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| Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by AvatarMode(m): 12:20am On Nov 13, 2017 |
I must confess with no intention to offend any( but in real life, folks must be offended), why is it that some ladies- in fact most ladies just 'turn foolish' as soon as a good guy tells them that he is interested in them? They start avoiding his calls, not calling him, not returning his calls, texting him and not replying his texts. Is it that, they are not ready for emotional relationship of such nature or what? And when the good guy gets tired and logs out and meet a simple lady who knows what's up and likes him and would not let him go, then the same old 'shakara madam' begins to act 'jealous'. Please I need contributions. 1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by lilmax(m): 12:25am On Nov 13, 2017 |
AvatarMode:yep....that sums it up |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by GloriaNinja(f): 12:26am On Nov 13, 2017 |
SOME MEN DON'T KNOW THAT NO MEANS NO... 4 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by lalanice(f): 12:39am On Nov 13, 2017 |
who is now d simple lady u meet  atleast she is a "lady". and she is not "foolish" for accepting you right8 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 12:42am On Nov 13, 2017 |
u give a gurl yes or no when u ask her out, it best to try as a friend and let see how it goes, just stay away from friendzone, and lastly sendless aid sometime  |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by wickyyolo: 12:44am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Bros, naija women are programmed like that. After dating a white girl I find it hard to date a Nigerian girl. Due to their low intellect. My advice is this, if a girl you tried to ask out doesn't reply your missed call forget about her and move on. Persistent isn't good in matters of the heart. 31 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by ArchangeLucifer: 1:01am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Most Naija girls are immature. Once they see you are interested in them, they start acting like kids. Once you move on and get someone else, they start bugging you. They really lack maturity. A strong person will say "Yes" or "No" & stand by it. Some will call you once they've been impregnated so they can tempt you and pin it on you if you're not careful. 2 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Pheals(f): 1:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Not all gals bro... Later u will say girls are cheaps arrgh  it's well o.. U better drop girls matter now and sleep... |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by wHyyyyyyyyyY: 1:25am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Pheals:c ur mouth. Is dat crayon u paint in ur lips? 1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Draei: 5:50am On Nov 13, 2017 |
GloriaNinja:Alright and at age 40, you'd start laying blames on nature for being single huh? Or you'd start becoming punctual at prayer grounds for being divorced over & over again after saying YES to different sets of wrong men.? mtcheeew! 3 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Bibi294(f): 6:19am On Nov 13, 2017 |
The op is confused, some guys can choke someone all in the name of love.... If a girl doesn't love you, just accept and leave! Naija girls this, naija girls that! Wetin we do una... If a girl rejects u, another one I'll accept... One man's food, another man's poison 10 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by makydebbie(f): 6:25am On Nov 13, 2017 |
OP, stop moving with children before I arrest you for child abuse. 6 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by donstan18: 6:28am On Nov 13, 2017 |
They don't want to be cheap!, Or they don't love the person! Because, a lady that fancy and love you will form but, won't waste time to accept you! 5 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by femi4: 6:43am On Nov 13, 2017 |
AvatarMode:She's not just into you. You are the foolish one not to read the handwriting on the wall 10 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by pocohantas(f): 7:02am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Some of you guys are just too stupid to know when you're not wanted. Later you blame it on being a good guy. Isn't it good guys we see their prewedding pictures all over frontpage? Know when you're wanted. If you are not wanted, bounce with your self esteem intact. Anything else would result in you being manipulated. A girl knows a guy she can fuk or date within a short time, every other nonsense, are formalities. Your so called 'bad guys' know this, not like they have any special trick they use. Damn!!! Men whining so much these days. 20 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by makydebbie(f): 7:05am On Nov 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:I tell you sis.  2 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by pocohantas(f): 7:09am On Nov 13, 2017 |
