Hello all.I am married with my husband for 1 year now we had our tuff times before but now we are ok just that i think he doesnt see my effort.Even when we were nit married i cared about him i cooked and clean and did all for him and now of course more but he always comes with some complain.He doesnt have work.I cook clean and do everythig to please him but he still see me as nothing and always makes me feel like he is smarter then me or how i am not doing something good enough .He had relationship before for 9 years with Nigerian lady that dumped him he always saying good thinfs about her.Few months ago i found out he was saying bad thngs about me to his nigerian female friend how i dont even know how to boil water for rice and how i only know how to spread legs.And yes i am white woman and he is Nigerian.He always talks how white women are not good for anything and how blacks are best etc...it pains me all..What should I do??

Ask him what the problem is

Do you know how to do snake style??

Na white woman English be ds?

Well u guess you saw d signs before

Europija:
Hello all.I am married with my husband for 1 year now we had our tuff times before but now we are ok just that i think he doesnt see my effort.Even when we were nit married i cared about him i cooked and clean and did all for him and now of course more but he always comes with some complain.I cook clean and do everythig to please him but he still see me as nothing and always makes me feel like he is smarter then me or how i am not doing something good enough .He had relationship before for 9 years with Nigerian lady that dumped him he always saying good thinfs about her.Few months ago i found out he was saying bad thngs about me to his nigerian female friend.And yes i am white woman and he is Nigerian.He always talks how whitr won are not good for anything and how blacks are best etc...it pains me all..What should I do??

leave him..u cant kill ur self for man..

What can I say? I've never been married

If all you have said is true, dump is sorry a$$ asap.

khome:
Ask him what the problem is

I think that the op is ugly and not attractive


He married her for visa

This one na obviously green card marriage.op the nigerian guy does not love u.he married you for green card and now he can't stand ur presence.make u oyibo women dey wise up abeg.

And why are you always emphasizing on cook and clean.. Are you a maid??

Unfortunately for you, there's nothing you can do except to leave the marriage .

It's almost very impossible to forget someone whom you dated for 9years .


And stop emphasizing on this your "I'm white" crap. It doesn't count and even makes me wanna dump you too

lefulefu:
This one na obviously green card marriage.op the nigerian guy does not love u.he married you for green card and now he can't stand ur presence.make u oyibo women dey wise up abeg.

can i get your contact?

you will appreciate what you have until you lose it....


He is a nigeria man right? You are from where

In Your place am sure your people welcome divorce. Divorce him and be free let him go and marry is ex who dumped him...


Btw, you saw all the signs and wonders yet you married him..


Chai, you fall hand oh..
All your threads are about ur nigeria husband..
You be M.U.M.U

Europija:
can i get your contact?

my contact? Is there something u want to say?

lefulefu:
my contact? Is there something u want to say?

i want you to tel me.more about my case

RETIREDMUMU:
your husband doesn't see ur worth and see u as nothing

hqve u tried to have a heart to heart conversation with him

any of his relative, father or mother you have this issue discussed with.

don't think u will find best and reasonable advice here, unless you wanna break ur marriage with foolish, brat, insensible, kids we have here.

by the way u are a white and u can't compose correct English

Not every white person is English or speaks English

Why not discuss with an Older married woman? Most of those who will advice you here are single who doesn't know what marriage entails. They will actually leave you more confused than you were.

Europija:
i want you to tel me.more about my case

lol there's nothing more to say about ur case.ur husband is still in love with his ex.

lefulefu:
my contact? Is there something u want to say?

i pity u. Na scammer dey behind dis moniker

lefulefu:
lol there's nothing more to say about ur case.ur husband is still in love with his ex.

why are you so sure about it??

Only1mi:


Not every white person is English or speaks English

white are Caucasians are Europian


other colour are Asian, african,

so almost Caucasians must atleast good in written language.


don't mention me again

yeyerolling:
i pity u. Na scammer dey behind dis moniker

i know.i don already check her DP.looks fakish.

RETIREDMUMU:


white are Caucasians are Europian


other colour are Asian, african,

so almost Caucasians must atleast good in written language.


don't mention me again

buhari pickin

lefulefu:
buhari pickin

Scammer alert

Divorce him asap

dyze:
Na white woman English be ds?

Well u guess you saw d signs before

For all it is worth, you are not fit to criticize anyone's post because you sulk at the art of written communication.

Why are you asking us?..did you ask us before you got married?..did you ask us when the going was good?....abeg carry your cross

Europija:
why are you so sure about it??

cos he keeps talking about his ex.is dat not what u said.just divorce him and look for another nigerian guy to marry if for u its all about a black guy.or maybe u can shelf the idea of dating nigerian men and travel to kenya for a kenyan husband.i heard kenyan guys got jungle fever for white women.

lefulefu:
cos he keeps talking about his ex.is dat not what u said.just divorce him and look for another nigerian guy to marry if for u its all about a black guy.or maybe u can shelf the idea of dating nigerian men and travel to kenya for a kenyan husband.i heard kenyan guys get jungle fever for white women.

he talks about her but not as before pls if u have time look.other my topics about it all n let me know ur opinion then