or retaliation is never the answer, the minute he tried it the first time and slapped the girl around, what stopped her from picking up her stuff, leaving his house and dumping his sorry backside!

You're correct, to a certain extent.

But, depending on the guy, the lady may not have the chance to move out. It could well be the first time he's attacked her, and it could well be the last - if she gives him the chance to finish her off! Retaliation isn't the answer, but sometimes self-defence could save your life.

A tough one, this one

@googles; i agree wit all wat u said. But note; a girl wil reign curse on a man who beats/slaps her when she's not guilty. Women wont reign curse 2 some1 wen she knws she's d offender. I dnt slap or beat girl. That was about 2yrs ago. I jst tot d girl a lessn. She slaps guys 2much n its bad. I was waiting 4 my turn so dat i can korrect her.

^Not necesarily some gurls can be very stubborn & full of pride so they won't want 2 admit it.

Once a woman slapper beater always a woman  slapper beater. It will be one today, two the next and a full killing the next. Girls beware of FAAKAY

"Waiting for your turn to correct her", ? E be like say you sef be violence lover, almost as if u dey gbadun as you dey slap am!,

indie22:

"Waiting for your turn to correct her", ? E be like say you sef be violence lover, almost as if u dey gbadun as you dey slap am!,

. Sure i gbadun d paros. News. We were not lovers. Nothin jst friends but she dey always feel like ayamantaga. So i cut her wings off. I was serious in front of her but @ da back wit my friends. We laughed n rolld on d floor. . Its was a lovely xperienz

Lovely experience?, rolling on d floor laughing coz you slapped a girl?, hmmm, I pity the fool,

Yes his all tough beating on a girl. Why dont you slap on animals your own size?

Guys.,
we shuld really analyse dis situation b4 posting replies.some replies i will have 2 say are biased, why on mars shuld u slap a gal[anybody at all], it is a well established fact that gals run their mouths a lot, but 4 sakes dis is were the religious,social,moral and bla bla bla principles been taught every day  play in,dat guy had and still has no reason wat so ever to slap her,den dat gal is somtin else   ,its like d love dat u have bin professin was replaced by blindin rage dat u were set on killin de guy,rememba oo dere are so many ways less energy consuming yet effective in ventin anger,i ill suggest u found one.,

but.,, u made my day,cant stop laghin afta i envisioned de scene,

Because your BF slapped you, you went ahead to bring out a knife? what if he ends up overpowering you and then collecting the knife from you, what then are you going to do?

What gives you the impression that he can not also get a knife in return? who then is really going to get hurt?

Simple equation, a soft answer make a fury man goes cold, he slapped you, one of the best things to do is to just keep quiet, get out of the scene, after a while, come back, take whatever belongs to you, move out of his life for real. trying to use violence on someone that's more powerful and more violent than you is suicidal because there's every tendency that he can overpower you even with the knife and can even get a more sophisticated weapon than the knife you claim to have as a better protection.

The only girl i hit in my life was when i was in secondary school, she constantly insulted me for closed to 1 hour, i didn't say a word until she started bringing in my mom's name into the insult, i just had to do something and all i wanted to do was to give her a warning, unfortunately the anger made the fist more powerful than i thought and within 2 seconds, her face was already pregnant with a croc's egg, it didn't end well because the father had to come to our house with the girl fuming and threatening to beat me up. ever since then, i made a vow never to hit any girl again no matter what and i even told my GF about what i would do if i am pushed to the wall (something different from physical violence).

 It was not really my fault because i tried to cool down, some (alot) of girls are like that, they provoke men into doing stupid things ( i am not supporting any man hitting women) but i am just stating the fact we all know, a man wouldn't just slap his gf except he's known to be like that.

We should all learn to know when to stop, when to exit the scene and when not to even say a word be it male or female, being quiet and less violent does alot of good than evil.

word!!!!,

@ Eric: One doesn't always have the luxury of time, when they're being slapped / beaten. A lady being beaten could well pick up a knife, or nearest weapon on the spur of the moment - when you've just received a slap that has your ears ringing, and you counting stars, anything could happen.

Eh, i wil go 4 d battle axe immediately n yank off her head.

Eh, i wil go 4 d battle axe immediately n yank off her head.

Eh, i wil go 4 d battle axe immediately n yank off her head.

lolz

are u people still here??

allow these men klill thier wives now

theres nothing wrong with it!

ehn allow them go arnd killin thier gf's! abi

tehy will stumble accross the sultans daughter and cause a civil war!!!

Pweety4me:

^I don't think we needed 2 see dat 3times 2 get it. . .

yeah, u know u can't see clearly.

Siena:

@ Eric: One doesn't always have the luxury of time, when they're being slapped / beaten. A lady being beaten could well pick up a knife, or nearest weapon on the spur of the moment - when you've just received a slap that has your ears ringing, and you counting stars, anything could happen.

You also failed to put into consideration what could have led to her getting slapped, why not work on the prevention rather than the cure? she had the luxury of time before she was being slapped and the guy also had the luxury of time before he was provoked into doing what he did.

Bottom line, try to avoid any argument you know might lead into something more dangerous, learn to control what you say, learn to control your anger, learn not to use violence to make your points, sometimes, guys are out-talked and they tend to use physical damages to retaliate (which is bad).

Girls : learn when to stop when you see the red light, learn to slow down when you see the orange line, learn to fire when you see the green light.

Guys: same goes to you but never ever turn to violence, it's not worth it, if you need tips on how to treat a stubborn and parrot-like girls, just contact me [size=4pt]for a fee of course[/size]

Dare me not cos my head is always there

Pweety4me:

.hmm dat's true men and there mandatory attitude not all sha but a lil dwells in every man i wonder where they picked it up from,bible scriptures,culture,industry,father figures. . .[/color]

Nope, it's because men don't like to be dominated, so we try as much as possible to resist any domination by any one, be it another man, woman, animal or alien. it's a natural instinct and it's in every man, the difference is that some know how to control it and some don't.