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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Only1mi(f): 10:37pm On Nov 14, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:


white are Caucasians are Europian


other colour are Asian, african,

so almost Caucasians must atleast good in written language.


don't mention me again undecided

Get your info right, Europe is not made of only English speaking countries.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by YoungDaNaval(m): 10:52pm On Nov 14, 2017
teresafaith:
And why are you always emphasizing on cook and clean.. Are you a maid??
So it's now a crime to cook and wash for your hubby okwaya?

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Marcelo290(m): 11:36pm On Nov 14, 2017
The worst disaster that would befall you is taking the advice of some people here. They are inexperienced and know nothing about relationships and marriages so all they would tell you is "dump him bla bla bla".

Now let's be logical and view things from both ends. Firstly, it could be that your husband married you for papers. it is a bitter thing to say but some realities are difficult to come to terms with. He may also still be in love with his ex. Because of the aforementioned, he sees nothing interesting about you apart from the sex cos he never loved you. If this be the case, it would take the grace of God to avert the impending doom I'm seeing ready to befall your marriage.

On the second hand, he may be facing serious depression. That shii is very bad and can make people behave unruly hence you said he is jobless.

Solution: Like some few people have already said, have a heart to heart discussion with him, he is your husband as well as your soul mate. Only there and then would you know what is wrong with him and why he behaves so, I guess the communication in your relationship is at the lowest minimum.

Divorce is only but a last resort when every ill fails, for now just keep trying to make things work, marriage is meant to be enjoyed not endured but give it time, no relationship is 100% perfect.

I hope this helps....

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:42pm On Nov 14, 2017
this man will cheat on you or he is already,he has no job but complains how you are no good,dump his ass,there are many good guys outside

why do you girls fall for the wrong ones,he has no ambition,guess you attached to him because he bleeps well but anyway a man without job Bleep eat,drink,visit friends and sleep,dump his ass before it is too late.

he is not a baby and shouldnt be spoon fed ,if he loves you,,he would have hustle to support you,seems you pet him too much and tolerate him

the fact remains you will lose attraction to him after some time of he not bringing in income to support the house,i wonder when you have kids how will you cope with an unemployed man.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 12:46am On Nov 15, 2017
How the hell did you ever meet somebody like that? When you were dating him, what was he like? Were this signs obvious? He is surely not a good person, if all what you wrote up there is true . He has a very low self esteem and he keeps picking on you to feel a little bit better about himself. So annoying. I advise you guys to maybe meet a therapist or an Older person in the family you really respect to talk things over. Make him realize some thinga about him that are wrong. Set some standards and put your foot down. You are your own human being and nobody should dare drag you down be it your husband or anybody.

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 1:16am On Nov 15, 2017
shimmer1:
How the hell did you ever meet somebody like that? When you were dating him, what was he like? Were this signs obvious? He is surely not a good person, if all what you wrote up there is true . He has a very low self esteem and he keeps picking on you to feel a little bit better about himself. So annoying. I advise you guys to maybe meet a therapist or an Older person in the family you really respect to talk things over. Make him realize some thinga about him that are wrong. Set some standards and put your foot down. You are your own human being and nobody should dare drag you down be it your husband or anybody.
op na troll oo.we were just humouring him/her.creates same thread over and over again grin.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Ejaculate: 1:38am On Nov 15, 2017
Europija:
Hello all.I am married with my husband for 1 year now we had our tuff times before but now we are ok just that i think he doesnt see my effort.Even when we were nit married i cared about him i cooked and clean and did all for him and now of course more but he always comes with some complain.He doesnt have work.I cook clean and do everythig to please him but he still see me as nothing and always makes me feel like he is smarter then me or how i am not doing something good enough .He had relationship before for 9 years with Nigerian lady that dumped him he always saying good thinfs about her.Few months ago i found out he was saying bad thngs about me to his nigerian female friend how i dont even know how to boil water for rice and how i only know how to spread legs.And yes i am white woman and he is Nigerian.He always talks how white women are not good for anything and how blacks are best etc...it pains me all..What should I do??



madam pls stop disturbing our peace here! every time you come around its contents about your husband. why don't you overlook certain things he does? the other day he was watching porn you came by screaming he is watching blacks! well go and buy black paint and use it to paint your skin maybe that would make you feel best from inferiority complex.

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by luminouz(m): 1:44am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
my contact? Is there something u want to say?
Ghen ghen!!! tongue
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 1:50am On Nov 15, 2017
luminouz:

Ghen ghen!!! tongue
na troll grin
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by luminouz(m): 1:51am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:

na troll grin
Hahaha
I for say ur dollar ATM don arrive ooo!!! tongue
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 1:53am On Nov 15, 2017
luminouz:

Hahaha
I for say ur dollar ATM don arrive ooo!!! tongue
werey grin
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by rex444(m): 5:31am On Nov 15, 2017
What exactly do u cook? U know,the best way to get to naija men is thru thr stomach.....
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 6:34am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:

op na troll oo.we were just humouring him/her.creates same thread over and over again grin.
grin grin grin
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by UfuomaUN(m): 7:31am On Nov 15, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:
your husband doesn't see ur worth and see u as nothing undecided

hqve u tried to have a heart to heart conversation with him

any of his relative, father or mother you have this issue discussed with.

don't think u will find best and reasonable advice here, unless you wanna break ur marriage with foolish, brat, insensible, kids we have here.

by the way u are a white and u can't compose correct English lipsrsealed
na wah

what if she's Italian or Austrian?
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by dyze(m): 8:24am On Nov 15, 2017
dollyjoy:
For all it is worth, you are not fit to criticize anyone's post because you sulk at the art of written communication.