makydebbie: Ahnahn. It calls for attention, stop laughing o. This Buhari government sha, it has turned our men to nags. |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 7:26am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Our Girls Have Gone Mad Again. Lemme come and be running o |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 7:29am On Nov 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:your black is beautiful |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by makydebbie(f): 7:34am On Nov 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:They're not also helping matters. Most of them with misplaced priorities.  |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by rex444(m): 7:35am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Still think western ladies have a different sense of expressing emotions 1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Darkseid(m): 7:37am On Nov 13, 2017 |
I live by one rule; if I call a girl like three times in one week and she doesn't call me at least once the next week, I'll just delete her number from my phone. I hate people bothering me so I'll just assume that I'm bothering her and that she ain't interested. 12 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by pocohantas(f): 7:39am On Nov 13, 2017 |
rex444: And the western ladies are dealing with you Nigerian guys or you people go there and drop your sanctimonious attitude? Western girl off pyant and hangs leg for you on first date, you call her mature. Let Naija girl try ordinary kiss...olosho! Shift jare. makydebbie: If one no work, move to another. If it continues like that, he should check himself or his village people. So many straight girls are now single. Being in a relationship with these niggurs feels like you're in a homosexual relationship. I can't deal... Buhari mustn't win next election.7 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by rex444(m): 7:46am On Nov 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:My dear, Buhari must not win oooo...Aha point of correction,having a different view might not entirely mean positive in all aspect. Don't get me wrong,una sef get una own |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by tosyne2much(m): 7:52am On Nov 13, 2017 |
I think this is very simple.. When you try to get entangled with a lady and then she starts showing disinterest attitude, it's better you save yourself from embarrassment and protect your self esteem by backing off. Guys who have nothing spectacular going on in their lives are usually the ones that struggle and wrestle with women to date them 9 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by NightHound(m): 7:58am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Op, her 'jealousy' should not be your concern anymore. People can act jealous when someone they've been close to moves on even when they themselves do not want to be with the person. It's an ego thing, not a heart thing. Given the chance to do it over, she'll probably make the same decision. Just accept that, by cutting you off, she meant to discourage your interest. There's nothing foolish about that. |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by makydebbie(f): 8:07am On Nov 13, 2017 |
pocohantas:Don't mind them and their hypocritical attitude. They just want to shame Nigerian ladies so they'll make foolish excuses for the western girl. If one no work, they'll come to nl and start crying with stupid generalizations. If the op finds himself always being snubbed, he better check himself. He has even forgotten he's what he attracts. Buhari must not win oo, if not we're finished.  I'm off to work babe, see you later. |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Lalas247(f): 8:30am On Nov 13, 2017 |
But why can’t some guys just read between the fuvking lines Some guys too are foolish I have to agree with tosyne2much no matter how painful but he is right ... u clearly lack th skills to get a decent lady failed attempts pushed u to create a topic to cry.. Look in the mirror and stop dating dregs nonsense ...1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Nobody: 8:41am On Nov 13, 2017 |
If she's into you, she'll accept your proposal. And I hope you have something good going on in your life. 1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by Medicineguy: 8:59am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Darkseid:love this comment...Dating Drills by Hardon should be made compulsory and must be read by every male before u register an account in nairaland..so many beta males complaning and confused..that is why ugly, looking females with nothing to write home about is getting more confident by the day because of this crybabies...they are the type that will thank a woman for adding them on facebook 1 Like |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by zinizta: 9:02am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Judging By The Comments Here Some Ladies Have Problems Understanding Comprehension. For Emphasis I Would Summarize What The OP Stated In A Nutshell. He Gets Turn Down By A Lady Moves On To Another But The Former Starts Acting Jealous And Wants Him Now That He Has Moved On. So What Is The Connection With "Men nagging" Or Not Being Able To Deal With Rejection? Oh! I Get It The Going-Ons In Your Private Lives Is Creating A Barrier Of Interference To Your Understanding. 11 Likes |
| Re: Most Ladies 'become Foolish' When You Tell Them You Are Interested. Why? by newslifeop: 9:06am On Nov 13, 2017 |
Interested in.what . Sex or spend 1 Like |
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