*Duties of a lady in a relationship*
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This article is strictly my own opinion and view.
*#1 The lady should look after her man*
God in his infinite wisdom made the woman to be more domestic and organised in the affairs of the house. In this area a lady who really cares about a guy and loves him should be able to help Behind his appearance, environment and even his fridge �.

*#2 developed an excellent communication with her man*
if a lady understands the importance of a relationship then it shouldn't take her long to understand the importance of communication. If you are in a relationship and as a lady u don't tell ur man ur day to day activities including those who made attempt at toasting u then ur indirectly leaving a door of temptation open for outsiders to come into ur life and disrupt the balance between you two. You should be able to know his fears and weakness and equally tell him urs too. True communication comes with openness and oneness

*#3 become his confidant*
If ur man trusts u he will tell you things.its ur duty to be his jisting mate and someone he can confide in. If ur too busy to avail urself for him then know that ur capable of been replaced in the nearest future!

*#5 be loyal and faithful*
No matter how beautiful you are as a lady or how high class you are, if you are not faithful, loyal and submissive to ur man, he will dump you! Get this straight every man prides in the fidelity of his woman and if the lady can't 'sit down' in one place then she is useless to his long term future. No man loves to share his woman with any other man, it's in our DNA.

*#6 learn to give him treats*
sharing is caring but that shouldn't be exclusive for only men to do. I don't think there is any lady ripe enough to be in a relationship that can't raise 3,000 to spoil her man by either taking him out or buying him a gift. There is joy in receiving gifts. let ur man equally experience such joy. That will automatically separate you from any other lady he has ever come across.

*#7 Think of what makes him happy*
As simple as this looks 90% of ladies are guilty of these cos they spend the whole day thinking of what their man should do for them. As soon as you are in a relationship with a guy u need to take note of the things he likes and things that make him happy. If ur man loves to spend his Saturdays with guys watching ball don't be selfish to demand he gives you his whole Saturday. Know is love language and learn how to speak such to him . there is this sense of pride and satisfaction a man has when he knows his lady can do things without been told.

*#8 avoid complicating ur life*
When in a relationship. Cut down on the numerous dates u have with men. Dates are usually the stepping stone to the beginning of a serious friendship or relationship and having more than one man will be highly unnecessary. Stop hiding ur man from the public. Let people know ur in a relationship it will save you a lot of stress from guys wanting to come into ur life if they are already aware your happy in a relationship. Also do away with unnecessary social media entanglements except if it's for job related purposes. What is a lady who has a fiance doing in a dating site?

*#9 The notion of doing him a favour*
I guess this is peculiar to the average Nigerian girls mentality. A nice decent guy approaches u for a relationship and u feel ur doing him a favor by accepting his proposal there by expecting him to do everything in a relationship and put u on a monthly payroll. after all u said yes to him. Please that is extremely wrong. For your information, women need men more than the other way round. Women need men to give them emotional stability, offer protection and even pleasure. So why allow the guy do all the calling? All the taking out? All the buying of gifts. Madam which one are you doing? Lest I forget the fear of menopause is the beginning of wisdom lol.


In summary. A lady should be able to seamlessly perform the 9 roles above if she wants to play her role well as a caring and loving partner. Be it a student or not working isn't an excuse not to be able to do all these roles. And for guys if you find any lady doing this hold the lady Down. If she doesn't know any of these roles bring her to read and learn. She must have a teachable spirit. Feel free to add urs or critize me constructively. I drop my pen ✒