Cheating, infidelity, unfaithfulness is a hot, talked about topic these days; it is no more news to anyone.


The problem is that anytime we hear infidelity, cheating or unfaithfulness, our minds goes to the physical act of having sex with the opposite sex other than ones partner, husband or wife. That may be one of it but not all of it.


Infidelity according to the dictionary means;


Lack of religious faith, unbelief, disbelief.


Lack of faith or lack of being constant, especially sexual unfaithfulness.


An act of disloyalty, dishonesty, lying, .


Infidelity/cheating can take on different forms, emotional, physical, material, financial etc.

Infidelity can mean different things to different people, anything that lacks full disclosure be it age, finances, educational qualifications, etc in any form of relationship can be termed infidelity/cheating.


Sometimes people boast of being faithful, not being the cheating type, thinking that it only takes sex to cheat on ones partner, husband or wife.


1. Material infidelity; when you have a property that your partner, husband or wife is not aware of, or lacks full knowledge about, or has not seen, you are materially unfaithful to your partner, husband or wife. I read a story of a woman who owned a house before marriage, after marriage, she made her husband rent that her property for them, and the man pays the rent to his wife through an agent, this woman may not have had sex with someone else except her husband but she has committed or is committing material infidelity. She has cheated on her husband, she is an unfaithful wife.


2. Financial infidelity; when your partner, husband or wife, does not know how much you earn, how much you worth, you are financially unfaithful to your partner, husband or wife.

There may be good reasons why some people may not want to fully disclose their earnings or salary to their partners, husbands or wives, but still it is financial infidelity. When you hide money up and down in the house so that your partner, husband or wife does not know you have the money, it is financial infidelity. Your salary is 100k and you told your partner, husband or wife, your salary is 50k, it is financial infidelity. When you have some money, and your partner, husband or wife is looking for just a fraction of what you have to solve a problem, you are financially unfaithful to your partner. You may not SEE MORE AT http://www.thisdaymom.com/2017/11/infidelitycheating-in-relationship.html

Il cheat when I'm married
Its just too certain

EVERYONE CHEATS O....

if you wish your husband or wife can do sex better or like someone u had in your past or like a movie you watched or a gist from a friend... THEN YOU ARE CHEATING.

IF you wish your spouse had more money or business sense or beauty or character like another person... THAT'S CHEATING....


COMPARISON is a subtle kind of cheating and everyone cheats...

you are very correct, everyone cheats, not just the physical act of having sex

greatnaija01:
EVERYONE CHEATS O....

if you wish your husband or wife can do sex better or like someone u had in your past or like a movie you watched or a gist from a friend... THEN YOU ARE CHEATING.

IF you wish your spouse had more money or business sense or beauty or character like another person... THAT'S CHEATING....


COMPARISON is a subtle kind of cheating and everyone cheats...

you may marry someone you love so much and you wont have the mind to cheat on the person.

Rayhandrinni:
Il cheat when I'm married

Its just too certain

Thisdaymom:

you may marry someone you love so much and you wont have the mind to cheat on the person.

I will cheat, love remains love and lust remains lust

so you will cheat out of lust?

Rayhandrinni:
I will cheat, love remains love and lust remains lust

Thisdaymom:

so you will cheat out of lust?

yes I will

differentiate between love and lust

Rayhandrinni:
yes I will

my GF doesnt know where i work, she also doesnt know how much i make.
its none of her business.
i'll give her any amount she asks for no questions asked.but she doesnt have a clue about my bank details.

Thisdaymom:

differentiate between love and lust

do I have to do all that?

your girlfriend? she is is still a visitor, when she becomes your wife and an integral part of your life are your going to treat her that way?

ubunja:
my GF doesnt know where i work, she also doesnt know how much i make.
its none of her business.
i'll give her any amount she asks for no questions asked.but she doesnt have a clue about my bank details.

yes, so that i will be sure you are not mixing up the two, and also educate me more on lust

Rayhandrinni:
do I have to do all that?

Thisdaymom:

your girlfriend? she is is still a visitor, when she becomes your wife and an integral part of your life are your going to treat her that way?

i will treat her worse so she doesnt relax and think her work is done.she will be kept on her toes thru-out and feel she will be fired for any small mistake..i make life hard for women

Thisdaymom:

yes, so that i will be sure you are not mixing up the two, and also educate me more on lust

have strong sexual desire for someone.

that is lust right? and love?

Rayhandrinni:
have strong sexual desire for someone.

Thisdaymom:

that is lust right? and love?

lust

. like you are doing her a favor by marrying her?
you should not be married then. why not remain single, instead of dreaming how to make life bad for an innocent woman.

ubunja:

i will treat her worse so she doesnt relax and think her work is done.she will be kept on her toes thru-out and feel she will be fired for any small mistake..i make life hard for women

Thisdaymom:

. like you are doing her a favor by marrying her?
you should not be married then. why not remain single, instead of dreaming how to make life bad for an innocent woman.

why dont u tell that to millions of women getting married to ruin men's happiness with their control manipulation and drama
how many married men do u know that are trully happy and trully free to be who they are and to do what they like

ubunja:

why dont u tell that to millions of women getting married to ruin men's happiness with their control manipulation and drama
how many married men do u know that are trully happy and trully free to be who they are and to do what they like

TYou have a poin

well, its ur choice and life, live it

Kobicove:


TYou have a poin

I hate someone cheating on me or with me, annoying and I can't forgive that.

nobody loves being cheated on, you only have to forgive and move on when it happens

I hate someone cheating on me or with me, annoying and I can't forgive that.