Hmmm. I will not stoop low to dignify you with a long response

You can go to the part of hell where the fire burns hottest and whine about people's post.

Better mind your business with your two left leg and get a life.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Oksman(m): 8:59am On Nov 15, 2017
dyze:
Na white woman English be ds?
Well u guess you saw d signs before
She could be a German, French, Italian etc. Not all whites are English!
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Oksman(m): 8:59am On Nov 15, 2017
dyze:
Na white woman English be ds?
Well u guess you saw d signs before
She could be a German, French, Italian etc. Not all whites are English!
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by dyze(m): 9:25am On Nov 15, 2017
Oksman:


She could be a German, French, Italian etc.
Not all whites are English!

You are right bro.

No mind our naija mentality jare say all white suppose fit speak English grin
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Stellamariss(f): 9:59am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
This one na obviously green card marriage.op the nigerian guy does not love u.he married you for green card and now he can't stand ur presence.make u oyibo women dey wise up abeg.
y is this guy always in every thread
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:18am On Nov 15, 2017
Stellamariss:
y is this guy always in every thread
is the threads that catch my interest that i click on.why do u have an issue if i click on every thread? Am i using your data?

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:23am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
is the threads that catch my interest that i click on.why do u have an issue if i click on every thread? Am i using your data?


grin
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:24am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
is the threads that catch my interest that i click on.why do u have an issue if i click on every thread? Am i using your data?
And why is she monitoring you

She must be on every thread too to have noticed
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:26am On Nov 15, 2017
KreativGenius:



grin
u dey mind dat small girl.post that i made yesterday evening she dey quote am this morning asking me oversabi question as if na her data i dey use.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:29am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
u dey mind dat small girl.post that i made yesterday evening she dey quote am this morning asking me oversabi question as if na her data i dey use.


You dey para. Your reply too hawt ! How your side?


You happy as una beat Argentina yesterday baa ?
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:40am On Nov 15, 2017
RETIREDMUMU:
your husband doesn't see ur worth and see u as nothing undecided

hqve u tried to have a heart to heart conversation with him

any of his relative, father or mother you have this issue discussed with.

don't think u will find best and reasonable advice here, unless you wanna break ur marriage with foolish, brat, insensible, kids we have here.

by the way u are a white and u can't compose correct English lipsrsealed

Not every white person is ENGLISH, or can SPEAK English. She simply said she is white. She didn't say she is English. Besides, who told you every Englishman speaks good English?
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:43am On Nov 15, 2017
KreativGenius:



You dey para. Your reply too hawt ! How your side?


You happy as una beat Argentina yesterday baa ?
i see highlights of the match this morning for tv.one of my guy say e sure say Argentina sell the match to uscheesy.i was more shocked than happy cos i be dey expect Argentina to beat uscheesy.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 11:47am On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:
i see highlights of the match this morning for tv.one of my guy say e sure say Argentina sell the match to uscheesy.i was more shocked than happy cos i be dey expect Argentina to beat uscheesy.


Argentina did it to boost our ego. It's a coy !


We Nigerians forget things too easily. Nigeria always wins friendly before the world cup nae, no be new thing. Them go reach world cup, na one loss, two draw them go take come back house. Abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii

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Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Oksman(m): 12:31pm On Nov 15, 2017
dyze:


You are right bro.

No mind our naija mentality jare say all white suppose fit speak English grin


grin you're right men.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 2:01pm On Nov 15, 2017
NoFavors:
And why is she monitoring you

She must be on every thread too to have noticed
no mind the oversabi housewife jor cheesy.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 3:27pm On Nov 15, 2017
KreativGenius:



Argentina did it to boost our ego. It's a coy !


We Nigerians forget things too easily. Nigeria always wins friendly before the world cup nae, no be new thing. Them go reach world cup, na one loss, two draw them go take come back house. Abegiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii
but when we enter a major tournament dem always dey beat us.we are yet to break dat jink cheesy
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by Nobody: 3:28pm On Nov 15, 2017
lefulefu:

but when we enter a major tournament dem always dey beat us.we are yet to break dat jink cheesy

Na scope na, to many una feel say una be eagles, them go roast them for barbecue when them reach there. We never know anything.
Re: My Husband Doesnt See My Worth And See Me As Nothing! by AryEmber(f): 5:02pm On Nov 15, 2017
teresafaith:
And why are you always emphasizing on cook and clean.. Are you a maid??
lemme guess, you're among the "I ain't your mama" crew, fire on!

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